Greta75
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Some of the 'mighty' remain generous, but what they might not appreciate is the expectation of gifts.
Romance isn't romance when the motivation is to appease someone's appetite for gifts.
I find that enjoying receiving gifts is quite a thing with dominant women. I do not know if you are a dominant or a submissive male, can't be bothered to click on your profile to find out, but I think the whole idea is, you will offer gifts to Deities, if you were in a religion that worships deities, so if you were worshiping your domme as your goddess, then you definitely should shower her with gifts. It all makes perfect sense.
I am a submissive woman, and I am not into gifts, I don't need it. But what I want to feel from a dom or any vanilla male, is that his protective and caring about me, and he really takes care of my welfare. This means, taking care of all my basic needs, even IF I can afford to take care of myself, but it's important to me, that his controlling to the extent that, he wants the pride of taking care of his woman, and not having his woman having to be independent and take care of herself by herself. I like men who doesn't allow a woman to pay for anything with her own money when she's with him. It's very protective and macho and overbearing, but it's what I like in men. I like the traditional roles. And I'm a woman who personally feel chasing career conflicts with welfare for children, so if I had a husband who expects me to work after pregnancy, that will not work for me. At the same time, my brothers and men I usually am with, would be appalled if their woman wants to chase career and juggle having kids at the same time. That's the type of men I like. A man who can allow me to be a full time mom. And not expect me to be independent. My x-dom for example tells me he really benefited from having a stay at home full time mom and he wants the same for his children in the future. We had the same ideas. I grew up with a fiercely independent mother who is obsess with her career, pops babies out and within 48 hours of discharge, you'd never see her again, she's rich enough to employ maids to take care of her babies, and I didn't benefit from it. And she makes more than my dad.
So if a man is into going dutch with me, his definitely never gonna stand a chance with me as a romantic partner and will be friend zoned for life, although I will still be his friend and happily pick up my own tab whenever I hang out with him.
I was just thinking about my boss who complains her husband refuses to even buy her real flowers for valentine's day, because he feels it's a waste of money. She makes 10 times his income. And he always nags at her about how she spends her money when she practically makes 90% of their money. Like WTF, kudos to her to tolerate that crap. I told her idiot husband that if his so tight about buying real flowers, I can direct him to the wild where he can pick free of charge real flowers, just get the woman some flowers!
Actually in my country, many woman with high income usually marry low income men, reason for this is, I guess fellow high income men are usually too egotistic and not supportive about their careers. We even had a case when in divorce, the woman paid her husband alimony for being house husband. And women with high income loves showering their men with expensive gifts. So they do walk the talk about the importance of gifts.
I always tell any man who complains about women expecting gifts or for the man to foot the bill to go for career focus wealthier women instead, because then, they will experience the receiving gift end.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 2/15/2015 2:34:26 AM >
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