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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/24/2014 12:51:13 PM   
FieryOpal


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HeartAndSoul31
Exactly like Brad Pitt in Meet Joe Black.

OMG, perfect for when I was younger, when that movie came out. Since we're almost the same age, though, we would make a good match at any age yanno...if he hadn't gotten himself attached, that is.
But that's okay, I'll take whatever (age-appropriate) version of him that may be around to be had.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/24/2014 1:04:55 PM   
HeartAndSoul31


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Status: offline 		Yes what a dreamboat! The look is smoldering but with That around I wouldn't get a thing done.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/25/2014 6:01:51 AM   
maxcatt


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Status: offline 		Monogamous
Protective
Possessive (and a bit obsessive)
Dominant
Positive
Accepting
Strong
Loyal
Confident
Supportive
Caring
Loving
Vegan, or at least Vegetarian

One day I'll meet her. :3

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/25/2014 10:13:06 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, I have mine, married him.
But if he and I were describing her it would be:
Nice shape
Nice size boobs
Nice round butt
Smooth skin
Any color eyes other than brown
Dark hair...scratch that, she'll wear wigs. (I might want her blond)
Knows when to be quiet
Is a masocist


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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/25/2014 10:34:57 AM   
xgender


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Status: offline 		I don't see an ideal mate. I'll be ok with someone to talk with on occasion and someone with whom I may "get the kinks out" on a regular basis - though not necessarily the same people...


< Message edited by xgender -- 10/25/2014 10:38:13 AM >

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/25/2014 11:41:59 AM   
YouName


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Status: offline 		Someone whom refreshes your spark for that childish curiosity about life but also someone for whom you can do the same.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/26/2014 10:43:32 AM   
onlyfreelycaged


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Eat good food.
Be extremely consistent.
Support my creativity.
Know how to take the lead, and yield it.
Enjoy hurting me how I like to be hurt.
And becouse its my ideal mate... Have enough money that I can work part-time.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 10/30/2014 1:04:27 PM   
Kittyinchains


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Capable
Dominant and kinky
Good sense of humor
Good with his hands
Has a mind of his own
Is as protective of me as I am of Him
Highly intelligent
Calm
Trustworthy!
Understands people make mistakes
Forgiveness
POSSESSIVE over His property
Hypnosis ( able to access my mind totally)

Ps I already am owned by Him :-)

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/4/2014 10:07:03 PM   
Content4Now


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Status: offline 		When I was looking, I looked for
compassion, loyalty, humor, sweet personality, submissive, soft spoken, healthy, financially secure, emotionally secure, a bit of pain slut

what I got though was:
highly intelligent, strong, feisty, strong willed, outspoken with the mouth of a sailor, a dark and deadly sense of humor, emotionally detached, sarcastic, compassionate, caring, and masochistic in a way that almost caused me to walk away.

Good thing fate knows what she is doing

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/7/2014 1:20:19 PM   
Exidor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
8. Not requiring micromanagement


10-4. That broke up a couple of my relationships.

Just became I'm the dominant one doesn't mean I want to run her whole life for her.

There are probably some control-types out there for whom micromanagement is their dream, but for me, it gets very tiresome very fast.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/7/2014 4:36:30 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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Status: offline 		Loving.

Caring.

Here.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/9/2014 2:04:56 AM   
BecomingV


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
...if it were possible to find someone who embodies what you want, need and desire in your ideal mate and life partner, what would he or she be like


Feminist = fair-minded
Honest
Emotionally courageous
Passionate / Enthusiastic about something
Affectionate
Intelligent, with a global and liberal perspective
High sex drive
Enjoys laughing at themselves
Compassionate

And, it wouldn't hurt if they also shared my need for extensive travel. :)



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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/9/2014 10:33:13 PM   
Nakhla


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It seems kind of selfish to have such a list, but why not?

1. Monogamous ( the big one for me ).
2. Consistent.
3. Honest.
4. Direct ( knows what he wants ).
5. Dominant.
6. Enjoys structuring our life.
7. Durable ( can get back up when life goes wrong ).
8. Comfortable in his own skin ( not plagued with guilt issues or the like ).
9. Not an addict ( I can't deal with that stuff ).





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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/10/2014 10:55:57 PM   
ArachnidFrost


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1. Intelligent
2. open minded
3. Female
4. in shape
5. same age or younger then me
6. can tell when its ok to be consensual slave and when to act like a girl friend instead (in front of relatives and people that don't understand or except the life style)
7. Likes me for me and not for what I have or own.
8. doesn't lie to me
9. likes to experiment
10. Doesn't do illegal drugs
11. Makes me a better person as I make her a better person.

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/10/2014 11:20:24 PM   
xgender


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From: A psych ward east of the Mississippi
Status: offline 		Ideal mate? Doesn't exist...

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RE: How Do You Envision Your Ideal Mate? - 11/12/2014 12:51:27 PM   
RebeccaR


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Status: offline 		Being a very sexual person, my ideal would be two sexually dominant guys sharing me as their sex slave. Not looking for a relationship at this juncture.
For me the ideal is purely physical.

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