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freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 11:03:01 AM)

[sm=wave.gif]Marini[sm=waves.gif] you haz cmail [:)]




YouName -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 11:04:10 AM)

Tj444, I said the post was for Music, the automatic system put it as a reply to you! :)




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 11:04:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

[sm=wave.gif]Marini[sm=waves.gif] you haz cmail [:)]



Don't do it, Marini. He didn't punctuate anything. It's a trap!




Marini -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 11:24:05 AM)

lol
freedomdwarf has been on fire lately.

He is giving us his point of view, in relationship to his life, what he has experienced and how it would affect him and his family.




tj444 -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 11:56:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: YouName

Tj444, I said the post was for Music, the automatic system put it as a reply to you! :)

that is why you are supposed to click onto "reply" to the post you are wanting to reply to.. that way people know..




MariaB -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 1:08:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YouName

I would like to add to Zonies already good post that there is something we could call the occassional poor but old upper class family or historically the poor (and often times lower) aristocracy.
In many circles these people, as long as they are honorable and get by are thought of as more noble and closer to the real "upper class" or what ever than the newely rich who in the other sense of the Word often lack class



edit: By good I don't mean I agree with Everything but I still like it :)


I agree with this. whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.





YouName -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 1:14:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: YouName

Tj444, I said the post was for Music, the automatic system put it as a reply to you! :)

that is why you are supposed to click onto "reply" to the post you are wanting to reply to.. that way people know..


Yeah np. Dunno why you thought it was directed to you tho, nothing in there concerned your post.
All good tho tj, all good.




YouName -> RE: Class Warfare (11/28/2014 1:43:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

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ORIGINAL: YouName

I would like to add to Zonies already good post that there is something we could call the occassional poor but old upper class family or historically the poor (and often times lower) aristocracy.
In many circles these people, as long as they are honorable and get by are thought of as more noble and closer to the real "upper class" or what ever than the newely rich who in the other sense of the Word often lack class



edit: By good I don't mean I agree with Everything but I still like it :)


I agree with this. whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.





Yup, that's true.
No offense to anyone but isn't that quite rotten?

One of the reasons I don't like the class system on a purely social basis is the elitism that surrounds it.
Like you said, wealth doesn't equate class but even if you try really hard it can sometimes be difficult to move upwards.
And sometimes I wonder if its even desirable.


How I cringe at polite societies many pleasantries.
One of the worst things I know when being greeted is to hear the phrase 'How do you do?'

The people who don't even expect the casual and emotionally unhinged "Fine, and you?" are the worst.
I feel this is a twisting of etiquette or what bore its formation. Etiquette is rooted in tradition that for a large part makes some sense, at least historically.
The use of each hand for a particular thing, social protocol to get a conversation started and so on. But is becoming or has in some places already become since long ago a form of the most basic secret handshake.


But when you take it to this level, where you immediately acknowledge your disinterest for the party you're greeting (whether you realise it or not) only so as to extend a courteous greeting...Well I better stop now.
What I'm trying to say is that polite society isn't that polite, it's quite often disingenuous and despite its unwillingness to recognise wealth as a measure of class it also often pays little actual attention to a persons real desire to be act cultured.

Meh, that's a rant though. Reality is different. And in many societies, as people have mentioned, it's a lot more fluid. I think people like being a part of a club, a group, with its own rules.
Even if we ever achieved (or wanted to achieve) a classless society, people would still find ways to differentiate each other. Some more, some less and I like it more where there is less of it or at least where people can sit across a table and have a good laugh, no matter what clothes they are wearing or what car they are driving or what family name they bare.


PS Frankly this fakery is quite common everywhere Carlin demonstrates .
Weirdly enough I'm actually considerate of how people are when I ask them that very thing. But they don't seem to believe me as most of the time I just get "I'm fine thanks"...or they are very happy buggers the peeps!


PPS One could argue that the point of not replying to "How do you do?" greetings is to oneself show politeness by not burdening the other with ones problems. But I don't agree with this.




MariaB -> RE: Class Warfare (11/29/2014 4:08:37 AM)

I just stole this snippet because I think it sums up the British class system better than I can. http://www.justlanded.com/english/United-Kingdom/Articles/Culture/British-Culture

One of the things which initially confuses foreigners living in the UK is its class system, which is a curious British affectation. Entry to the upper class echelons is rooted in birthright and ill-bred upstarts with pots of ‘new’ money (particularly foreigners with unpronounceable names), find they’re unable to buy entry to the most exclusive clubs and homes of England (even when they’re seriously rich). Many Britons are obsessed with class and for some, maintaining or improving their position on the social ladder is a full-time occupation (the ultimate aim being to acquire a knighthood or peerage). The rest of us pretend we’re a ‘better’ class than we actually are, with the exception of a few politicians who are busy trying to live down their privileged past in order to court popularity with the underprivileged masses.

Class is, of course, wholly unimportant in the UK, provided you attended public school, speak with the right accent and have pots of inherited money.




Musicmystery -> RE: Class Warfare (11/29/2014 6:45:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.



What you're describing is the difference between the UK, where class is based on blood and is inherited, and the US, where class is indeed entirely economic, including the examples of mobility you named.

Granted, wealth can be inherited.




tj444 -> RE: Class Warfare (11/29/2014 7:03:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: YouName

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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: YouName

Tj444, I said the post was for Music, the automatic system put it as a reply to you! :)

that is why you are supposed to click onto "reply" to the post you are wanting to reply to.. that way people know..


Yeah np. Dunno why you thought it was directed to you tho, nothing in there concerned your post.
All good tho tj, all good.

It was directed to me (whether you intended it to be or not) cuz at the bottom right corner of each post it shows who it is directed to (unless you specify in your post it is general and directed to no one by saying "Fast reply" or "FR").. that post said it was directed to me cuz the bottom right said "(in reply to tj444)".. check that post for yourself..

eta- fyi, the person you reply to usually gets an email saying they were replied to so who reply to makes a difference as far as ongoing dialog goes and you look like a flake replying to people you aren't "talking" to.. If Music is who you wanted to reply to but he doesn't get an email saying you replied and he doenst read each post in the thread, then he wont reply to your reply.. do you understand that?




MariaB -> RE: Class Warfare (11/29/2014 8:46:20 AM)

tj444

I put my hand up and say, in the 8 or 9 years I've been on this site, possibly longer; I have never noticed that little note in brackets in the bottom right hand corner. Shows how much attention to detail I have in my life [:D]




NorthernGent -> RE: Class Warfare (11/30/2014 1:38:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.



What you're describing is the difference between the UK, where class is based on blood and is inherited, and the US, where class is indeed entirely economic, including the examples of mobility you named.

Granted, wealth can be inherited.



England is far more conservative in this respect, because it's seen as shameful to aim to forget your roots.

Class is not based on blood. For example, down the centuries both Germans and Americans who have studied at places such as Oxford and Cambridge have been accepted as English gentlemen. The fact they were born in a different country is irrelevant in this.

Class is a way of thinking and a way of acting in England, whether upper class or anything else.

Seriously, 'blood' has never consumed the thoughts of the English.






PeonForHer -> RE: Class Warfare (11/30/2014 3:35:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

When I was a kid, "working class" were those that did the manual and factory work and farmers, regardless of what they earned.



Working class is a state of mind, as opposed to what money you earn.

I will always be working class, and proud of it, billionaire or otherwise.

There is a cultural difference here. In England people cling doggedly to being working class (for good reason).




Oh dear, NG, you're not one of these, are you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8Kum8OUTuk

[;)]




NorthernGent -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 5:45:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

When I was a kid, "working class" were those that did the manual and factory work and farmers, regardless of what they earned.



Working class is a state of mind, as opposed to what money you earn.

I will always be working class, and proud of it, billionaire or otherwise.

There is a cultural difference here. In England people cling doggedly to being working class (for good reason).




Oh dear, NG, you're not one of these, are you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8Kum8OUTuk

[;)]


Naah, mate, I'm from a council estate in a mining area in the North East of England.

My family were miners, and their family miners: very conservative in their attitudes in that they were happy as pigs in shit with a day at the coast, a cup of tea and fish and chips after. The type of people who grew their own vegetables, raced pigeons that sort of thing.

Not that I'm interested in racing pigeons, but I've taken on board a lot of their values and I couldn't care less about the material things in life.

I've done good enough money wise to lead a comfortable life, but money has never been a motivating factor for me.




Musicmystery -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 5:49:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


quote:

ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.



What you're describing is the difference between the UK, where class is based on blood and is inherited, and the US, where class is indeed entirely economic, including the examples of mobility you named.

Granted, wealth can be inherited.



England is far more conservative in this respect, because it's seen as shameful to aim to forget your roots.

Class is not based on blood. For example, down the centuries both Germans and Americans who have studied at places such as Oxford and Cambridge have been accepted as English gentlemen. The fact they were born in a different country is irrelevant in this.

Class is a way of thinking and a way of acting in England, whether upper class or anything else.

Seriously, 'blood' has never consumed the thoughts of the English.




What, then, would you describe as the determinants of class in the UK?

On the one hand, you note blood isn't important, but then on the other hand, stress the importance of remembering one's roots.





NorthernGent -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 6:02:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


quote:

ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

quote:

ORIGINAL: MariaB

whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.



What you're describing is the difference between the UK, where class is based on blood and is inherited, and the US, where class is indeed entirely economic, including the examples of mobility you named.

Granted, wealth can be inherited.



England is far more conservative in this respect, because it's seen as shameful to aim to forget your roots.

Class is not based on blood. For example, down the centuries both Germans and Americans who have studied at places such as Oxford and Cambridge have been accepted as English gentlemen. The fact they were born in a different country is irrelevant in this.

Class is a way of thinking and a way of acting in England, whether upper class or anything else.

Seriously, 'blood' has never consumed the thoughts of the English.




What, then, would you describe as the determinants of class in the UK?

On the one hand, you note blood isn't important, but then on the other hand, stress the importance of remembering one's roots.




Perhaps I didn't quite grasp your thoughts when you mentioned 'blood'.

Put it this way, in England, a person clearly of Asian descent, speaking with a Middle Class accent; will have more doors opened up for him/her than a white Englishman speaking with a Working Class accent. That's what I meant by blood or stock or whatever you want to call it.

When I said roots, I in no way meant race. I meant that a lot of people in the old industrial heartlands of the North and the Midlands, and some parts of London and the South, too, would never in million years aspire to being part of any Middle or Upper Class society.

Determinant of class in the UK? It's possibly down to the individual and it's not set in stone, but money is not usually the common denominator. My salary and profession would certainly be placed in the Middle Class bracket, but my outlook, accent and interests would place me firmly in the Working Class bracket that is where I intend to stay.

It's difficult to explain, really, because in this respect England and the United States is so culturally different.

From my understanding, being the President of the United States is something for everyone to aspire to in the US; ask most Working Class Englishmen and they're rather die than be the Prime Minister of England because the implications would be that you'd have to mix with a load of snobs and people with whom you have pretty much nothing in common.





freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 7:19:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
From my understanding, being the President of the United States is something for everyone to aspire to in the US; ask most Working Class Englishmen and they're rather die than be the Prime Minister of England because the implications would be that you'd have to mix with a load of snobs and people with whom you have pretty much nothing in common.

Well said and a good point, NG.

In my heyday, I was taking home over £3,000 a week and rubbing shoulders with people who think nothing of spending a 4-digit sum for a suit for work, 3-digit 'loose change' on their credit cards for an after-work drink.

Meh!!
I spent £40 for a suit in a charity shop because I needed 'the uniform' to do my job given the snobs I was working with.
When I finished work, I went home and had fish'n'chips with a cuppa because that's what I preferred.
If it wasn't for what I did for a job, I'd have been shunned in that circle and I didn't feel comfortable in it.
Gimme a pint in the local to a cocktail in a fancy bar any day. [8D]




Musicmystery -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 7:54:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

quote:

ORIGINAL: MariaB

whilst money can buy you a lot of things it can’t buy you class. How can wealth alone be sufficient to allow entry into the upper class? This means if you are a waitress that wins big money on the lottery you automatically assign yourself to the elite upper classes? What about a laird who donates all his land and property to a heritage trust. A man who has had the best education money can buy and who has only ever mixed with the gentry. Does giving his money away make him working class?

Fundamentally class isn’t mobile unless you marry into it. At least that is how I see it.

I think the difference between Britain and the US is, in Britain there is no shame in being working class unless you're an inverted snob. Because of the pseudo middle class people here, people often feel embarrassed to state themselves in that category and proudly opt to be working class.



What you're describing is the difference between the UK, where class is based on blood and is inherited, and the US, where class is indeed entirely economic, including the examples of mobility you named.

Granted, wealth can be inherited.



England is far more conservative in this respect, because it's seen as shameful to aim to forget your roots.

Class is not based on blood. For example, down the centuries both Germans and Americans who have studied at places such as Oxford and Cambridge have been accepted as English gentlemen. The fact they were born in a different country is irrelevant in this.

Class is a way of thinking and a way of acting in England, whether upper class or anything else.

Seriously, 'blood' has never consumed the thoughts of the English.




What, then, would you describe as the determinants of class in the UK?

On the one hand, you note blood isn't important, but then on the other hand, stress the importance of remembering one's roots.




Perhaps I didn't quite grasp your thoughts when you mentioned 'blood'.

Put it this way, in England, a person clearly of Asian descent, speaking with a Middle Class accent; will have more doors opened up for him/her than a white Englishman speaking with a Working Class accent. That's what I meant by blood or stock or whatever you want to call it.

When I said roots, I in no way meant race. I meant that a lot of people in the old industrial heartlands of the North and the Midlands, and some parts of London and the South, too, would never in million years aspire to being part of any Middle or Upper Class society.

Determinant of class in the UK? It's possibly down to the individual and it's not set in stone, but money is not usually the common denominator. My salary and profession would certainly be placed in the Middle Class bracket, but my outlook, accent and interests would place me firmly in the Working Class bracket that is where I intend to stay.

It's difficult to explain, really, because in this respect England and the United States is so culturally different.

From my understanding, being the President of the United States is something for everyone to aspire to in the US; ask most Working Class Englishmen and they're rather die than be the Prime Minister of England because the implications would be that you'd have to mix with a load of snobs and people with whom you have pretty much nothing in common.



Correct, race is an entirely different matter, and not the point here.

Appears you and I are actually in agreement.




Lucylastic -> RE: Class Warfare (12/1/2014 11:18:04 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
From my understanding, being the President of the United States is something for everyone to aspire to in the US; ask most Working Class Englishmen and they're rather die than be the Prime Minister of England because the implications would be that you'd have to mix with a load of snobs and people with whom you have pretty much nothing in common.

Well said and a good point, NG.

In my heyday, I was taking home over £3,000 a week and rubbing shoulders with people who think nothing of spending a 4-digit sum for a suit for work, 3-digit 'loose change' on their credit cards for an after-work drink.

Meh!!
I spent £40 for a suit in a charity shop because I needed 'the uniform' to do my job given the snobs I was working with.
When I finished work, I went home and had fish'n'chips with a cuppa because that's what I preferred.
If it wasn't for what I did for a job, I'd have been shunned in that circle and I didn't feel comfortable in it.
Gimme a pint in the local to a cocktail in a fancy bar any day. [8D]


did ya make a chip sammich????
thats the test!!!
LOL




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