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DesFIP -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:16:32 PM)
I delete a lot of mail unread. I hover over it and if still unsure, I sign out and view their profile anonymously. If I get that creepy feeling, then I sign back in and delete it unread. Doing this prevents a lot of creep mail. Because the site shows that you read the mail, or viewed the profile, and oftentimes guys assume that reading or viewing means you are interested. There's a lot of denial going around. I'm not fake but I am already in a relationship and I'm not interested in guys who think they're so special I should cheat on my partner with them.

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:19:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 I'm very aware of the hover. I said most are fake... not that you are fake. Most meaning majority. Which means you are the minority. Just in my experience. Over the past 4 years and probably... 3k msg sample size. sent out That's not what I meant. What I do mean is that I'm willing to bet most you messaged are real - blank profile excepted [8\|] if you expected a response seriously you need to choose better. That is what leads me to believe that either it's your message or the people you choose to message.

DesFIP -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:19:22 PM)
You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response.

SlaveHunter23 -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:21:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. I've had many other profiles. I've been off and on the site for 5 years. If you don't take my word for it... then there isn't much more i can say. Since 2010. J

GoddessManko -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:23:27 PM)
Ha, the OP is right. I also want to congratulate her on not only a well written profile but quite lovely and legible journal entries which cleverly are reviews by her subs (points for uniqueness). I would only additionally suggest you allow them to show further indication of being with you so that eliminates a lot of the questions of authenticity. I don't agree tribute automatically means findomming. What if my tribute is having my sub run an errand or mowing my lawn or even doing some activity (shopping) where he has to dish out some cash like paying for my forms to be mailed? Let's face it, if that were the case, we're all finDommes including the female subs who are total dependents. Matter of common sense, no?

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:24:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely.

SlaveHunter23 -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:25:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely. Im not speaking of my current profile. My profiles from the past were very extensive... spent days making them perfect. Right now, my profile reflects exactly what i want it to. I'm not really looking ... thus i don't put time into it. Make sense?

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:32:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely. Im not speaking of my current profile. My profiles from the past were very extensive... spent days making them perfect. Right now, my profile reflects exactly what i want it to. I'm not really looking ... thus i don't put time into it. Make sense? Not really if you're expecting people to respond to a blank profile. Regardless to state that people are fake simply because they don't respond says a lot about you and none of it good. It makes you sound like you're making excuses. I would bet it's the messages you send. Because the one thing in common is you.

SlaveHunter23 -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:35:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely. Im not speaking of my current profile. My profiles from the past were very extensive... spent days making them perfect. Right now, my profile reflects exactly what i want it to. I'm not really looking ... thus i don't put time into it. Make sense? Not really if you're expecting people to respond to a blank profile. Regardless to state that people are fake simply because they don't respond says a lot about you and none of it good. It makes you sound like you're making excuses. I would bet it's the messages you send. Because the one thing in common is you. Are you not reading what i am typing? The profile is strategically barren.

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:40:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely. Im not speaking of my current profile. My profiles from the past were very extensive... spent days making them perfect. Right now, my profile reflects exactly what i want it to. I'm not really looking ... thus i don't put time into it. Make sense? Not really if you're expecting people to respond to a blank profile. Regardless to state that people are fake simply because they don't respond says a lot about you and none of it good. It makes you sound like you're making excuses. I would bet it's the messages you send. Because the one thing in common is you. Are you not reading what i am typing? The profile is strategically barren. Are you reading what I'm typing? 1) Noone is going to respond when a profile is blank 2) If you sent out THAT many messages and at least the majority were deleted unread chances are it's you not them.

SlaveHunter23 -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 6:48:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveHunter23 quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP You joined six months ago yet you have 4 years of experience? I would suggest you fill out your profile if you want any kind of good response. Right now it says nothing and therefore will garner you the same as a response. Ah well there you go SH. Your profile is blank (nice catch DES!) but you want responses? Not likely. Im not speaking of my current profile. My profiles from the past were very extensive... spent days making them perfect. Right now, my profile reflects exactly what i want it to. I'm not really looking ... thus i don't put time into it. Make sense? Not really if you're expecting people to respond to a blank profile. Regardless to state that people are fake simply because they don't respond says a lot about you and none of it good. It makes you sound like you're making excuses. I would bet it's the messages you send. Because the one thing in common is you. Are you not reading what i am typing? The profile is strategically barren. Are you reading what I'm typing? 1) Noone is going to respond when a profile is blank 2) If you sent out THAT many messages and at least the majority were deleted unread chances are it's you not them. You missed the part where i stated i was speaking about the previous well written profiles i had on this site. I've met about 15 people off this site. I've been on it for a good 5 years... not sure what your not getting here. Was simply sharing my experience. Opinions are exactly that.

stef -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/2/2015 8:01:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavedoguk Plainly dominants who ask for tributes for their servicesare fin dom(me)s and if they don't agree, they are in denial. Its their denial that is offensive Thank god you came along and cleared that up for us.

Hotch -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 7:11:29 AM)
Delete unread means nothing more to me than the person is uninterested. It's no worse than a no reply to an initial greeting. I get that the women here deal with message overload and large creeper population, so I don't judge that lack of courtesy too harshly. There are far worse things to get butt hurt about... But I'll be damned if I write a long insightful message before making initial contact. Those who think they deserve the effort of "something interesting" before replying to a pleasant greeting are thinking just a little too high of themselves.

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 7:14:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hotch Delete unread means nothing more to me than the person is uninterested. It's no worse than a no reply to an initial greeting. I get that the women here deal with message overload and large creeper population, so I don't judge that lack of courtesy too harshly. There are far worse things to get butt hurt about... But I'll be damned if I write a long insightful message before making initial contact. Those who think they deserve the effort of "something interesting" before replying to a pleasant greeting are thinking just a little too high of themselves. I agree 100%. I won't make a huge effort til I know to at least a reasonable degree that they will respond.

CreativeDominant -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 7:23:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: Hotch Delete unread means nothing more to me than the person is uninterested. It's no worse than a no reply to an initial greeting. I get that the women here deal with message overload and large creeper population, so I don't judge that lack of courtesy too harshly. There are far worse things to get butt hurt about... But I'll be damned if I write a long insightful message before making initial contact. Those who think they deserve the effort of "something interesting" before replying to a pleasant greeting are thinking just a little too high of themselves. I agree 100%. I won't maow are you, sexy?"ke a huge effort til I know to at least a reasonable degree that they will respond. I also agree. I've taken the time to write a fairly detailed and a fairly open profile. While I too understand the women's aversion to the mass mailed "hey...how are you, sexy?" notes, these women who ask for a complex note geared towards them while at the same time telling you they may not answer are asking a bit much.

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 7:28:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: Hotch Delete unread means nothing more to me than the person is uninterested. It's no worse than a no reply to an initial greeting. I get that the women here deal with message overload and large creeper population, so I don't judge that lack of courtesy too harshly. There are far worse things to get butt hurt about... But I'll be damned if I write a long insightful message before making initial contact. Those who think they deserve the effort of "something interesting" before replying to a pleasant greeting are thinking just a little too high of themselves. I agree 100%. I won't maow are you, sexy?"ke a huge effort til I know to at least a reasonable degree that they will respond. I also agree. I've taken the time to write a fairly detailed and a fairly open profile. While I too understand the women's aversion to the mass mailed "hey...how are you, sexy?" notes, these women who ask for a complex note geared towards them while at the same time telling you they may not answer are asking a bit much. I also have a fairly detailed profile so those messages asking me what I'm looking for will show as deleted unread because it's clear they didn't bother to read my profile. BTW one dom-type wrote to say I'm "awfully picky for a sub" lol. Yep deleted.

CreativeDominant -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 8:15:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark I also have a fairly detailed profile so those messages asking me what I'm looking for will show as deleted unread because it's clear they didn't bother to read my profile. BTW one dom-type wrote to say I'm "awfully picky for a sub" lol. Yep deleted. I agree...I know you're ALWAYS picking on me.[;)]

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 8:26:41 AM)
I'm sorry CD I had no idea you're such a delicate flower. I'll be more careful in the future. <runs>

Hotch -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 8:46:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark I also have a fairly detailed profile so those messages asking me what I'm looking for will show as deleted unread because it's clear they didn't bother to read my profile. BTW one dom-type wrote to say I'm "awfully picky for a sub" lol. Yep deleted. Ewww... Nothing worse than a "picky sub". That is a sure fire way to have your wife beater wearin' omnipotence brought into question.

LiveSpark -> RE: Deleted Unread (1/6/2015 8:49:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hotch quote: ORIGINAL: LiveSpark I also have a fairly detailed profile so those messages asking me what I'm looking for will show as deleted unread because it's clear they didn't bother to read my profile. BTW one dom-type wrote to say I'm "awfully picky for a sub" lol. Yep deleted. Ewww... Nothing worse than a "picky sub". That is a sure fire way to have your wife beater wearin' omnipotence brought into question. Well that's you eliminated from the list of potentials. Thanks for playing. [8D]

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