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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 10/30/2014 8:18:52 PM   
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(1) 3 times a day.



3 times a day is great! Most men can't really do 3 times a day.



Honestly, for me it's about quality vs. quantity.

The way I had sex left me a mascara streaked, sore, wet mess, but happy.

So one amazing sex session was enough.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 10/30/2014 8:25:36 PM   
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snlp...

The way I had sex left me a mascara streaked, sore, wet mess, but happy.

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Yup

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 10/30/2014 8:57:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes DerangedUnit! I prefer the rarest of beast rather than the herd of sheep. Excellent defense. Bravo!

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 10/30/2014 9:52:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		i thought all slaves were meant to be sex slaves. surely a slave can't say "nah.. don't want it tonite"?

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/9/2014 11:45:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having a sex slave is not about having sex all of the time. It is for the comfort and convenience of having it whenever you want, whether that's several times a day, or once a month.

The point is having it and knowing it's there when you want it.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/13/2014 6:46:27 AM   
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Honestly, for me it's about quality vs. quantity.

The way I had sex left me a mascara streaked, sore, wet mess, but happy.

So one amazing sex session was enough.


Quantity in sex does not mean low quality. There is like 12 free hours a day, 3 times a day, could mean a nice leisure 3 hour sex session each time.

Anyway, my sex drive is unquenchable. The more I orgase, the higher my sex drives becomes, and it just wants more and more, so I need my quantity. I'm the one kind of woman who after a man spends 3 to 4 hours on foreplay already giving me loads of multiples, before he off load his load, and then while he off load, I am ready to start all over again. Usually a man penetrating me, is when I get to recharge. Since I get no vagina orgasms. It's probably the inability to vaginally orgase that makes me this way.


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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/13/2014 6:49:58 AM   
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i thought all slaves were meant to be sex slaves. surely a slave can't say "nah.. don't want it tonite"?

Yes they can say that, because it's consensual slavery and not real slavery. So when they say, "nah", they withdrew their consent at that moment.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/15/2014 3:56:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		In our case I can say nah all I want... most likely it will still happen. For us talk doesn't matter as much as action. He works on his feet 14 hours a day so early morning is the time when he has the most energy but I have an issue where if I'm woken up being impaled I will try to kill whoever is on top of me. At that point I can't think"oh it's daddy I don't want him dead that would be a pain to bury" I will panic and fight, then cry, then go comatose... not his fault, it's mine. So I stay up at night so that I'm not being woken up like that in the morning. There were cases where I was really hurting where I asked nicely for a raincheck, and he gives it but thats not something I would do lightly, fighting shows what I'm willing to risk to prevent it and there have been times when he asked nicely for me not to as well, and I focus and can manage. When your owner is twice your size sex is always going to leave you unable to walk after... and by the third round I'm usually pretty shaky but it's my job, he knows when I don't want something it's for good reason and trusts that, and I know that he would never hurt me on purpose, so we take the feelings of the other into consideration... as he says "it has to happen, but I don't want to break my shit" so eloquent :P

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/16/2014 12:01:51 AM   
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but I have an issue where if I'm woken up being impaled I will try to kill whoever is on top of me.

Oh, some past trauma reflex?

I've been dying to be waken up being impaled every day of my life. So hard to find a man who does that.

But your dom really sounds like an awesome person.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/16/2014 12:04:48 AM   
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Honestly, for me it's about quality vs. quantity.

The way I had sex left me a mascara streaked, sore, wet mess, but happy.

So one amazing sex session was enough.


Quantity in sex does not mean low quality. There is like 12 free hours a day, 3 times a day, could mean a nice leisure 3 hour sex session each time.

Anyway, my sex drive is unquenchable. The more I orgase, the higher my sex drives becomes, and it just wants more and more, so I need my quantity. I'm the one kind of woman who after a man spends 3 to 4 hours on foreplay already giving me loads of multiples, before he off load his load, and then while he off load, I am ready to start all over again. Usually a man penetrating me, is when I get to recharge. Since I get no vagina orgasms. It's probably the inability to vaginally orgase that makes me this way.



You go girl! I need to pass out after a screaming O. ;)

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/16/2014 12:35:11 AM   
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but I have an issue where if I'm woken up being impaled I will try to kill whoever is on top of me.

Oh, some past trauma reflex?

I've been dying to be waken up being impaled every day of my life. So hard to find a man who does that.

But your dom really sounds like an awesome person.


I'm told I had a crappy childhood, but I rather like how I turned out so I can work with some of the quirks :P

I wish I could switch to second shift, I tried getting him to find someone to cover first but he wont bite... at least it makes me feel important ha, of all the things to glean a sense of responsibility from XD

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/18/2014 9:33:53 AM   
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this is a question based on a discussion i had the other day where i was asked why men would behave a certain way... i didn't really have an answer. it came up again today so i figured i'd check out the archives but all i could find were threads(if you have a link to one that would be helpful) that stated what i thought without the "why". so here it goes:

how often do people looking for sex slaves actually use them for sex?

what i have found is that most only want sex a couple times a week, or once a day ranges near the top... he said that seems pointless, why have something if you dont use it.

so is there anyone who has experience with sex slaves that would like to share? or slaves that have encountered this as well or the opposite? feel free to leave an opinion if you dont look for sex slaves yourself but have encountered it as well.

i have my opinions but since they are limited to my own experiences and those of people i've been involved with i figured i'd see if someone could offer a broader scope of:

why someone would search for a sex slave if they dont intend to use it as such?







Think of what the difference is between a vanilla woman a man has sex with, and a sex slave. The difference is that the slave is required to be available for use at the Dom's whim. THAT is the appeal of the sex slave. Domination is about power and control (among other things) and the Dom derives satisfaction in knowing that the slave is obedient, and MUST provide sex any time he wishes.

That satisfaction remains constant whether he is having sex with her or not.

Why do people collect coins if they are not going to spend them? :)


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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/18/2014 9:38:07 AM   
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but I have an issue where if I'm woken up being impaled I will try to kill whoever is on top of me.

Oh, some past trauma reflex?

I've been dying to be waken up being impaled every day of my life. So hard to find a man who does that.

But your dom really sounds like an awesome person.


My little girl ends up out of the covers, and sleeps sort of half on her stomach, and half on her side, with one knee pulled up to her chest... meaning her pussy is exposed and available. When I wake up with a hardon in the middle of the night, it is pretty irresistible :)

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/18/2014 7:05:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah I have to stay really far away and really wrapped in covers... if I accidentally make contact while he is sleeping, he will start sleep humping me and it quickly progresses to no one sleeping for days until he passes out. I keep my distance so that he doesn't die from sleep deprivation lol

He likes all of his past girls to be fighters too though, I think it has something to do with a way of determining good breeding stock, like we are bulls.... good teeth, crazy eyes... it'll make for a good ride.

When this all started he wouldn't have sex with me before having my consent recorded... I said something along the lines of "you are free to try whatever you want" and it progressed thusly. He wants girls he knows will handle themselves and not lie and say "it's ok" just because they want someone to be happy, he's had girls do that who go to the hospital after they said they were fine so he's extra careful and doesn't like girls who just agree with him, and I don't like people who agree with me for the same reason, I have had so many doms who will say they want something and you say "are you sure?" And if you do it they just use it as an excuse to talk shit about you. The ability to be completely upfront with someone and know that if you have problems you handle them right then and there is one of the big ways he earned my respect.

If I kick most guys off of me they go and sit and pout about it(which is what prompted this thread, most of my doms I never had sex with because they expect girls to show up and spread their legs).... I find nothing less attractive and am progressively less likely to be agreeable. With him I got one warning, "if you meet me again I won't be able to hold back anymore, bad things are going to happen" and once I made that choice he didn't let up until I was his.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/29/2014 10:06:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Isn't a slave a slave in everything? If the slave is just a sex slave then it is very limited in usefulness. A slave sole desire is service. In all forms. If the slave is purly a sex slave then look for poly. That way the slave can be used by many in the one service it wants. Or find someone like me who has a extremely high sex drive ( without sounding like I am bragging, my current record is sex 20 times in a day ).
I have found many who are very limited in what service they wish to be, then are not happy to be used enough. Buy its like having a car that only turns right. How often would you drive it?

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/29/2014 10:18:08 AM   
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Isn't a slave a slave in everything? If the slave is just a sex slave then it is very limited in usefulness. A slave sole desire is service. In all forms. If the slave is purly a sex slave then look for poly. That way the slave can be used by many in the one service it wants. Or find someone like me who has a extremely high sex drive ( without sounding like I am bragging, my current record is sex 20 times in a day ).
I have found many who are very limited in what service they wish to be, then are not happy to be used enough. Buy its like having a car that only turns right. How often would you drive it?


That's not how I look at it. A person should not worry about what they have to do in order to fit a label. A label should approximate what a person is, but if the fit isn't 100%, that's on the label, not the person. Also, one person could be a sub in one relationship, a slave in another, and a Dom or Domme in a third. A label is not person-specific as much as relationship-specific.

"I have found many who are very limited in what service they wish to be, then are not happy to be used enough."

This bothers me. You imply that it's 100% the fault of the s type. In a relationship. the fault must be considered shared.

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RE: sex slaves, well utilized or not? - 11/29/2014 3:00:27 PM   
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Isn't a slave a slave in everything? If the slave is just a sex slave then it is very limited in usefulness. A slave sole desire is service. In all forms. If the slave is purly a sex slave then look for poly. That way the slave can be used by many in the one service it wants. Or find someone like me who has a extremely high sex drive ( without sounding like I am bragging, my current record is sex 20 times in a day ).
I have found many who are very limited in what service they wish to be, then are not happy to be used enough. Buy its like having a car that only turns right. How often would you drive it?

That's not how I look at it. A person should not worry about what they have to do in order to fit a label. A label should approximate what a person is, but if the fit isn't 100%, that's on the label, not the person. Also, one person could be a sub in one relationship, a slave in another, and a Dom or Domme in a third. A label is not person-specific as much as relationship-specific.

"I have found many who are very limited in what service they wish to be, then are not happy to be used enough."

This bothers me. You imply that it's 100% the fault of the s type. In a relationship. the fault must be considered shared.

What you say is true overall. Let me just add this, however. There are many male subs who are just one to two-trick ponies in F/m. I don't think this is nearly as prevalent among female subs. This is one of the (but certainly not the primary) reasons why it is sometimes necessary for a Domme to take on or collar multiple subs or have additional play partners (or else it could just be that the Dominant prefers to be poly, or has a primary partner who doesn't want to do any service Topping or has other Hard Limits not shared by the Dominant, etc.). Between the 2 or 3 of them, she might actually get her Dominant needs met, if not her BDSM-centric ones.

Just saying...

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