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ORIGINAL: HeartAndSoul31

Technically aren't bi sexual individuals just that? Bi meaning two? Half gay, half straight?
It would seem logical to me that based on each individual preference who is bi, percentage wise some will swing or prefer one gender more.
Some being 60/40, 80/20 in example. Couldn't that percentage also change whether its being based on casual sex and/or relationships.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
There's such a social stigma - even now - regarding bisexuality in men, that I could imagine only those men who were *very* into other men would self-identify as 'bisexual'. A man who, for instance, merely has the occasional fantasy about other men but rarely or never acts on it (much less take a long-term male partner) is much more likely to call himself 'heterosexual'.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
There's such a social stigma - even now - regarding bisexuality in men, that I could imagine only those men who were *very* into other men would self-identify as 'bisexual'. A man who, for instance, merely has the occasional fantasy about other men but rarely or never acts on it (much less take a long-term male partner) is much more likely to call himself 'heterosexual'.

Look at all that anime porn involving tentacles. I doubt any of the people who fantasize about that have ever gone looking for a live octopus. I'm not sure you can count fantasy. Because nowhere is it written that anyone who has a fantasy really wants to live it out.

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ORIGINAL: HeartAndSoul31

How about purple? Lol.
You said tut, is that English? and first thing I thought of was king tut. I went to you tube and found this and got to laughing.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wgTPH5y1-ZI&list=RDwgTPH5y1-ZI

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

ETA- what's more primal than just viewing it as holes to be filled?

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

ETA- what's more primal than just viewing it as holes to be filled?

You ninja'd that last in there, but I will happily address it. Again, from my perspective.

My Primal isn't physical grappling for the sake of satiating a physical want/need. It is everything about you; how you smell, how you taste, the feel of your skin, how your mood changes in flux with mine. How the pheromones ebb and flow. In a Primal moment, you will be surrounded by a cloud of concupiscence as my every action skates you close to the edge. Every sound you make, every drop of sweat, and every look of intensity that crosses over your face encourages my animal to be unleashed. The deeper into the primal state, the more intense everything becomes. Sound, sight, smell, touch, everything become hyper acute. The deeper you go with me, the stronger I connect to you on an spiritual leverl... transcendence of flesh and lost compeletely into one another. Physical leads to spiritual, spiritual leads to emotional, once all three are sated, we acheive nirvana.

However, If you are not primal, or have not unleashed your primal freak to its full potential, I may go faster and further than you. You can be lost in the moment as my hands control you, as I've ripped away your clothes, slammed you against the wall, and lay into you. I may bite too hard, scratch too rough, wrap your hair too tight... that primal cloud of concupisence and the connected energy will disapate, your energy changes, and it's in my best interest to bring you back into the cloud, but that depends on how much animal is off the leash.

So, as you can see, Primal means something a little more different to me. In a primal dynamic, walkng hand in hand through the woods, when I say run, you run. You know what is going to happen to you when I catch you, ready or not. If you're ready, you will run to build the anticipation of what is coming. If your not ready, you're running for a different reason, but you will be caught, you will have your clothes ripped from you, and you will be well and truley fucked by a Primal monster and all of your resistance and protests will be taken as encouragment (hence the panty ritual). Again, my perspective.

Jus sayin

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
Pegging just ain't my game. Because I'd view him as submissive to me.

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
Pegging just ain't my game. Because I'd view him as submissive to me.

I don't think using a strapon is an inherently dominant act, you might just need a different strapon:

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Peon bisexuality to me is kind of like an inside joke. Unless you're on the inside of it you won't get it. Que sera and all that. I need a manicure is the more pressing issue.

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ORIGINAL: Content4Now

~FR to no one in particular~

I am bisexual. I have always been sexually attracted to both men and women ( my interest peaked in high school ).

Relationship wise, I have almost always gravitated towards men. For me, the emotional attachment was stronger with a man than it was with a woman. However, sexually, I have always found that woman were more attractive than men.

Most of my long term relationships have been with men, with the exception being my current partner. But, the emotional attachment is not there. While we have respect, loyalty, caring, etc...she does not love me, and I do not love her. She is incapable of 'love' in terms of relationships, and I am incapable of bonding with a woman on that level.
This does not mean however, that I plan to leave her if I find a compatible male partner that I am capable of bonding with. Quite the opposite. It just means that our horizon's will be broadened to include one more. She is secure enough to know that I am with her for the long haul, and that is all that matters.

I am in agreement though that most women will scurry past a man who claims to be bisexual; or at least that has been my experience.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Why the double standard when it comes to men vs women?

ETA- what's more primal than just viewing it as holes to be filled?

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

ETA- what's more primal than just viewing it as holes to be filled?

You ninja'd that last in there, but I will happily address it. Again, from my perspective.

My Primal isn't physical grappling for the sake of satiating a physical want/need. It is everything about you; how you smell, how you taste, the feel of your skin, how your mood changes in flux with mine. How the pheromones ebb and flow. In a Primal moment, you will be surrounded by a cloud of concupiscence as my every action skates you close to the edge. Every sound you make, every drop of sweat, and every look of intensity that crosses over your face encourages my animal to be unleashed. The deeper into the primal state, the more intense everything becomes. Sound, sight, smell, touch, everything become hyper acute. The deeper you go with me, the stronger I connect to you on an spiritual leverl... transcendence of flesh and lost compeletely into one another. Physical leads to spiritual, spiritual leads to emotional, once all three are sated, we acheive nirvana.

However, If you are not primal, or have not unleashed your primal freak to its full potential, I may go faster and further than you. You can be lost in the moment as my hands control you, as I've ripped away your clothes, slammed you against the wall, and lay into you. I may bite too hard, scratch too rough, wrap your hair too tight... that primal cloud of concupisence and the connected energy will disapate, your energy changes, and it's in my best interest to bring you back into the cloud, but that depends on how much animal is off the leash.

So, as you can see, Primal means something a little more different to me. In a primal dynamic, walkng hand in hand through the woods, when I say run, you run. You know what is going to happen to you when I catch you, ready or not. If you're ready, you will run to build the anticipation of what is coming. If your not ready, you're running for a different reason, but you will be caught, you will have your clothes ripped from you, and you will be well and truley fucked by a Primal monster and all of your resistance and protests will be taken as encouragment (hence the panty ritual). Again, my perspective.

Jus sayin