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crumpets -> RE: Male:Female ratio on collarspace (8/24/2015 1:04:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: cloverodella
It never occurs to him/them that we just don't want him/them
This is an interesting point, and, it may be the tip of the iceberg which will help all of us better understand each other since we all are coming at the same problem from wholly different viewpoints (which is natural for all male:female sexual comparisons).
What you're saying, I believe, if I may attempt to paraphrase, is that women are as horny as men, but just for their ONE MAN, while men, we can assume, by way of comparison, that I'm saying that we men (in general) aren't as, um, shall we say, er, "selective" (witness the myriad unending Hugh-Grant style examples in the prior post).
If we assume that this concept is true, what you're saying is that men are "as horny" for a larger variety of women (at the same time), while women are "as horny" for (literally) one man (at a time).
While this focus on the "number" rather than the level of sexual desire is a very interesting concept, which bears faithful discussion by fleshing out further, it still doesn't tell us whether that sexual desire for one man is any greater or lesser than the man's desire for many women.
You obviously assume the level of sexual desire is the same (where only the focus may be different).
My "personal" conviction, is that the average woman is so far below the average man in sexual drive that the average woman actually has absolutely no concept of how incredibly horny the average man is.
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ORIGINAL: cloverodella
in particular because they are a man who has nothing to offer.
Aha!
I realize you didn't mean to bolster my key point that men are sluts and women are whores (philosophically speaking, with respect to motive), but, your statement that men need to have "something to offer" goes a long way toward indicating that you actually do realize the truth - you just may not realize that you actually understand the point that I'm trying to clarify in this discussion.
Notice that women, in general, choose a man who "offers something" (i.e., whore'ish behavior, figuratively speaking), while history shows us that men often choose women who offer only sex (literally speaking), as witnessed by the myriad examples I have already listed (e.g., Robert F. Kennedy, Eliot Spitzer, Franklin Roosevelt, Genghis Khan, Hugh Grant, Bill Clinton, Tiger Woods, etc. - remember, this list goes on not only forever in the present, but, just as long, or even longer, for the past ten thousand years).
The point is that women and men approach this sex thing entirely differently.
Specifically, women, in general, have absolutely no concept of how men approach things.
Women "think" they're horny, just as a child thinks he's Superman; but he's not (and women have no concept of what horny means to men because if they did - world history would be vastly different).
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ORIGINAL: cloverodella
The fault is that women a're shallow and find them ugly, or we don't like Nice Guys, or there aren't as many of us as there are them, or that we're not as horny, or we don't like sex, or we're just scammers out for money their, etc. and etc. Like no, dude, you are simply undesirable.
There's absolutely no need to get "personal" here.
We are speaking in generalities.
You might note that I have prefaced many statements with the words "in general" because there is a bell curve to every philosophical concept.
The philosophical concept I'm discussing with you has nothing, per se, to do with YOU or with ME.
It is about men, in general, and women, in general, and how, I believe, and I am trying to portray, that men, in general are so horny that women can't comprehend how horny men are.
Many women are CONSTANTLY SURPRISED that men have trysts (history proves that point) outside their relationship.
Men are RARELY SURPRISED when they know of a friend or wingman who has a tryst outside HIS relationship.
Of course, some men are surprised when their wives or girlfriends have trysts outside their relationship too; however, it is my supposition (mostly based on my knowledge of current and historical events) that the NUMBER of men surprised by the women being hornier than they are is far lower than the number of women surprised that the men are far hornier than they are.
Anyway, I see you have agreed that women are sluts (figuratively speaking) because they want MORE than just sex, while the men, well, many of them anyway, could be forced to have sex every day with a different woman, and they'd still be happy to do so.
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