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ORIGINAL: Marini

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ORIGINAL: Marini

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ORIGINAL: JVoV

Can we make 'forced masculization' a kink?

You can come sit by me, we seem to agree here.

I find anyone looking to be forced into consensual activities, as a bit boring on here: Looking/begging for "forced femme", "forced bi", "forced baby", "forced sissy", "forced into logging onto CollarSpace and begging to be forced into shit that I want to do", etc.
where the hell are the MEN that want to be forced to be MEN.
Kiss for ya babe

As a gay man, do you run across a plethora of submissives begging to be forced straight?
Begging you to MAKE them be with a woman?

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady
More like "forced to act like a grown-ass man."

Then (some) submissive men want to know why they aren't treated with more respect in general by others in this lifestyle. Hmm, "forced" to hand over their "do-me fetish/kink list" and longwinded, excruciatingly detailed fantasy script?

They can't have it both ways, craving constant humiliation and degradation by being treated as less than, and then get taken seriously for their lip service-only *submission* (no pun intended). You know, the kind who treat Dommes like their dirty little shameful secret, since we're not "real" women in their minds deserving of standard vanilla dating protocol.
If I wanted some middle-aged dude with a bunch of sexual hang-ups following him around like that cloud of dust of Pigpen's in the Peanuts comic strip, any 'nilla man would do. In fact, the 'nilla would be able to get it up without requiring an entire fetish/kink production scene set up for his benefit.

Not all, thank goodness, I'm sure you will agree. Just a vast sea of those squirmy little toads in overabundance.

Marini, I'm too rushed to send you a PM, but on a vanilla dating site, I think I stumbled across a diamond in the rough a couple weeks ago in my inbox who isn't going to need to be deprogrammed first! A submissive man who hasn't been ruined yet -- which is quite rare in my experience. He's making me feel very, very wicked.

DreamLady

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It's always nice to chat with you neighbor.
I would always enjoy a pm from you.
There are many submissive men, in "other" places, and isn't it great
to find one that is not ruined/or sitting there with a shopping/do me list?
Good luck to you lady.

Thanks, and to you as well. That's right, I see you're in the metro area where I used to live. Not to go further off topic (my apologies OP), but these are the usual options since I'm out in the country, aka the sticks. Metrosexual social climber who sees nothing wrong with conducting a commuter-distance D/s twice a month with the expectation that making the long drive entitles him to my making it worth his while and TO HOST HIM -- LOL! Or the scruffy wannabe biker dude holding up his prized fish catch on his dating profile, with a screen name of Harley or else ending in -tron or -omatic. <Rock-paper-scissors>

Of course, virtually all of them profess to be "Alpha" males. Less prevalent on this site, roughly 1/4-1/3 of the newbie subs looking for a Dominant woman to give them a free ride in every which way (a rueful sentiment expressed by several lifestyle Dommes I know). . . in exchange for houseboy maid services.

Btw, by 'ruined' I was also referring to having a FemDom porn addiction, not just ruined by their previous (phone/cyber/RT) Mistress(es).

DreamLady