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RE: Everyone Has There Own Preferences - 3/24/2015 10:48:50 AM

vivaciousgrace

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ORIGINAL: JVoV

So it's like a gang initiation?

Seems like as good a place as any for my first post then.

Hi :)

Its not gang initiation, its the fairly normal human desire to poke the new thing to see if it bites. :) And then decide whether or not it is a nice bitey thing, or you need to call in the extermination crew...

I am fairly new.

People here like a good debate. Its rarely meant to be taken personally from what I can see, and if you just smile and debate right back at them you soon find yourself enjoying the banter and getting to know people a bit better.

To the OP:

Give people a chance to get to know you, they might respond to you better.

If you expect to be welcomed with open arms by complete strangers just for showing your face... its not going to happen.
Just like in real life, you need to talk to everyone, find the ones you get on with, cultivate a few friendships... and see what happens.

Finding a partner online is NOT like ordering a pizza.
You don't order what you want and then it turns up fresh and ready to eat.
They are people. They need to get to know you properly and decide whether or not they like you, but i imagine if you keep leaving and deleting your profile that won't be possible.

Good luck x

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RE: Everyone Has There Own Preferences - 3/24/2015 6:10:46 PM

LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Subby4Dominatrix

I've been on and off this site and I've posted before. However, some people have recognize me from my previous Screen Names and say I'm a fraud and fake because I'm just on a few days, can't find anything, then delete my profile. I'm not on long enough for anyone to take me seriously. So this is what I have to say:

1. I'M ON HERE FOR THE LONG RUN
2. Everyone has their preferences. Everyone has their kinks and fetishes. Yet, everyone gives other people a hard time for their preferences.

Why do people harass other people for their preferences?

In my case, it's because they pay me exceptionally well to do it.

(I can't speak for others).

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RE: Everyone Has There Own Preferences - 3/25/2015 2:46:21 PM

Kana

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I've been on and off this site and I've posted before. However, some people have recognize me from my previous Screen Names and say I'm a fraud and fake because I'm just on a few days, can't find anything, then delete my profile. I'm not on long enough for anyone to take me seriously. So this is what I have to say:

1. I'M ON HERE FOR THE LONG RUN
2. Everyone has their preferences. Everyone has their kinks and fetishes. Yet, everyone gives other people a hard time for their preferences.

Why do people harass other people for their preferences?

Who gives a fuck what others think/say/do.
People gonna be people and haters gotta hate.
Fuck them. That has zip to do with you and everything to do with them. And people around, they be smarter than most give credit for/to.They have eyes. They knows who's being the jerk.
Just go about the serious business of being excellent and maybe something can happen here for you. Forums/real life/whatever.

(I'll note that this is good life feedback. Not limited to BDSM, forums and/or dating)

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