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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/14/2015 6:13:41 PM   
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To simplify, he means he took an arbitrary number based on an assumption that it's primarily the left side of the curve that hang out on collarspace.

I know at least one person on here that would have been clipped with his trimming of the ends. An ex roommate of mine who like crmpets retired young(when he was six from a stock predicting algorithm he wrote) he was at 180...something(measurung gets less and less accurate at those stages anyway) but like the people described in these posts he would throw a hissy fit any time something didnt go his way(i still have the videos stored on the cloud of a grown man crying because he bet that whoever won at chess three times in a row would admit the other was better.... after I won he cried. Same with our speed math tests, stomp around throw things....

Intellect has nothing to do with maturity.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/14/2015 8:24:34 PM   
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To simplify, he means he took an arbitrary number based on an assumption that it's primarily the left side of the curve that hang out on collarspace.

Not bad, for a simplification, but not really true.
I assumed it was the MIDDLE of the curve that hangs out at Collarspace, but, then I deducted IQ points for bad grammar, poor spelling, lousy punctuation, and untenably close-minded ideas, the last of which abounds here. :)
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I know at least one person on here that would have been clipped with his trimming of the ends.

Most people I converse with are far (far) smarter than I am. I can barely keep up with them in a conversation.
Here, it's vastly easier to figure out what people think since you can predict almost everything since very little is a new idea here, and, the few new ideas that are promoted, are shot down instantly due to the severe lack of the ability to think outside the box inherent in most (but not all) posters.

That "some" can think outside the box, is the only reason for remaining...
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Intellect has nothing to do with maturity.

Very true.
Nor wisdom.

Intellect simply means that you can UNDERSTAND the other person.

It doesn't even mean that you agree; but it means you can understand - and - that you can handle the necessary detail to understand.

Most highly technical people, for example, can handle extreme amounts of detail.
Many people here, can't handle ANY level of detail (from what I have experienced).

Many can't even handle fifth-grade levels of detail, such as spelling and punctuation and (Am) English word-usage detail, let alone the detail inherent in espousing good (or bad) and potentially novel IDEAS.

Heck, some people here complain that they can't even handle the 3rd-grade level of detail inherent in the proper usage of the comma!

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/14/2015 10:28:01 PM   
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You keep stating grammar as your determinant for iq but they have nothing to do with each other. Someone who has had no formal education can place really high, iq is a measure, mostly, of critical thinking skills... puzzle solving ability. Anything that requires "being taught" is not tested. I was tested at 7(my friend was tested around the same age for entrance to mensa) in order to recieve a scholarship to one of the private schools I went to in elementary school. I hadnt been taught a thing in my life, I taught myself to read and write... grammar, or familiarity with language doesn't affect score.

That's like saying that because doctors have bad handwriting they cant hold a scalpel.

Things like grammar and mathmatical understanding can show education, they don't show intelligence. Rote memorization is different from innate understanding. People with lower iqs can progress farther, learn more through dedication etc. People with high iqs can drink and sit in front of the tv all day.

I have a sister who is 6 with down syndrome. She is the best writer in her first grade class, could she conceptualize her own perception or sentience into poetry... hell no. But rules like sentence structure, learning three languages, she manages all that. You can play the first minute of any episode of sesame street and she would be able to recite verbatim the entire episode, but ask her to come up with her own story and she'll look at you like you are crazy.

My other sister catches on fairly quickly, if I had to guess id say she was somewhere between 115-130. Her biggest issue, incredible gullibility. I tried to focus her studies, guided every step she took from afar. She was half finished with her engineering degree and had a place playing violin on her college orchestra. She was 17 when she asked me why no one believes her when she tells the truth. I, only half jokingly, told her people only believe lies and told her to try only lying to people and see if they still go unhinged.... the first guy she lied to ended up marrying her. She dropped out, got pregnant, and now believes that jesus predicted the nazis and aliens are really demons and they are coming to take you to hell in an alternate dimension.

My point being that how someone turns out, how they use it, has little to do with base intellect.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 3:53:15 AM   
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Where do you even get your numbers?


As always, you bring up a good point.


Given the population, by definition, has an average IQ

LOL! Do you even KNOW what average means? Average IQ is 100. The population, does NOT, by definition have an AVERAGE IQ, unless they have an IQ of exactly 100.

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I started with the assumption that Collarspace profiles and forum posts are 70% from the middle of the IQ spectrum.
You can't fault me (yet) for that assumption, can you?


Yes. Unless you define "middle of the spectrum."

50% of IQ scores fall between 90 and 110. THAT is a solid number.

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Then, I considered what is written in the vast majority of the profiles (you can assume I'm rather experienced in this CM/CS game and that I have been here for more years than my current profile indicates).
You can also consider that I am long-ago retired, simply because I made money in the tech field, by outsmarting others trying to make money the same way.

Furthermore, you can easily assume that I physically hang out with other extremely intelligent people, almost all of whom are similarly retired in their 30s, 40s, and 50s (this is Silicon Valley, after all).
Almost all these guys (they're all guys) have doctorates from the likes of MIT/Harvard/Princeton/UPenn/Stanford/UCLA, etc.,. and I would consider them to be in the top half, IQ-wise, in the spectrum.


With all your bragging and pontificating, I don't have to assume a thing, You are laying out all this useless knowledge for me, without any need. It does not apply to anything numerical.

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The language from these top-notch men is far and above the low-level banter which resides here.


That YOU have encountered.

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Worse, the grammar here, in general, is so atrocious as to make a 5th-grade English teacher cry, because the vast majority of CS profiles wouldn't pass muster on even that fifth-grade English teacher's scrutiny, let alone elevate the profile owner to the top half of the IQ spectrum.

Then, if you begin to read the forums (rest assured, I have probably a thousand or more posts in the forums, under various identities), after the first few thousand posts, you can pretty clearly assign far more than half the posts here to the bottom half of the intelligence scale in society at large.


Grammar has very little to do with intelligence.

My Architect Pet is quite bright. Tests at 131. Mixes up words and misses words altogether in his writing ALL THE TIME. Not good at grammar at all.

Also, take into account this is an international forum. There are very many non-native English speakers on CS (even from the US), which will skew your perception.

I would guess that the CS population is almost exactly representative of the general population at-large online, myself.

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To simplify, he means he took an arbitrary number based on an assumption that it's primarily the left side of the curve that hang out on collarspace.


*gigglesnorts*

And backed it up with "authentic frontier gibberish." Don't forget that!

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 5:32:51 AM   
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You keep stating grammar as your determinant for iq but they have nothing to do with each other.


I understand what you're saying, which is, essentially, that shortcomings in grammar have "nothing", per se, to do with innate IQ.

Your point, if I may expound upon it, is that grammar is a function of "exposure" to grammar, and only subsequently can there be any "uptake" of grammar based on that prior (perhaps formal?) exposure.

Hence, you argue, if someone has never been "taught" proper grammar, they wouldn't be able to synthesize it on their own.

That makes sense, a priori; however, in the United States, I would question the veracity of the statement from anyone who attempts to lay claim to having never been properly EXPOSED to proper grammar, considering that formal English instruction is required in virtually every year of education, from Kindergarten to Freshman year in college.

In fact, in the US, exposure to correct grammar can be considered a fait accompli, simply because every child is who was not brought up hidden in a crate behind car parts in Missouri is exposed to proper grammar in school, by listening to the news, by reading books, and from their friends.

My argument is that part of the observed IQ entails the ability to handle esoteric detail, which, in a very simple sense, proper grammar aptly exemplifies.
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Someone who has had no formal education can place really high, iq is a measure, mostly, of critical thinking skills...

While a good IQ test should not be possible to "game", I do agree that "practical" tests often test prior exposure (and uptake ability, given that exposure).

However, your reliance on formal education has its limits. I taught high-school math for a few years, and I can tell you that plenty of kids exist in the formal education system where no amount of scaffolding will allow these kids to understand something as trivially simple as a quadratic equation, let alone trig or calculus. They just don't have it. They're average, at best, for the most part. And average isn't good enough to cut the mustard when the going gets tough.

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puzzle solving ability. Anything that requires "being taught" is not tested.

Puzzle solving, while it can be "taught", is also innate. How many people do you know who have never fixed an electric motor, or who have never built an RLC tuned circuit or who have never debugged a dead Internet connection, or who have never repaired their automobile, or who have never debugged noisy bearings in their bicycle or who can't figure out why the glyphosate herbicide doesn't work as well in the early summer as it does in late summer due to changes in translocation direction (which is a current endeavor of mine at the moment - so it was on my mind)?

My point is that we are faced with the need to solve myriad natural "puzzles" every day, where those who have immense innate problem-solving skills rely upon an absolutely astoundingly huge set of "intelligence tools" endowed in the complex wiring of their brain.

In contrast, proper grammar is only one of the simpler "puzzles" we humans face daily; and we're all exposed to formal education, by law, on the subject. My point is that, if we can't even handle the minor complexities of learning the life-long skills of grammatical usage, we're not ever going to understand anything even slightly more complex.

Basically, if someone can't "understand" grammar, they're never going to understand anything even remotely complex.

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I taught myself to read and write... grammar, or familiarity with language doesn't affect score.

I, like you, read voraciously all my life. My father installed a light over my bed, so that I could fall asleep each and every night, with a book in my face (I still do - only now it's a computer screen illuminating me as I drift off to count sheep). In general, I leave a documentary running, so that I can keep my mind moving in the period between closing my eyes and finally falling asleep, and so that I wake up listening to whatever documentary is in the queue at the time I emerge into consciousness.

I'm constantly exposed to grammar.

I remember reading "Treasure Island", unabridged, in first grade for example. Now, the word usage and grammar there was, to a first grader anyway, a bit on the heavy side, so, it wasn't until my third or fourth reading of the book that I started understanding the story.

But, grammar is a funny thing that way. It's repeated daily in hundreds of ways. In a week of reading and listening to the news and talking to people, we have been exposed to tens of thousands of individual "instances" of grammar.

Assuming only a thousand instances a week (which is a conservative number for the sake of this discussion), that's roughly fifty-thousand "instances" of grammar a year, which, over the average lifetime of a human, is something on the order of at least 10^6 instances of grammar.

If someone is incapable of learning grammar, after millions of instances of its proper use, then, well, what does that say about their ability to handle even the simplest of tasks?
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That's like saying that because doctors have bad handwriting they cant hold a scalpel.

No. It's like saying that any doctor who can't handle the complexity of identifying every bone and muscle in the body (something which all medical doctors must do as part of their formal education), then they certainly shouldn't be allowed to hold a scalpel to an anesthetized and otherwise helpless patient.

I believe the ability to assimilate complexity is the fundamental measure of intelligence.
You may believe differently; but we should at least both be able to understand each other.
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Things like grammar and mathmatical understanding can show education, they don't show intelligence.

Everyone in the USA (who didn't grow up in a cave) has been formally educated on basic mathematical and grammatical reasoning.
Not one person has escaped the boredom of being exposed to a geometric proof, for example.
Yet, only some show the ability to comprehend that which they are exposed to.
Such, is intelligence.
(Although I do admit, one has to "care to learn" in order to learn anything.)
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Rote memorization is different from innate understanding.

Heh heh... Being extremely service minded, I help people for fun. I help all my neighbors, for example. As one example, I fix the nearby divorcee's car when it breaks. Let me tell you, no amount of "rote memorization" is going to help me diagnose what's wrong with her car (it's an older bimmer, so it breaks all the time in the strangest of ways). When the DISA flap valve starts rattling, no amount of "rote memorization" is going to help me troubleshoot what's wrong.

If I get a P0143 diagnostic trouble code on my scanner, it doesn't mean "replace me", which many shadetree mechanics think it means; no, it means "something is not right with my measurements". I am on many car forums. Do you know how many low-level idiots are out there who just "throw parts" at a problem, instead of diagnosing it down to the exact part that has failed? Do you know how few actually autopsy the part, to find exactly where it failed, and why, so that they can learn how to prevent that failure in the future?

I wholeheartedly agree with you that "rote memorization" has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with understanding.
I never said (nor even implied) that proper grammar is akin to "rote memorization".

What I am saying is that I believe the ability to handle complexity is a measure of intelligence - and - if someone can't even handle something as fundamental as proper grammar - then - well - um - is there a nice way to say this? I guess not. So, I won't say it.

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People with lower iqs can progress farther, learn more through dedication etc. People with high iqs can drink and sit in front of the tv all day.

I agree with you, and I don't doubt that supposition one bit.
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Her biggest issue, incredible gullibility.

I understand. I also suffered from extreme innocence most of my life.
Being Aspergers, I used to believe EVERYTHING I was told.
I was soon disabused of that flaw, but not after suffering abuse at the hands of adults which I won't delve into here.

I do agree with you that the ability to "function" in our society, takes MORE than just intelligence, and, I will agree that nothing is simple when it comes to the type of discussion we are enjoying.
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My point being that how someone turns out, how they use it, has little to do with base intellect.

I won't disagree with you on this.
There is always the "inspiration" versus "perspiration" argument, along with a healthy does of luck and circumstance.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 5:36:07 AM   
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Grammar has very little to do with intelligence.

See above.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 6:01:20 AM   
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I, like you, read voraciously all my life. My father installed a light over my bed, so that I could fall asleep each and every night, with a book in my face (I still do - only now it's a computer screen illuminating me as I drift off to count sheep). In general, I leave a documentary running, so that I can keep my mind moving in the period between closing my eyes and finally falling asleep, and so that I wake up listening to whatever documentary is in the queue at the time I emerge into consciousness.

I'm constantly exposed to grammar.

I remember reading "Treasure Island", unabridged, in first grade for example. Now, the word usage and grammar there was, to a first grader anyway, a bit on the heavy side, so, it wasn't until my third or fourth reading of the book that I started understanding the story.

But, grammar is a funny thing that way. It's repeated daily in hundreds of ways. In a week of reading and listening to the news and talking to people, we have been exposed to tens of thousands of individual "instances" of grammar.

Assuming only a thousand instances a week (which is a conservative number for the sake of this discussion), that's roughly fifty-thousand "instances" of grammar a year, which, over the average lifetime of a human, is something on the order of at least 10^6 instances of grammar.


1. This is a stunning example of privilege-blindness.

2. Grokking language is a TYPE of intelligence. Not all very intelligent people have the same levels of skill in everything. Social intelligence, for example, in Aspergers. Some "get" math, some "get" language, some "get" art.

It's silly to think that all intelligence is as you judge it.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 10:15:39 AM   
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Iq is that percentage of what you "should" know compared to what you do know at any given age. It is a test that test nothing useful unless you belong to the class that it is designed to test.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 10:36:28 AM   
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In contrast, proper grammar is only one of the simpler "puzzles" we humans face daily; and we're all exposed to formal education, by law, on the subject. My point is that, if we can't even handle the minor complexities of learning the life-long skills of grammatical usage, we're not ever going to understand anything even slightly more complex.

Basically, if someone can't "understand" grammar, they're never going to understand anything even remotely complex.


Should you find time to watch the discussions (u tube)between william f. buckley and mohamed ali I am sure you could pick the one who commands the grammar of the english language. You will also note that same person was the intellectual inferior of the one with the less complete grammar.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/15/2015 5:52:26 PM   
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However, your reliance on formal education has its limits


That one was the exact opposite of what I said(maybe I should bother using punctuation properly on posts lol)

I was saying intelligence is overall ability. It is not a measure of what you've been exposed to.

For example(while you need to know how to read) look at the difference between the sat and accuplacer(community college placement test... well actually if you arent familiar with it don't look at the official sample test as a reference it covers next to nothing that is on it).

The sat does not ask things that require knowledge of a formula to solve.... if it does, they provide the formula. This measures intelligence(roughly). Thr ability to figure out a solution whether or not you know the "right" way.

The accuplacer asks simple questions that are impossible to figure out without knowledge of the subject. For example: 90°<theta<180° which is= to 5 cos theta sec theta?

Without having studied trig(either by yourself or through school) there is little chance of being able to "think" your way into an answer(outside of luck)

I have a hard time believing there are average people who can learn trig or calculus, I think there are a lot that dont want to put the effort in...of course I do have a tendency to overestimate others. But I, for example, hated math in school(mainly due to moving a lot and credits never transferring... having to take a class I passed in 7th grade for every year after that). I loved learning before I went to school, it was my way of being bad. I had to hide books and make sure I didnt say anything "smart" or I'd get hit. I saw learning as exciting and my ticket out of that hell hole.... until I went to school. I had to sit still all day and listen to things id learned years before repeated without any creativity or original thought behind it. Valedictorian in middleschool, By highschool I rarely showed up except to sleep and my early morning discussions with an english teacher I liked. It was school itself that convinced me that education was pointless.

Fastforward almost a decade after graduation and tah duh I start liking learning again. The idea of there being something I dont know is exciting again.

Most concepts in math(at least at the level ive gotten to so far) are fairly straightforward, anyone who focusses should be able to understand factoring, matrices, combinatorics, logarithms, etc(trig is the hardest for me so far because it requires a lot of memorization.... damn you unit circle)... but I bet anyone could learn(at the very least) a basic level of understanding of concepts such as these. (I was trying to teach daddy about imaginary numbers and failed though... I think thats me being impatient and not explaining well enough though).

I used to be an iq snob. Until I sat back and saw what some "average" people managed to learn while I coasted. Instead of finding what was challenging, I never studied and just aced tests, putting in the minimal effort for busy work I felt beneath me. Probkem with that is.... those people that worked their ass off ended up a lot farther. The attitude "I know more than them, so im fine" is devastating because you stop looking for what you don't know.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 12:58:58 PM   
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Without having studied trig(either by yourself or through school) there is little chance of being able to "think" your way into an answer(outside of luck)


Uless you know algebra you will never learn trig no matter how smart you think you are./b]

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I have a hard time believing there are average people who can learn trig or calculus,



Average people created everything you know. The genuis takes what average people created and expand it.



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I think there are a lot that dont want to put the effort in...


It would make sense that those people would not study the calculus.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 2:15:37 PM   
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That was not to you it labelled the message as a reply to you because you posted while I was in the process of writing it.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 2:44:33 PM   
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That was not to you it labelled the message as a reply to you because you posted while I was in the process of writing it.



My response was meant for you. It expresses my thoughts concerning your opinions.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 3:42:25 PM   
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Hmm well sorry but I wouldn't know what to respond to in that case, your responses were your feelings about cery specific lines without taking the big picture into consideration. I suppose I could remove the actual message and just respond to what you have to say about specific lines.... ok ill give it a shot, though it would probably only farther convolute things, but why not

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Uless you know algebra you will never learn trig no matter how smart you think you are./b


Not true actually! Algebra and trig are completely self sufficient, however, geometry would be a great prerequisite if someone wants to jump into trig.

To tie it back in with what I was originally saying. Algebra is one of those things people can know intuitively. At it's basic levels, a similarly easy question from the algebra side(contrary to the trig one above) would be something like: (30a^3b^4)/(50a^4b^2) or (5a+18<-27) or (15a^3b^2-45a^2b^3-60a^2b) which I believe people could figure out if they focused, with no prior knowledge(outside of basic arithmetic), simply looking for patterns.... any person, if incentive is great enough has the capacity to figure out things which "make sense" be it the maths or otherwise. The incentive is simply more immediate, or more direct, for misunderstanding.

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I have a hard time believing there are average people who can learn trig or calculus,


This was actually a typo on my part, or my phone not liking my lack of apostrophe use(an apostrophe is three pages in on the phone keyboard... annoying) can was supposed to be can't which makes the confusion understandable(that I would have one sentence counter to everything else I said)

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It would make sense that those people would not study the calculus


And that is the problem, people who have no desire to learn... don't. What people are saying when they say "Im just bad at that" is "I dont want to put the effort in" everyone has things they don't care to learn. Ability isnt determined by interest.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 5:15:53 PM   
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Not true actually! Algebra and trig are completely self sufficient, however, geometry would be a great prerequisite if someone wants to jump into trig.


Opinions vary

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 5:17:12 PM   
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though it would probably only farther convolute things, but why not


The word you are looking for is further.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 5:20:52 PM   
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And that is the problem, people who have no desire to learn... don't.


That was not my point. Those with a desire to learn may not want to learn calculus. Two different concepts.


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What people are saying when they say "Im just bad at that" is "I dont want to put the effort in" everyone has things they don't care to learn. Ability isnt determined by interest.


See above.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 5:23:18 PM   
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your responses were your feelings about cery specific lines without taking the big picture into consideration.


I felt the lines I chose to respond to were the seminal points of your opinion...thus they do address the "big picture"

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/16/2015 5:45:09 PM   
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You are attempting to nitpick. Math was not the topic of discussion, it was the example used. The concept you are trying to impart would therefore be "those with a desire to learn may not want to learn that" which was already stated.

Perhaps if I change the example it would be more obvious. My owner likes geology, I am bored to tears talking about rocks. No amount of knowing the information will ever make me interested in it. I will never study rocks, I will never try to know everything I can about rocks.

Do you see how what you were saying was already a fraction of what I had said? The general point is the same, you are merely compartmentalizing your ideas differently, placing more focus on details(which I feel meaningless to try to explain why you could take trig without taking algebra because they do not cover the same information, if you have no desire to do so. However if you ever change your mind and decide you want to throw yourself at trig without a refresher khanacademy is a great free source that doesnt require prerequisites like traditional schooling)rather than the general idea.

continuing with this will just prove crumpets point on multiple grounds so id rather not work against myself.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/19/2015 2:48:54 PM   
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I don't act like that. I don't take it personal if someone isn't interested in me. I'm not perfect and there are a lot of women I'm not interested in. Que Sara Sara or whatever it was.

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