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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:31:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Exaxtamundo! Really this is a great place to come to vent, reasonably so, and a good place for advice. Not such a great place to start handing out torches to hunt Frankenstein's monster. There are too many seasoned folk on this side to buy into that shit. We do get enough n00bs around here that are genuinely mortified by what a D did (although no one knows what the fuck it was... I'm leaning towards wiped his ass on grandma's hand embroidered hand towel and lied about it) they will happily accept the torch and burn the monster.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:38:36 PM   
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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:39:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Livespark, you shall see that flounce..

Goddess.. advice is all grand but she didn't come her for advice, just to vent...

And now, with head up and chin set..

I bid this fine discussion a fond adieu... while I hold myself to standards on these forums, I digressed at what I feel is an attempt at validation and a pat on the head..


That's it? I gotta say that as flounces go this one sucks. Maybe you should have gone for the hippo flounce after all.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:42:05 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark


quote:

ORIGINAL: SinFix

Livespark, you shall see that flounce..

Goddess.. advice is all grand but she didn't come her for advice, just to vent...

And now, with head up and chin set..

I bid this fine discussion a fond adieu... while I hold myself to standards on these forums, I digressed at what I feel is an attempt at validation and a pat on the head..


That's it? I gotta say that as flounces go this one sucks. Maybe you should have gone for the hippo flounce after all.


Nah, she'll flounce with a vengeance later. She's just cooking dinner.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:44:44 PM   
LiveSpark


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark


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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Livespark, you shall see that flounce..

Goddess.. advice is all grand but she didn't come her for advice, just to vent...

And now, with head up and chin set..

I bid this fine discussion a fond adieu... while I hold myself to standards on these forums, I digressed at what I feel is an attempt at validation and a pat on the head..


That's it? I gotta say that as flounces go this one sucks. Maybe you should have gone for the hippo flounce after all.


Nah, she'll flounce with a vengeance later. She's just cooking dinner.


Oh hey thanks. Sorry didn't mean to interrupt. Just let me know when she's ready.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:45:59 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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Oh hey thanks. Sorry didn't mean to interrupt. Just let me know when she's ready.


No, by all means, continue. I mean, really, there is only one place for this thread to go now... Polls and Random Stupidity FTW.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:48:49 PM   
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Oh hey thanks. Sorry didn't mean to interrupt. Just let me know when she's ready.


No, by all means, continue. I mean, really, there is only one place for this thread to go now... Polls and Random Stupidity FTW.


Continue what? As you said this thread has nowhere to go but P&RS what am I supposed to do?

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:51:16 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark

Oh hey thanks. Sorry didn't mean to interrupt. Just let me know when she's ready.


No, by all means, continue. I mean, really, there is only one place for this thread to go now... Polls and Random Stupidity FTW.


Continue what? As you said this thread has nowhere to go but P&RS what am I supposed to do?


Help load it into the express elevator to hell.

Jus sayin

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:53:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LiveSpark

Oh hey thanks. Sorry didn't mean to interrupt. Just let me know when she's ready.


No, by all means, continue. I mean, really, there is only one place for this thread to go now... Polls and Random Stupidity FTW.


Continue what? As you said this thread has nowhere to go but P&RS what am I supposed to do?


Help load it into the express elevator to hell.

Jus sayin


I ain't doing the heavy lifting I'll hurt my back. You're a Dom you do it.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:56:28 PM   
GoddessManko


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Exaxtamundo! Really this is a great place to come to vent, reasonably so, and a good place for advice. Not such a great place to start handing out torches to hunt Frankenstein's monster. There are too many seasoned folk on this side to buy into that shit. We do get enough n00bs around here that are genuinely mortified by what a D did (although no one knows what the fuck it was... I'm leaning towards wiped his ass on grandma's hand embroidered hand towel and lied about it) they will happily accept the torch and burn the monster.


I think you are turning a mole hill into a volcano. It doesn't seem nearly that dramatic to me. 3 month relationship, he lied about something petty, it rocked the boat of trust. I see her feelings as valid but only something she can examine. Some people do think there are rules and protocols and even get medical advice from their Ds so considering I've seen it all, I would call this one of the least dramatic threads.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 3:57:50 PM   
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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:00:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry to hear you're in hospital Mod 3, feel better soon. Happy New Year.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:01:55 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Exaxtamundo! Really this is a great place to come to vent, reasonably so, and a good place for advice. Not such a great place to start handing out torches to hunt Frankenstein's monster. There are too many seasoned folk on this side to buy into that shit. We do get enough n00bs around here that are genuinely mortified by what a D did (although no one knows what the fuck it was... I'm leaning towards wiped his ass on grandma's hand embroidered hand towel and lied about it) they will happily accept the torch and burn the monster.


I think you are turning a mole hill into a volcano. It doesn't seem nearly that dramatic to me. 3 month relationship, he lied about something petty, it rocked the boat of trust. I see her feelings as valid but only something she can examine. Some people do think there are rules and protocols and even get medical advice from their Ds so considering I've seen it all, I would call this one of the least dramatic threads.


A mole hill into a volcano? Seriously, Manko???

There is nothing to turn into anything. We have no information here, so feel free to show me either the mole hill or the volcano, or a dead cat that he lied about, or the broken condom he lied about, or the mass murders he committed in sierra leone that he lied about, or the fart he blamed on the dog.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:02:05 PM   
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And damn person can't even have a prelim flounce without being judged..

As for this thread.. if all of you truly believe this person is actually legit and looking for advice and venting after admitting that the profile is a sock... this place has slipped into a forum of political correctness that is not only abhorrent but just WTF...

Having not one but both attack me for nothing more than repeating what was said and pointing out the obvious realm this whole thing exists in.. I just cannot in good faith stay in this thread and hold my peace..

My toys and myself will be elsewhere..



Edited cause of one missing freaking letter. Grumbles about messing up flouncing

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:05:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Feel better Mod3!!!!! Not sure why this thread was reported, wishing you a speedy recovering and a nice plush bathrobe to help your stay be in comfort! xoxox
Edited to add; I was not at all attacking you SinFix (I'm hoping that comment was not directed at me but if it was). And to Tyrant, well I agree we have no idea what he lied about, I think the dilemma for OP was the lying part and how it damaged trust. She can allow him to redeem himself or not. It's pretty cut and dry. Honestly I am thinking of this person mulling it over in their minds then creating a sock account in order to get advice. I think the decision to remain incog and giving only information she/he/whoever is comfortable sharing is fine. Maybe he (the DaddyDom) is trying to figure out how to redeem himself in her eyes. I'm just going on what I know would be good advice should this scenario be true. May not be applicable to OP, but might be to someone else seeking answers.

< Message edited by GoddessManko -- 1/1/2015 4:15:25 PM >

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:06:40 PM   
LiveSpark


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quote:

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Hey now, I'm the one getting stuck with that crap. Just sayin


And damn person can't even have a prelim flounce without being judged..

As for this thread.. if all of you truly believe this person is actually legit and looking for advice and venting after admitting that the profile is a sock... this place has slipped into a forum of political correctness that is not only abhorrent but just WTF...

Having not one but both attack me for nothing more than repeating what was said and pointing out the obvious realm this whole thing exists in.. I just cannot in good faith stay in this thread and hold my peace..

My toys and myself will be elsewhere..



Edited cause of one missing freaking letter. Grumbles about messing up flouncing


Bravo!!! Perfect flounce. I'm going to overlook the missing letter, no doubt you've been taught the hippo flounce and aren't used to the old school flounce, you just need practice.

< Message edited by LiveSpark -- 1/1/2015 4:11:47 PM >

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:10:08 PM   
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The op sounds like she's grounded and is killing off the school break by making up nonsense.
Because of course a minor fib from a dude she's only dated since the school year started is deeper and more true and heart breaking than anything else.

If there's any truth in it, which personally I doubt, then honey it's time for you to grow up. Everybody lies on occasion. Your inability to tolerate your partner being fallible is your problem, not his. He can do better. If you don't stop expecting perfection in people, then this three months will probably rank as one of your longer lasting relationships.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:17:59 PM   
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Feel better Mod3!!!!! Not sure why this thread was reported, wishing you a speedy recovering and a nice plush bathrobe to help your stay be in comfort! xoxox
Edited to add; I was not at all attacking you SinFix (I'm hoping that comment was not directed at me but if it was). And to Tyrant, well I agree we have no idea what he lied about, I think the dilemma for OP was the lying part and how it damaged trust. She can allow him to redeem himself or not. It's pretty cut and dry. Honestly I am thinking of this person mulling it over in their minds then creating a sock account in order to get advice. I think the decision to remain incog and giving only information she/he/whoever is comfortable sharing is fine. Maybe he (the DaddyDom) is trying to figure out how to redeem himself in her eyes. I'm just going on what I know would be good advice should this scenario be true. May not be applicable to OP, but might be to someone else seeking answers.


Okay, here is the recap:

The OP's D lied about something.
The OP does not forgive liars ever.
Case closed.

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 4:25:04 PM   
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Back, when I was married, lo, those many years ago, my ex-wife would ask me: "Did you take the garbage out?"

If I said: "No", I'd get a five minute dose of shit about how I would need to get up five minutes early to beat the garbage truck to the curb ... yada, yada, yada ...

I used to just say: "Yes", knowing that I knew that I had to get up five minutes early, etc.

I was never really comfortable with whoppers but I was one of those that used to buy into the term "little white lies". I no longer do.

If someone will lie to me (and I count lies of omission) about something as silly as "Why didn't you get the car serviced?", what will they do with the serious issues? Will I get the truth? How can I know?

While there may be an excess of "drama" in that the OP feels like their whole world is falling apart, maybe I can add some perspective:

Your whole world isn't falling apart. You're relationship is. There are far more people in this world who do not practice openness and absolute honesty than those that do. You have found one of those people (honestly, you can't swing a dead cat without finding one of them in this world).

It's sounds like you've already made a decision but, in case you haven't; it's one only you can make. If "little white lies" aren't acceptable to you, then have the courage of your convictions and do something about it.

While "venting" may be a step, now, it's time to put one foot in front of the other and for you to walk the walk instead of just talking the talk.

Good luck,



Michael

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RE: My Master Lied to Me - 1/1/2015 6:24:36 PM   
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