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Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus?


I'm a Dominant and I like cunnilingus.
  33% (4)
I'm a Dominant and I dislike cunnilingus.
  8% (1)
I'm a Switch and I like cunnilingus.
  8% (1)
I'm a Switch and I dislike cunnilingus.
  8% (1)
I'm a submissive and I like cunnilingus.
  25% (3)
I'm a submissive and I dislike cunnilingus.
  16% (2)


Total Votes : 12
(last vote on : 5/25/2014 10:46:47 PM)
(Poll ended: 5/28/2014 11:59:00 AM)
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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 6/27/2014 6:24:09 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

Well, Collar Me men, do you desire giving women cunnilingus?

Some may not know... cunnilingus is giving oral pleasure to the vulva, clitoris and perhaps the surrounding areas.

Good to know... it's 6 minutes long...

http://youtu.be/JgtpOuxuoB0


WTF??????

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/2/2014 8:12:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

Well, Collar Me men, do you desire giving women cunnilingus?

Some may not know... cunnilingus is giving oral pleasure to the vulva, clitoris and perhaps the surrounding areas.

Good to know... it's 6 minutes long...

http://youtu.be/JgtpOuxuoB0


Who the FUCK doesn't like eating pussy?

(And, by the way, thanks for the play by play....I had to look up the word.......{WTF???? Over??????})

That's like asking a guy "do you like steak and mashed potatoes?"

(Are you on drugs?)

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/2/2014 8:23:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

Who the FUCK doesn't like eating pussy?

(And, by the way, thanks for the play by play....I had to look up the word.......{WTF???? Over??????})

That's like asking a guy "do you like steak and mashed potatoes?"

(Are you on drugs?)

Evidently, there are 4 dickwads who don't. And 2 of them call themselves subs....

This poll missed the category for feckwits who can only enjoy doing this while being "forced." As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/2/2014 10:05:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

Who the FUCK doesn't like eating pussy?

(And, by the way, thanks for the play by play....I had to look up the word.......{WTF???? Over??????})

That's like asking a guy "do you like steak and mashed potatoes?"

(Are you on drugs?)

Evidently, there are 4 dickwads who don't. And 2 of them call themselves subs....

This poll missed the category for feckwits who can only enjoy doing this while being "forced." As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!


I am going to buy a beach on the Pacific Ocean.

I'm going to post a sign that says "swimming is allowed, but only when there's water visible"

(Are there actually men that don't want to have their noses next to pussy? That's like the....okay....I'm done.....I'm lost here).

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/2/2014 11:25:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Based on past experience, I'd say *most* men who identify as Dom do not like eating pussy--I base this on actual willingness to do so in real life, not professions in a profile.

I'd also say a good proportion of men who don't identify as Dom don't eat pussy. I've dated quite a few in my 41 years, and would tolerate them when I was younger. I hate to say, I also handed out quite a few blowjobs to guys who never came close to reciprocating. I only recently identified how pissed off this makes me feel. It goes a long way towards explaining why I am now a demanding bratty "bottom" rather than continuing to label myself as a sub--because I am tired of being taken advantage of in this and several other ways.

You want endlessly-giving subs who deeply enjoy servicing you? Try giving a shit about *their* pleasure for once. I was sooooo effing sincere and service-oriented and it took many years to get it beat out of me. I now realize I have to be selfish and insist that my needs actually get taken care of, because it just won't happen otherwise.

Too many men are just *incredibly* selfish in bed.

Not kidding at all, there should be more in sex Ed about women's entire sexual anatomy, not just the strictly reproductive bits, but the clitoris, with which many men are apparently not familiar, or at least not aware of how important it is.

We should also teach young girls that sex is not just sexual intercourse, and it's not over when the guy comes.



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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 7:19:51 AM   
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Based on past experience, I'd say *most* men who identify as Dom do not like eating pussy--I base this on actual willingness to do so in real life, not professions in a profile.

I think your experience reflects reality.

I'd also say a good proportion of men who don't identify as Dom don't eat pussy.

Once again you seem to have a firm grasp of reality.


I've dated quite a few in my 41 years, and would tolerate them when I was younger. I hate to say, I also handed out quite a few blowjobs to guys who never came close to reciprocating. I only recently identified how pissed off this makes me feel.

I understand if your point is that you expected reciprocation for doing something that you don't find particularly enjoyable.
What I mean is :that you sucking his dick is something that makes him pretty happy...
what do you get out of it?
If having a cock in your mouth is something that makes your pink parts tingle then anything it does for him is really ancillary and whether you get "paid" for your blow job with some pussy eating (while it would be nice) is also ancillary.
If on the other hand sucking his cock is something,while it may not be particularly offensive it is not on your list of things "I just gotta do", you do in hopes of reciprocation.
Is that not something different? If you do not get what you "paid" for then you have every right to feel cheated.


It goes a long way towards explaining why I am now a demanding bratty "bottom" rather than continuing to label myself as a sub--because I am tired of being taken advantage of in this and several other ways.

So when it comes to oral..."you give what you get"?

You want endlessly-giving subs who deeply enjoy servicing you? Try giving a shit about *their* pleasure for once. I was sooooo effing sincere and service-oriented and it took many years to get it beat out of me. I now realize I have to be selfish and insist that my needs actually get taken care of, because it just won't happen otherwise.

Once again a pretty firm grip on the obvious

Too many men are just *incredibly* selfish in bed.

I think the word you are looking for is stingy. I bolded the proper use of the word selfish in the referenced remark.

Not kidding at all, there should be more in sex Ed about women's entire sexual anatomy, not just the strictly reproductive bits, but the clitoris, with which many men are apparently not familiar, or at least not aware of how important it is.

I was lucky when I was 17 my uncle paid me to take an intensive course in the sexual practices of the different ethnicities of the world. It was 6 long profound years of intensive study and practice but now, at the age of 69, I feel it was worth it. Every orgasim I give or recieve is a reflection of that dedicated study.

We should also teach young girls that sex is not just sexual intercourse, and it's not over when the guy comes.

Omg...forced sex after orgasm...whodathunkit?




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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 7:23:23 AM   
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As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!

Is not the very nature of d/s the actual or implied the real or ritual application of force?


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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 7:43:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!

Is not the very nature of d/s the actual or implied the real or ritual application of force?


This may be your version of Domination, but it is not mine. I prefer to use the velvet-gloves approach, not the iron fist.

The purest form of submission is inspired, not "forced" or demanded.

You must have me confused with wanting a mindless type of slave (which most are not), not a sub.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 8:17:54 AM   
thompsonx


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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!

Is not the very nature of d/s the actual or implied the real or ritual application of force?


This may be your version of Domination, but it is not mine. I prefer to use the velvet-gloves approach, not the iron fist.
Wouldn't this be implied vs. real force?

The purest form of submission is inspired, not "forced" or demanded.

the purest form of submission is inspired by the implied or real threat of force.

You must have me confused with wanting a mindless type of slave (which most are not), not a sub.

From having read your previous posts it would not be possible for me to make that mistake.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 10:51:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks to thompsonx for exemplifying exactly the jerkiness I was talking about. Arrogance, poor reading/listening skills and misogyny. SUCH an attractive combination!!


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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 11:11:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RareByrd

Thanks to thompsonx for exemplifying exactly the jerkiness I was talking about. Arrogance, poor reading/listening skills and misogyny. SUCH an attractive combination!!


We just like to tease one another, he acts more slutty than he really is. I think.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 12:10:02 PM   
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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 2:14:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		My experience has been quite different. I haven't been with a man that didn't love eating pussy or with a man that's been selfish in bed, this includes the two Doms I've had in my life long term, former Dom/husband and my current Master.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 3:53:23 PM   
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This poll missed the category for feckwits who can only enjoy doing this while being "forced." As if we FemDoms need to "force" our partners that they should be so honored, the punkassmfs!


I've come to the realisation that malesubs who want to be 'forced' into bifkin-gobbling and women who enjoy their bifkins being gobbled do not understand each other in some very fundamental way. To the women who say, triumphantly, "How can you be forced to do something you want to do anyway?" I'd reply, "Of course. It makes no sense. You want all this stuff to be logical? Seriously?"

And to the men, I'd repeat what only one female has ever had the guts to say to me. But as soon as you read it you'll think 'Doh, obviously!" This woman said, "Can you imagine how low you'd feel about yourself if you had to *force* a man to give you cunnilingus?"

My thoughts when she said that happened in quick succession and in this order:

1) No, because I haven't got a vagina.
2) In my 'forced pussy-eating' fantasy she either loves her vagina, doesn't care whether I love it or not because she's that confident, strong and full of herself, only cares about getting her pussy eaten and doesn't care about my feelings, or a combination of all three.
3) 'Ah. Yes. Sorry. Should have been bleeding obvious, but for some reason [see 1) and 2) above for clues] I didn't think of that.'

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 4:53:30 PM   
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Thanks to thompsonx for exemplifying exactly the jerkiness I was talking about. Arrogance, poor reading/listening skills and misogyny. SUCH an attractive combination!!


That is a gross mischaracterization of my position.
Where have I expressed any degree of misogyny?
I will cop to a certain level of arrogance but that is directly proportional to the self confidence created by intensive study and practice. A jerk I have been called by lesser than thee but never of the jerkiness you complain of in your post. Please list for me the things I have posted that have caused you to so besmirch my good name so that I may answer the charges against me.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 4:57:26 PM   
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We just like to tease one another, he acts more slutty than he really is. I think.


Actually when I am around you I try real hard to keep it turned down...cuz I ama scheeming to get in yer knickers and If you go a thinkin' I'm some ol horn dawg...well I am pretty sure that dawg wont hunt.


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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 5:08:52 PM   
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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 5:11:39 PM   
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My word, there's lead in the old pencil yet, eh Thompson?


Actually it is an ageing mt blanc snorkle. Lucky for me I seqestered a supply of ink

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 7:28:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RareByrd

I'd also say a good proportion of men who don't identify as Dom don't eat pussy.

Once again you seem to have a firm grasp of reality.
<snip>

This hasn't been my experience since my vanilla 20's--it was only true in my teens with boys my age, who weren't mature enough to unzip their own pants or know what they were doing in bed.

Like InHisHeart, it hasn't been an issue, and if it had been, that dude wouldn't have lasted past our first encounter, if that far. And Peon, being "forced" is more a guy thing. I'm not saying that there aren't women who enjoy this, but it would it would fall roughly into two types of scenarios. She only wants to get herself off at the time, much like a quickie, or else this is with a new sex partner. Then it can be hot. But with a steady sex partner, no woman wants to have to always be "forcing" her man; it's more exciting for him to want it more often than she does, or lets on that she does.

Take this insider tip to heart, the more often a man shows passionate desire for his lover, the more turned on a woman will be inclined to get MORE OFTEN. This type of mock-submissive behavior is limiting your prospects in the long run and shouldn't become an ingrained pattern,* not unless having more sex with your woman isn't a priority for you or for other guys.

ETA: * unless it's part of the ground rules set down by the Domme, and you have agreed to abide by them.

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RE: Do Most CM Men Desire Giving Women Cunnilingus? - 7/3/2014 8:50:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Desire cunnilingus? I yearn for it...and analingus, too! As a switch, I love being Queened, or having my "lil girl" straddle Daddy's face. Either way, it's pure bliss!!!

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