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So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 5:16:55 AM

WantingherinDC

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I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 5:40:04 AM

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There is no "litmus test". I suggest you chat a bit with someone, if they ask for money or suggest you go to a paid site, end the chat, block, delete. Simple.
Also, if you're targeting the hot, young twenty-somethings, the percentage of being fake goes up.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 6:12:42 AM

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Also, if you're targeting the hot, young twenty-somethings, the percentage of being fake goes up.

Welcome to the forums.

If she meets every part of your ultimate fantasy and seems too good to be true....she probably is.
If she has a few extra pounds and seems intelligent enough to talk about something besides your cock and her pussy and boobs.... The she is probably real.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 6:58:00 AM

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 7:33:10 AM

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All the real ones will want nothing to do with you because your profile is hidden and they figure you may have something to hide, such as a wife. The fakes won't care.

Hint - if you're serious, unhide your profile.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 7:48:27 AM

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All the real ones will want nothing to do with you because your profile is hidden and they figure you may have something to hide, such as a wife. The fakes won't care.

Hint - if you're serious, unhide your profile.

Just what I was going to say! I can't tell if he's seeking a Domme, S/switch or sub, so what exactly does he mean by fake. Is it the pay-per-play cyber findom deal, buying used panties which he may or may not ever receive in the mail, the Nigerian relo scam or other "slaves" wanting money up front to meet long distance, or WTF. (I hear the latest string of fake sub profiles are Asian fetish girls who want to be treated like wind-up dolls or puppets.)

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 8:06:30 AM

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Bet he's a fake.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 8:59:06 AM

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You mean those lovely Asian girls aren't real??? Damnit!!!

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 9:14:18 AM

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You mean those lovely Asian girls aren't real??? Damnit!!!

Oh, you fell for those fake wannabe a lifeless doll profiles? Don't feel badly, a Dom I know almost did, too. He ran a few of them past me and I spotted how most were coming out of NY & LA with similar verbiage. They all have high-powered professions (lawyer, doctor) also.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 10:06:47 AM

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You mean those lovely Asian girls aren't real??? Damnit!!!

Oh, you fell for those fake wannabe a lifeless doll profiles? Don't feel badly, a Dom I know almost did, too. He ran a few of them past me and I spotted how most were coming out of NY & LA with similar verbiage. They all have high-powered professions (lawyer, doctor) also.

But...but...but...they're all compliant and stuff.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 11:31:50 AM

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I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

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A litmus test?

Yeah, look in the mirror and read your own profile.

What! You can't!

Right, because it's hidden.

Look at yourself before throwing the fake crap around.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 11:51:57 AM

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If you cum on her face and later, she peels it off and eats it like a potato chip, you better go hunting for some cubic zirconium, know what I mean, pal?

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 11:53:21 AM

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Ok, that was gross!

I must be fake.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 11:56:01 AM

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I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

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I would recommend not coming to the forum and playing your games. One other thing we have around here. Mods and staff, of which you are well aware. People with buttons and we just love digging out the fakes and those that like to keep us busy and mess with the members.

I don't normally do this, but hey, even a mod can have a fetish. I just discovered it. I bet you're happy for me aren't you?

Good day to you. I will be ready.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 12:02:31 PM

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Crack that whip, M3!

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 1:23:33 PM

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I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

Thinking with the big head usually proves to be the best course of action.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 1:44:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: WantingherinDC

I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

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Actually, there is. Talk vanilla. Get to know the woman as a person, not a sex object. What are her favorite books, movies, TV shows? What are her favorite foods? Did she stay where she grew up, or did she relocate, and why? Scammers will lose patience.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 1:44:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: WantingherinDC

I've been on this site for a while, on and off because I feel a lot of the women her are fakes. Is there a litmus test to confirm who's who here

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I would recommend not coming to the forum and playing your games. One other thing we have around here. Mods and staff, of which you are well aware. People with buttons and we just love digging out the fakes and those that like to keep us busy and mess with the members.

I don't normally do this, but hey, even a mod can have a fetish. I just discovered it. I bet you're happy for me aren't you?

Good day to you. I will be ready.

YAY!!!! It's the CS version of the Muppet Show!

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/18/2014 1:53:40 PM

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Actually, there is. Talk vanilla. Get to know the woman as a person, not a sex object. What are her favorite books, movies, TV shows? What are her favorite foods? Did she stay where she grew up, or did she relocate, and why? Scammers will lose patience.

Foolproof advice, really.

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RE: So how do you know who's fake? - 11/19/2014 4:03:53 AM

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Before we can ask if someone is fake we must operationalize the word fake. In other words, how do you define fake?

Is she fake because she works as a professional Dominant? That is not fake, just different than someone who is strictly lifestyle. No need to get all pissy and use the block button, just say no and move on.

Is she fake because she is a financial Dominatrix? That is not fake, just different. Again, just say no and move on.

Is she fake because her ideas of BDSM is different than yours? That is not fake either, just different.

Is she fake because she is actually a man in disguise, then yes, "she" is fake LOL.

But for all the bitching that guys do about "fake" Dommes, we ladies wade neck deep through thousands of BS notes from males who think they are subs but are really just guys who are looking to get laid and never call again. I have lost count of the numbers of misogynists, selfish pricks, weirdos, clueless dumb asses, scammers, people who are too lazy to think for themselves, etc.

This topic is actually quite played out on this site. Most people who claim to be real Doms/subs are full of shit, and this site is especially bad for some reason. With experience, you learn to look for clues. For example, if she's a hot Domme and in her early 20s but you are over 35 and not in stellar shape, she's probably in it professionally.There are certain word clues in profiles as well. Most people do not read carefully.

There is no litmus test. I was called fake once because I told a male that I had absolutely zero desire to stick my fist up his ass (which I dare say is the case for most lifestyle Dommes). Funny because I live the lifestyle, literally, 24/7. I have thought certain males were fake subs, but in reality they were just COMPLETELY uneducated in terms of approaching a Domme, so they came off as wankers.

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