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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:08:48 AM

Greta75

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I got to start my own!

Is it too much to ask that a man never uses his tongue on me, ever?

I will go vanilla if I can find a vanilla man who can live happily ever after without ever touching me with his tongue! I swear!

I have sub males message me sometimes and tell me how much he wants to give me pleasure. And I'd tell him, okay, you can with your fingers, but no tongue.

And they'll be like, I'd love to give you all the pleasure you want with my tongue but too bad you don't like it.

And I'd say, "No, you love to receive pleasure by using your tongue on me, that's not giving me any pleasure. It's all about your pleasure, don't claim it's about mine."

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:10:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I got to start my own!

Is it too much to ask that a man never uses his tongue on me, ever?

I will go vanilla if I can find a vanilla man who can live happily ever after without ever touching me with his tongue! I swear!

*Scratches Greta off the to-do list*

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:13:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
*Scratches Greta off the to-do list*

Yea, I constantly get vanilla men throwing tantrums at me for not allowing them to use their tongue. Always say I am perfect except for that one little detail. Like it's impossible to find a man who doesn't want to spend hours burying his head in your pussy.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:15:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
*Scratches Greta off the to-do list*

Yea, I constantly get vanilla men throwing tantrums at me for not allowing them to use their tongue. Always say I am perfect except for that one little detail. Like it's impossible to find a man who doesn't want to spend hours burying his head in your pussy.

Yep, that knocks me off your list. I can eat a peach for hours.

Jus sayin

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:39:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Yep, that knocks me off your list. I can eat a peach for hours.

Jus sayin

And 99.9% of men too. Why don't men like burying their fingers inside the vagina for hours, now that would be awesome. Of course it's impossible to expect that from his dick, unless I overdose him on viagra.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:49:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Yep, that knocks me off your list. I can eat a peach for hours.

Jus sayin

And 99.9% of men too. Why don't men like burying their fingers inside the vagina for hours, now that would be awesome. Of course it's impossible to expect that from his dick, unless I overdose him on viagra.

This may be why the two doms I've had who don'thave tongues are the only ones to ever make me cum... guys take a lesson, you have other tools

:P actually I just hate being eaten out too... feels like slugs in your panties eww

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 4:52:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Yep, that knocks me off your list. I can eat a peach for hours.

Jus sayin

And 99.9% of men too. Why don't men like burying their fingers inside the vagina for hours, now that would be awesome. Of course it's impossible to expect that from his dick, unless I overdose him on viagra.

Greta, you're going to have a hard time finding someone that is only "partially" in. Usually men are all in to pussy or just in for them. There isn't anything about pussy I do not like and I can and will explore it with every sense, and will not limit or restrict my exploration and play time to X, Y, and not Z, it's alphabet soup, baby!

I do not think women are much different. If they love cock, they are usually all in or just in it for them. I've been with women that just wanted banged out and I've been with women that felt my cock was the snorkel keeping them from drowning in a sea of air... the later being my favorite because I am quite reciprocal and it usually elicits a Primal response from me.

The reality of me is, it really isn't about you. When I am eating pussy it is for me. It's great if you're getting something out of it, but not required.

Jus sayin

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:23:07 AM

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I don't cum from oral either. But goddamn if they don't try.

Its not that I don't let them do it. I'm just not going to cum, I am upfront about it, and if they still want to go down- by all means, have your fun. Especially if it revs there engine enough that I'll get mine later.

ETA- I actually can get into it more if they make it a very submissive behavior for me. Lots of bondage, some pain, etc. etc. But I still don't cum from it.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:26:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
The reality of me is, it really isn't about you. When I am eating pussy it is for me. It's great if you're getting something out of it, but not required.
Jus sayin

Yes, that's expected. I totally think all men lick pussies for themselves. It's never about the woman's pleasure. If the woman likes it, it's a bonus for the woman, but it's definitely all about them. ALL men. Even vanillas. Otherwise, they wouldn't go into tantrums if they can't lick your pussy.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:31:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
The reality of me is, it really isn't about you. When I am eating pussy it is for me. It's great if you're getting something out of it, but not required.
Jus sayin

Yes, that's expected. I totally think all men lick pussies for themselves. It's never about the woman pleasure. If the woman likes it, it's a bonus for the woman, but it's definitely all about them. ALL men. Even vanillas. Otherwise, they wouldn't go into tantrums if they can't lick your pussy.

Wanna come be our third? My guy doesn't like eating pussy at all. We literally did it one time cause he thought I expected it, and I started my whole "Well you know this is really nice and all but really I won't cum from this..." and up he came going "oh good, cause I hate doing it"

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:33:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Greta75

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
The reality of me is, it really isn't about you. When I am eating pussy it is for me. It's great if you're getting something out of it, but not required.
Jus sayin

Yes, that's expected. I totally think all men lick pussies for themselves. It's never about the woman's pleasure. If the woman likes it, it's a bonus for the woman, but it's definitely all about them. ALL men. Even vanillas. Otherwise, they wouldn't go into tantrums if they can't lick your pussy.

You'll find no tantrums here. I make better choices in partners making sure that our needs, wants, likes and dislikes are in harmony. I do not have tantrums nor do I tolerate them.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:34:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
Wanna come be our third? My guy doesn't like eating pussy at all. We literally did it one time cause he thought I expected it, and I started my whole "Well you know this is really nice and all but really I won't cum from this..." and up he came going "oh good, cause I hate doing it"

Wow!!! You found a rare one! I'm still waiting for my own man who doesn't want to lick. Men who I am regularly seeing for sex now keeps nagging me about it, that they want to lick, it's like, gosh! It's annoying.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:35:08 AM

Greta75

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
You'll find no tantrums here. I make better choices in partners making sure that our needs, wants, likes and dislikes are in harmony. I do not have tantrums nor do I tolerate them.

Jus sayin

Not referring to you but to vanilla men.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:36:00 AM

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Yes, that's expected. I totally think all men lick pussies for themselves. It's never about the woman's pleasure. If the woman likes it, it's a bonus for the woman, but it's definitely all about them. ALL men. Even vanillas. Otherwise, they wouldn't go into tantrums if they can't lick your pussy.

Whoa, you're over generalizing there. I haven't licked a pussy in over a decade.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:36:42 AM

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This may be why the two doms I've had who don'thave tongues are the only ones to ever make me cum... guys take a lesson, you have other tools

:P actually I just hate being eaten out too... feels like slugs in your panties eww

You really described it perfectly, it's exactly like having slugs in your panties. The sensation of it is awful and unpleasant.

Anyway, I figured you got your orgasms from men who are really good with their fingers. As the tongue can never reach the gspot.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:51:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit
This may be why the two doms I've had who don'thave tongues are the only ones to ever make me cum... guys take a lesson, you have other tools

:P actually I just hate being eaten out too... feels like slugs in your panties eww

You really described it perfectly, it's exactly like having slugs in your panties. The sensation of it is awful and unpleasant.

Anyway, I figured you got your orgasms from men who are really good with their fingers. As the tongue can never reach the gspot.

Hands a couple of times but mostly the old fashioned way. The first time with my current was hands, I hadn't cum in 4 years and was very adamant in my belief that I no longer could... he was determined to prove me wrong, I was determined to be right 14 hours, some sore fingers, and an overheated hitachi later I admitted my defeat and he kicked me out of the truck :D. That was proof enough I could handle the real deal though and we switched after that, only other time he used his fingers was punishment kinda, and the other had long fingernails so that would have required a lot of trust haha

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:51:41 AM

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Whoa, you're over generalizing there. I haven't licked a pussy in over a decade.

I mean all men who wants to lick pussies don't lick it for the female's pleasure but for their own.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:54:19 AM

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Huh. I love going down on my partners. But, it's most definitely not just for me. I guess, Greta and DerangedUnit, I'd better bone up on my other tools. ;-)

It seems that we found out in another thread that women get off in a variety of ways. Expecting any given man to know how any given woman gets off is - well - silly.

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:57:55 AM

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Last I checked, the majority of vanilla dating sites are populated by younger men and older women.* Younger people can do all the *hooking up* that they like, but that's not how the majority of older women, or those women seeking relationships, roll.

Agreed. What I was contesting was your statement: "Unless you are a person who has low to no self-esteem, you don't gravitate to those types of individuals." Because that's not actually the case, hooking up is quite the rage among women who are younger than you.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
This might not be relevant to you personally, since you are a Dom in his mid-30s.

I've been in a monogamous relationship for 6 years now so none of this is really relevant to me anymore, but my 20's were a damn good time.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Furthermore, this hooking up for NSA sex approach strikes out for dudes on vanilla sites also (many of whom are on CS as well--I recognize many of the same photos).

Your timeless advice for guys to act like they're just looking to get their freak on is really good for kinky dudes who want to remain celibate or stay locked up in self-chastity.

I don't think a no strings attached hookup has got the best chance of success around here (think I mentioned that), he'd have a much better chance at a play party. But I don't think it's too much to ask, as in I don't think the request actually warrants a thread to publicly ridicule the guy. A thread specifically put in the random stupidity section to get an extra dig in.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Notice here it says that men are twice more likely to lie in their profiles as women are:
http://www.womansday.com/sex-relationships/dating-marriage/online-dating-profile-lies

Thanks for the stats, I hadn't been aware of the ratios and you probably know how I like numbers

I am curious though, how does this one fit into the conversation? What was the thought process that made this relevant?

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RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish... - 11/19/2014 5:58:01 AM

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Expecting any given man to know how any given woman gets off is - well - silly.

But I don't expect any given man to know how any given woman gets off.
I am a straight talker when it comes to sex, I will tell a man straight, no oral allowed, before he decides whether he still wants to have sex with me. About 70% men, it's a deal breaker, the other 30% keep nagging me to compromise, even after agreeing to no oral.
These are vanillas anyway. I don't do casual sex with doms, unless that dom is happy with vanilla sex which is unlikely any of them would agree to.

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