FieryOpal
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Joined: 12/8/2013 From: Maryland Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Your post, options, and questions, are oxymorons. The title asks if the men here enjoy giving........but the options in the poll ask if dominants enjoy giving. Which is it, men or dominant persons? Unless I am mistaken, are you implying that Dominants don't enjoy giving or desire to give oral sex? I'm not speaking of tease & denial and/or edging, or what Dommes choose to do or not do with their sub partners, but strictly having to do with Doms and cunnilingus. There are Doms and their subs who are into "forced" orgasms, making this act more BDSMy, whether it incorporates bondage or not. This is just another element or tool in the metaphorical toolbox which a Dominant can use to assert dominance. The reality alone that a male can take charge and be in control of *orchestrating* orgasms for a woman who is orgasmic while receiving oral can be viewed as a vanilla sexual act or get as kinky as both parties desire it to get. In either event, the female receiving can be as passive, receptive, submissive, pro-active, participatory/interactive, assertive, or as aggressive and domineering as she chooses to be or not to be. I don't see any incongruency with male dominance. In most intimately sexual D/s relationship dynamics, it has been agreed that the Dominant has use of the submissive he owns, within previously consented-upon limits. Am I missing something here?
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