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VegasKink2015 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 10:17:23 AM)
This site has become a toxic waste dump. I wish there was a way to screen out all the goddamm "fin dommes" and pro ho's. Fin dommes are prostitutes - nothing more, nothing less. And they're rampant on this site. They've ruined the site for everyone.

spellslave -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 10:33:17 AM)
I was under the impression that pro-dommes and fin dommes don't have sexual contact with those that they end up dominating. Therefore, not prostitution.

NookieNotes -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 11:29:41 AM)
The men that spend their time whining that the only women they can get want to charge them don't often spend a lot of time learning the ins and outs of language and communication. smiles

VegasKink2015 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 12:30:13 PM)
Lost in all this discussion is that 99% of the money whores on this site are actually scammers: men, Nigerians, or women who have no interest in BDSM, but learned they can whore a few bucks out of complete morons. Welcome to this website. What a goddamm shame.

VegasKink2015 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 12:36:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes The men that spend their time whining that the only women they can get want to charge them don't often spend a lot of time learning the ins and outs of language and communication. smiles What's with that smiles at the end? Do you think you're being cutesy, like a 12-year old girl? And your sentence was a bunch of gobbledygook that made no sense. You were trying to sound smart, urbane, educated, but it's obvious that you aren't. The subject of this thread concerned the deterioration of this site into a haven for money whores. You came up with something semi-sarcastic and borderline illiterate. You're not cute, savvy, or sophisticated.

NookieNotes -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 12:50:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VegasKink2015 quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes The men that spend their time whining that the only women they can get want to charge them don't often spend a lot of time learning the ins and outs of language and communication. smiles What's with that smiles at the end? Do you think you're being cutesy, like a 12-year old girl? And your sentence was a bunch of gobbledygook that made no sense. You were trying to sound smart, urbane, educated, but it's obvious that you aren't. The subject of this thread concerned the deterioration of this site into a haven for money whores. You came up with something semi-sarcastic and borderline illiterate. You're not cute, savvy, or sophisticated. Thank you for both your reply here and your sock message and block to me on the other side! Seems I struck a nerve. That makes me smiles Oh, and the subject is: "Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People?" and actually covered both online and real life experience. Not, "the deterioration of this site into a haven for money whores." Better luck next time.

Moderator3 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 12:51:32 PM)
Actually, you are changing the topic and adding insults. Take this down a notch please. Don't change the topic and any further insults will be dealt with by staff using normal forum procedures.

Moderator3 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/26/2015 9:40:03 PM)
I know some of you saw the post I removed and I will hope that no one quoted it or will respond to it. Trying to clear the scroll.

DesFIP -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/27/2015 8:33:51 AM)
Re tribute: OP, you need to understand that most so called male subs lie. They only want phone/cyber stuff for them to wank to. They agree to meeting and stand the woman up. So asking for tribute is frequently done in order to see if the guy is serious or not. Tribute is usually less than buying her lunch if you met. Once you've spent that $25, you are more likely to actually show up at Starbucks. People are more committed to that they invest money in. So this allows the dommes to determine who is for real and who is lying. Don't want to do that? Then attend a lot of munches and local events and get to know the dommes as people. Socialize and become friendly. Don't just approach them hoping to get your kinks catered to. And yes, they can tell when guys have an agenda versus them actually enjoying the conversation.

TNDommeK -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/27/2015 12:04:04 PM)
To answer the original question, no. Not for me anyway. I'm a pro/fin as well. I have a property preservation company, I used to be a dancer, I do hair (at my home, not in a shop. So I keep everything). So without being a fin/pro, I do well. I live in a desired suburb, I have a beautiful home (nicely furnished), I have an up to date fully loaded truck (LOVE MY TRUCK!!). I don't really want for anything. AAAAND....my husband does pretty well in his business. So we are good I think. Our girls don't work if they don't want to. All that said, I'm not poor. Just because tribute is involved doesn't mean there's a lack of money. That's like asking if dancers are poor. They make more money than lawyers (well, good ones do). I did. And it's their job to ask for dances. I would just suggest getting to know the person, there's nothing wrong with tributing. And certainly not all are whores. just use good judgement. And have fun.

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/27/2015 1:49:56 PM)
quote: Are dominant women tend to be financially strapped? To answer the original question...I can't answer for other women, but yes, I am. I was poor, I am poor, and unless I win the lottery I will always be poor. I don't take tributes (other than verbal praise, when offered). If someone wants me to top them, they have to catch my interest and show me that they are a decent human being who is fun to be with. quote: Every dominant woman I've encountered on this site, as well as another site, always bring up the issue they want to be paid, even though she isn't a pro. I'm at both sites and I know I'm not the only one who is poor and doesn't expect tributes...because our munch groups are full of people living below the poverty level (this is the lovely state of West Virginia, enough said), and nobody I know in real time takes tributes. I only know one pro-Domme, and she takes payment, not tribute, for her time.

R3dwillow -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/31/2015 10:20:18 PM)
if I would meet someone here and fall in love... then no.. I wouldn't want their money.. I have a nice career and am doing fine.. however when I 'meet' a guy that wants to play and has nothing to offer? doesn't have toys, the space or a fabulous body... yes.. you have nothing to offer me - yet expect me to pay for the toys you will enjoy- the clothes I wear that you will enjoy- the sex play that you will enjoy- my space where you can play away from the prying eyes of the world, your neighbors or god forbid your wife..? and you dare to call us whores?? you who brings nothing? please- go hide..

daniel1973 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (7/31/2015 11:28:46 PM)
quote: That's pretty harsh. But true. "Don't judge other people and specifically don't interfere when they gimme gimme gimme." And don't dare to even try to explain to them what it is that they want for real.

BlueRoses1111 -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/1/2015 3:31:49 PM)
quote: If I would meet someone here and fall in love... then no.. I wouldn't want their money.. I have a nice career and am doing fine.. however when I 'meet' a guy that wants to play and has nothing to offer? doesn't have toys, the space or a fabulous body... yes.. you have nothing to offer me - yet expect me to pay for the toys you will enjoy- the clothes I wear that you will enjoy- the sex play that you will enjoy- my space where you can play away from the prying eyes of the world, your neighbors or god forbid your wife..? and you dare to call us whores?? you who brings nothing? please- go hide.. ^This. There hasn't been one that has contacted me that was actually single,serious or even in reality . (Yes why would anyone want to give free kink to someone's husband?" What's in that for me? Go to a Pro or I'll purposely try to get your divorced -- Yes I'm that kind of bitch. Next up is the " I don't want to pay Real Rent" so he labels himself a " live in slave" when honestly he's just mad that he can't live off of mommy and daddy anymore. Washing a floor or two and cooking dinner I bought with my own money is a fucking joke". When did that become "real kink?" seriously? So let's see free room and board oh and of course he offers to serve sexually like dick is hard to come by and next up maybe he'll do laundry. A grown man will always eat more than me so in all truth you're paying him to eat your food and paying him for sex you're not desperate for. So umm and no thank you. Next Up is "Kink Fix Finder Service" It's supposed to be your duty to help some random find a way to clear out his cock pipe. Wow really? I always send them to the Pro Services Tab. I don't get a thank you more like "well fuck you bitch" attitude. Then of course: Too old too delusional. Chances are you'll die before we even meet and why would I date someone that old? You weren't dating people 50 years your senior EVER so why the hell should I? Not a sugar daddy? Old and broke? Wow Next! Give and Take. Have nothing to give that someone actually wants then you better pull out that wallet. If not well enjoy the view of women that you can't have. Simple. The rest just pop into your inbox on full fantasy mode. Goddess my dick blah blahb, whore me out blah blah, I want to suck bbc... blah blah blah. You're not even talking to someone human. Just the mumblings of a cereal masturbator. Who the hell wants to meet that? There will always be someone calling a woman a whore, cunt, bitch, gold digger, slut etc because he can't fuck, kink ie USE her for whatever selfish self serving needs he has. This is not news as it will always be the case. Same story different day. I even had some do that " I'll be in your state next ..." ooh please shut up! No I'm not going to be your side ass. Go to counseling or go PRO. I suggest if you're as brilliant as you claim then maybe it's time to start staying in that mind and being your own Domme. The mind is where it all is anyways just be creative and fantasize some more. It's free and easy to do. Same thing with masturbation. Can't get laid? Start finding or building shit to stick your dick into. Please stay away from the hornet's nest. The last guy that tried that out didn't fair too well. Bad Sub!! lol I could say "go to a munch, attend kink events" but most of these types can't or refuse to attend. What kind of excuse are they going to give to the wife? Also since it's quick " just want to get off" how is that going to work out? Events like this aren't really of interest to these individuals. When someone comes along that has something REAL to offer I'll be all ears. For now I have other interests . Play responsibly! Alone! Free and Easy. <--I support this self service announcement.

HoneyBears -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/1/2015 6:28:37 PM)
[sm=rofl.gif]Omg, I think I am going to need help getting up off the floor! How many years did I struggle to get away from these inhabitants of Loserville? Way too many to count. Take a kinky guy - and fetishists are everywhere, within and without BDSM - and amplify your typical mediocre vanilla guy's boorish conduct and one-track mindedness by a hundredfold. It really is enough to want to write off virtually every male who frequents kink sites, dating sites, singles events, or what have you, trying desperately to interact with females. I thank my lucky stars every single day (and so does he!) that I have my boy, my man, my lover, my partner, and my mate, all rolled up in one Super Fabulous, Sexy Kind, Considerate and Giving Smart As Hell (Smart Ass-y[8D]) Prime Specimen of Manhood. Not to brag or anything, of course[sm=modxiiswatching.gif] -- Lisa

QueenRah -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/2/2015 5:20:46 AM)
R3dwillow, BlueRoses and HoneyBears, I think the op ran off, screaming. You didn't tell him, or any of his kind, anything they want to read. Too right, you three are. Try decades of dealing with this crap. Decades. They wonder why Dominas tend to come across as bitter and jaded. They will never learn. Nor will boneheads like a certain so-called dm (deliberately lower case letters, to match his junk size), who just dive-bombs threads, then runs away, like the silly, little boy he is. QR

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/2/2015 5:42:28 AM)
Are men who think actual women are going to instantly fulfill every fantasy or fetish they have ever had just b/c it's what they want dumb, or poor, or real or <insert your own qualifier here>? Do they exist on this site, on BOTH sides of the kneel? Why yes, yes they do.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/4/2015 4:54:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TimYearneau I'm new to this place so I'm not sure where to post this. If this is a repeated question, or if the community feels it's a stupid question, I'll delete it, if that's possible. In real life if someone automatically brings up money they are usually poor people who are needy. I understand that a pro-dominant woman is using this site to get more clients and make money. So when I read her profile I make sure she isn't a pro. Every dominant woman I've encountered on this site, as well as another site, always bring up the issue they want to be paid, even though she isn't a pro. No where do I ever mention I'm willing to pay. I went to a BDSM event and there was only one Dominant woman. I approached her and she immediately gave me her card and said she requires tribute if I want to talk to her. I've never come across people who want to get paid like this. But I do come across poor people who ask for money. Are dominant women tend to be financially strapped? Bud....get a clue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They can....you can't. End of discussion.

StaceyRaven -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/5/2015 9:38:10 AM)
Sounds like observation bias. The dominant women who don't need money aren't the ones you come in contact with.

RockaRolla -> RE: Are Dominant Women Usually Poor People? (8/5/2015 12:44:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StaceyRaven Sounds like observation bias. The dominant women who don't need money aren't the ones you come in contact with. This. Which is common when you're approaching women as if they're kinky vending machines.

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