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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 7:22:24 PM

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... Though 'pip pip' is out of date, by half a century. But: yep, Brit males will probably say things like that if an attractive American female is within earshot: it's almost like pressing a 'get into her pants' button. We're perfectly well aware of this. Hell, I'll even say 'tally ho!' if I think a fanciable American woman is daft enough to believe that I say that all the time.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 7:29:51 PM

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Usually said while brushing a large "Flying Officer Kite" moustache and leering suggestively Peon *smile*,
"Oh I say, that was bang on and a wizard prang, what ??"

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 7:30:22 PM

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LOL! So is the "tally ho!" thereafter followed by "hi-ho silver!"?

So bad peon, scoring with American girls and not inviting me to watch. And all this time I thought we were friends.

(I better be good, this is how rumors start, teehee.)

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 8:10:59 PM

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LOL! So is the "tally ho!" thereafter followed by "hi-ho silver!"? So bad peon, scoring with American girls and not inviting me to watch. And all this time I thought we were friends.
(I better be good, this is how rumors start, teehee.)

I've only ever scored with American *ladies*, GM. Never 'girls'. ;-) And 'tally ho' isn't followed by anything, so far as I know. It's only used by fox hunters. Those sorts don't usually get the chance to say anything much after I've met them and have found out what they do as a sport.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 8:13:42 PM

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Usually said while brushing a large "Flying Officer Kite" moustache and leering suggestively Peon *smile*,
"Oh I say, that was bang on and a wizard prang, what ??"

One day, I'm seriously intending to get some black actors' make up to 'create' a gap between my two front upper teeth. I so want to be Terry-Thomas, Dvr. I mean, who wouldn't?

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 8:31:05 PM

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The numbers are hugely skewed and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/8/2015 9:20:44 PM

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There is a 60% chance that half of all statistics are skewed by the method in which criteria is chosen.

On the other hand, I am 100% likely to be myself, so numbers don't intimidate me. They're old friends, actually. I laugh with them, often, and research on the count of bodies has merit for a census, but perhaps research on behavioural factors might meet the meat of the matter more aptly.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 10:36:12 AM

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I feel I put just the right amount of importance on what submissive is.

Yes absolutely...for you...but not for me and this is my point...We are are all different so your version of submissive will only fit you.

No, that's not true. It fits others I interact with as well.

So, therefore, what you are really saying is that you believe OTHERS put too much important on what a submissive is and is not. You, of course (just like me) feel that you put exactly the right amount of importance on the topic (just like I do).

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ho is the one who gets to determine what respect is given?

Who else but each of us?

Right, so you (general) bitching that I won't reply because I felt like "crabby cunt fat whore" doesn't need a reply means nothing to me, regardless of your feelings about the respect you were giving.

Granted, that's extreme, but your version of the respect I was given does not determine my version of what I was given and my response in kind.

That is my point.

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The "yet uncollared" thing sticks out like a sore thumb for me. Especially if he's good looking and has a nice cock. So unless they can convince me to not be a skeptic I will be.

The same applies to femdoms who somehow can't find sub males who 'meet their high standards', GM. In the same way as you, I always suspect that such femdoms aren't good looking, and have ugly vaginas.

Dammit! You got me! LOL!

I've always wanted a porn star pussy...

That is, until my Pet told me about how he experiences different pussies, and put it all in perspective.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 11:11:15 AM

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So, therefore, what you are really saying is that you believe OTHERS put too much important on what a submissive is and is not. You, of course (just like me) feel that you put exactly the right amount of importance on the topic (just like I do).

Yes each of us determines what our feelings are... and I resist any attempt to label me...and so do you by your very words.... your submissive is different from mine and most likely in particulars most everyone else.

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Right, so you (general) bitching that I won't reply because I felt like "crabby cunt fat whore" doesn't need a reply means nothing to me, regardless of your feelings about the respect you were giving.

Granted, that's extreme, but your version of the respect I was given does not determine my version of what I was given and my response in kind.

That is my point.

Sorry I have no idea what you are saying here... my thoughts on respect have nothing to do with you...only me.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 1:26:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: kdsub
Sorry I have no idea what you are saying here... my thoughts on respect have nothing to do with you...only me.

So, with this quote:

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ORIGINAL: kdsub
Now the real asses are those that cannot take no for an answer or are upset because they do not receive an answer...AND the Dominant who cannot reply with at least the same respect that is given... if they reply at all.

Is only about you? As the submissive AND dominant role? It sure seems like you are judging The dominant's reply and whether it was given with the same respect as originally addressed, and calling them "real asses" if you disagree with their assessment.

The point I'm making is that it's fine to choose your own stance. We all do. Choosing how others should stand... not so much.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:09:07 PM

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NookieNotes.. Yes it is all about me. If a relationship does not suite me I end it... how about you? Yes I am judging... but the only judgement is if I and a mate match.

If I match with someone in a relationship we are both giving what the other needs... if one or the other is not getting their needs met the relationship ends...right? When there are differences then we try to work them out...relationships are all about give and take because as we know none of us are perfect.

Each and every relationship will be different to some degree or another. Labels mean NOTHING in the end.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:11:15 PM

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Yes it is all about me. If a relationship does not suite me I end it...

Wow, did we go to the same submissive school? LOL

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:25:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: kdsub

Yes it is all about me. If a relationship does not suite me I end it...

Wow, did we go to the same submissive school? LOL

I am glad you read this "exchange", it really proves what all of the Dominant women, have been saying so succinctly.

Please believe, that kdsub is not an anomaly, by any means.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:29:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: Marini

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ORIGINAL: littleladybug

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ORIGINAL: kdsub

Yes it is all about me. If a relationship does not suite me I end it...

Wow, did we go to the same submissive school? LOL

I am glad you read this "exchange", it really proves what all of the Dominant women, have been saying so succinctly.

Please believe, that kdsub is not an anomaly, by any means.

Forgive me for not feeling sorry for someone who doesn't believe that their partner deserves to have the relationship that suits him or her.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:32:53 PM

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I am not sure what you are saying, can you splain?
I think you "get" what some of us "Dominant women" are saying that the numbers, are really not what they appear to be.
I am just not sure.

If there are 1000 "submissive" men to every 10 Dominant woman, and many of the Dominant women on here seem to often make similar points, than maybe there is validity in what we are saying?

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:39:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: Marini

I am not sure what you are saying, can you splain?

Ok, how's this?

You say--

Please believe, that kdsub is not an anomaly, by any means.

I say--

That is not a good thing, because? _____

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:41:16 PM

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Here is your huggle.
lol
I enjoy reading ALL the profiles on here, and some of the Dominant men on here have profiles that scare me!
{Some of the Dominant women's profiles scare me too.}

I am really enjoying the dialogue here.

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:52:34 PM

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Wow, did we go to the same submissive school? LOL

Mine teaches honesty and communication... Be honest would you stay in a relationship that was not providing for your needs and desires?... We each look for a mate that will fulfill us... Just because you may be submissive does not mean that you must stay with a Dom that you do not like, respect, or fulfills you... would you?

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:54:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Marini

Here is your huggle.
lol

And here's yours.

I don't believe, for a moment, this "woe is me" drama that *some* dominant women choose to embrace.

That male subs "don't get it"? Get a grip and find someone compatible to you. If you want someone who believes that what you want, and only what you want, matters, then find that person. If someone decides that they want to find a relationship with someone that suits them is abhorrent to you, don't get involved with them. Simple, no?

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RE: Male & Female Numbers: Myth vs. Reality - 3/9/2015 2:54:32 PM

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Please believe, that kdsub is not an anomaly, by any means.

Oh but I am because I will tell you upfront... you will know what you are getting... there is a difference.

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