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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/24/2014 10:02:47 AM   
Arturas


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Status: offline 		I think this is a lot about nothing. Most likely he is kidding you. Otherwise, you badly chose your partner. Which is it?

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/24/2014 3:44:42 PM   
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I think this is a lot about nothing. Most likely he is kidding you. Otherwise, you badly chose your partner. Which is it?


Neither.....because I didn't choose any of them as a partner.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 11:58:24 AM   
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But out of the ones that actually made it long enough so that I eventually invited them to my apartment...


Really? So you are Okay because even though they are in your apartment they are not your "partner", and even though you are alone with them and brought them into your apartment then you did not "choose" them. Oh please. I'm done.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 12:03:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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But out of the ones that actually made it long enough so that I eventually invited them to my apartment...


Really? So you are Okay because even though they are in your apartment they are not your "partner", and even though you are alone with them and brought them into your apartment then you did not "choose" them. Oh please. I'm done.




Look smile, christmas came early.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 3:03:16 PM   
Arturas


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I sorry, you did not like my opinion on this? OMG, I am destroyed by that notion. Let's instead pretend the OP makes sense when she brings home more than one guy and thinks they are not Doms because they joke about being told what to do about the bathroom door, of all things and let's pretend the problem is with these guys rather than the OP thinking an off the wall statement makes these guys less of the Dom she though she brought home. Behind a closed door. But we cannot because it does not make sense. So, quess what I think, I think this is nonsense and the OP should be asking how to judge a man before she brings him home behind a locked door rather than whining, about her failures, here in this drama queen thread.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 3:07:49 PM   
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Yeah, I sorry, you did not like my opinion on this? OMG, I am destroyed by that notion. Let's instead pretend the OP makes sense when she brings home more than one guy and thinks they are not Doms because they joke about being told what to do about the bathroom door, of all things and let's pretend the problem is with these guys rather than the OP thinking an off the wall statement makes these guys less of the Dom she though she brought home. Behind a closed door. But we cannot because it does not make sense. So, quess what I think, I think this is nonsense and the OP should be asking how to judge a man before she brings him home behind a locked door rather than whining, about her failures, here in this drama queen thread.


I keep telling the silly bitch that when the sign says, "Will Dom for food" they really don't mean it. They just want to move and have her kneel down, suck cock, and continue to pay the rent.

I do admire your resolve though, when you say you are done, you really mean it.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 3:13:13 PM   
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Yeah, I sorry, you did not like my opinion on this? OMG, I am destroyed by that notion. Let's instead pretend the OP makes sense when she brings home more than one guy and thinks they are not Doms because they joke about being told what to do about the bathroom door, of all things and let's pretend the problem is with these guys rather than the OP thinking an off the wall statement makes these guys less of the Dom she though she brought home. Behind a closed door. But we cannot because it does not make sense. So, quess what I think, I think this is nonsense and the OP should be asking how to judge a man before she brings him home behind a locked door rather than whining, about her failures, here in this drama queen thread.


I keep telling the silly bitch that when the sign says, "Will Dom for food" they really don't mean it. They just want to move and have her kneel down, suck cock, and continue to pay the rent.

I do admire your resolve though, when you say you are done, you really mean it.



But I have been done with her. You however have my attention with your cute little icons and BS long winded responses to non-issues. You must know, I do admire your resolve to waste your time and mine.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 3:23:43 PM   
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But I have been done with her. You however have my attention with your cute little icons and BS long winded responses to non-issues. You must know, I do admire your resolve to waste your time and mine.


I cannot help myself. I find the Arturas sagas fascinating and can spend hours pouring over the archives reading them. I must say, it's top notch stuff, Norman would be envious of such a rising Star.


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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 4:07:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree that it is all in how you deliver the information.

"Sir, I wanted to let you know that the bathroom door can be finicky and doesn't shut properly."

versus

"Don't shut the bathroom door because it's broken."

A little respectful dialogue goes a long way.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 5:56:00 PM   
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I agree that it is all in how you deliver the information.

"Sir, I wanted to let you know that the bathroom door can be finicky and doesn't shut properly."

versus

"Don't shut the bathroom door because it's broken."

A little respectful dialogue goes a long way.


So totally agreed here. For me this is absolutely crucial if I'm going to coexist, there's no need to be snippy for no reason. Delivery and presentation of the message matters as much as the message itself.
Edited to add; PS, I am INTJ as well. :)

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/25/2014 8:51:55 PM   
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Look smile, christmas came early.

Don't hold your breath. Artie flounces early and often, yet he never really goes away (as is shown by his posts two slots below this flounce...)


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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 7:46:14 AM   
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Look smile, christmas came early.

Don't hold your breath. Artie flounces early and often, yet he never really goes away (as is shown by his posts two slots below this flounce...)

Hmmm...a lot like D.K.?

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 7:52:17 AM   
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2) Am I helping make the board a better place by posting what I am about to post?

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 8:18:38 AM   
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Before posting could you ask yourself the following questions

1) Does my post relate to the OP?
2) Am I helping make the board a better place by posting what I am about to post?

Thank you
Sorry, Mod 12.

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 9:04:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Moderator12

Before posting could you ask yourself the following questions

1) Does my post relate to the OP?
2) Am I helping make the board a better place by posting what I am about to post?

Thank you


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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 9:04:51 AM   
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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 5:19:24 PM   
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But out of the ones that actually made it long enough so that I eventually invited them to my apartment...


Really? So you are Okay because even though they are in your apartment they are not your "partner", and even though you are alone with them and brought them into your apartment then you did not "choose" them. Oh please. I'm done.



Sheesh....everybody has all this fun during the day when I'm at WORK and can't respond to things in shorter time.....

But I have to respond to this....

Um....yes....REALLY. Just because I have decided that I trust them enough to feel safe enough to have invited them into my apartment does NOT mean that I have decided I will submit to them. So NO....they are NOT my "partner"....they are simply someone I have invited into my apartment. And even IF I decide that I want to "play" with them or become physically intimate with them in some way still does NOT mean that I have decided to give them any kind of control.

Using your logic, it sounds like that just because any of them agreed to come into my apartment they are agreeing to give me a collar. Does the fact that they accept my offer to come into my apartment obligate them to give me a collar?

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 5:33:04 PM   
smileforme50


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Yeah, I sorry, you did not like my opinion on this? OMG, I am destroyed by that notion. Let's instead pretend the OP makes sense when she brings home more than one guy and thinks they are not Doms because they joke about being told what to do about the bathroom door, of all things and let's pretend the problem is with these guys rather than the OP thinking an off the wall statement makes these guys less of the Dom she though she brought home. Behind a closed door. But we cannot because it does not make sense. So, quess what I think, I think this is nonsense and the OP should be asking how to judge a man before she brings him home behind a locked door rather than whining, about her failures, here in this drama queen thread.


WTF??? I didn't say anything about them being or not being Doms. If you really read and understood the original post, you would see that the main reason I posted it was to ask if other people thought that what I said was "topping from bottom". I don't think that any of them making this comment to me makes them any more or any less "Dom"....and I never said that to begin with. All I was asking about was.....was my "telling" them to be careful with the bathroom door "topping from bottom"?

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 5:35:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas

Yeah, I sorry, you did not like my opinion on this? OMG, I am destroyed by that notion. Let's instead pretend the OP makes sense when she brings home more than one guy and thinks they are not Doms because they joke about being told what to do about the bathroom door, of all things and let's pretend the problem is with these guys rather than the OP thinking an off the wall statement makes these guys less of the Dom she though she brought home. Behind a closed door. But we cannot because it does not make sense. So, quess what I think, I think this is nonsense and the OP should be asking how to judge a man before she brings him home behind a locked door rather than whining, about her failures, here in this drama queen thread.


I keep telling the silly bitch that when the sign says, "Will Dom for food" they really don't mean it. They just want to move and have her kneel down, suck cock, and continue to pay the rent.

I do admire your resolve though, when you say you are done, you really mean it.


Well....you know us silly bitches....all we do is whine about our failures.....

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RE: Topping from Bottom? Really? - 9/26/2014 6:24:26 PM   
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But out of the ones that actually made it long enough so that I eventually invited them to my apartment...


Really? So you are Okay because even though they are in your apartment they are not your "partner", and even though you are alone with them and brought them into your apartment then you did not "choose" them. Oh please. I'm done.

So wait, everyone I bring into my apartment immediately becomes my partner?

And I'm pretty sure OP is in a better position than you to determine whether or not said Dom was joking.

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