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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
...Perhaps if everyone, man and woman alike, manned up and used forum tools like the hide button to avoid objectionable people...

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If it takes too much longer to get to ten, I'm going to have to order pizza and beer.

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ORIGINAL: HoneyBears

In the interests of helping to meet shiftyw's 10-page thread goal, I shall put in my two-cents worth.

@ResidentSadist, you have always impressed us as being confident and secure with yourself and the place you have carved out for yourself in this world, without acting arrogant.
We would even go so far as to say that you are the epitome of "NOT an Asshat Dom," a man of integrity who has a fulfilling life where he does not have to go seeking after high drama, does not try to insert himself into discussions where he has nothing of value to add like some others who are no better than self-aggrandizing attention whores.

For example, there were a couple of threads not long ago dealing with gender supremacy beliefs. One was about whether Male Supremacy could be considered a "legitimate" kink.
A dominant top decided that since she practices Female Supremacy, that any comparison of the obvious danger of harboring a unilateral supremacist belief system that might spill over into adversely affecting others out in the real world, was tantamount to labeling her a White Supremacist [neo-]Nazi.

It would appear that she expected:
(1) For all gender supremacists to jump in there to defend her private dynamic, when it was clear as day that nobody was attacking her for her own supremacist beliefs as confined within her own circle of intimate D/s relationship dynamics--the same pertaining to the OP orgasmdenial12.
(2) That by defending Male Supremacy, this somehow justified practicing Female Supremacy (as if all gender supremacists should support one another, when it was also clear as day that no Male Supremacist would take kindly to a Female Supremacist since they are diametrically opposed belief systems);
(3) And she erroneously presumed that every femdom is also a Female Supremacist like herself;
(4) Consequently, she became bitterly defensive as if this were her own personal battleground where she should emerge as victor.
Exit to imminently forthcoming flounce off the message boards in a huff.

-- Lisa's Cub

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2



I've been told that the majority of moderators' time is taken up by forum posters' reports complaining about another poster whose posts or existence has offended them. Mostly men complaining. It's just astounding to me that adults can't manage their own online experiences without stomping their feet and demanding intervention.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I still think my personal favorite was the woman I removed for trying to sell her breast milk.

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I still think my personal favorite was the woman I removed for trying to sell her breast milk.

OK, I thought that I had heard it all.

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I still think my personal favorite was the woman I removed for trying to sell her breast milk.

OK, I thought that I had heard it all.

Somebody down below is trying to sell her dirty underwear. There's a buyer for most anything, I'd guess.

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ORIGINAL: M38284

@RS

I'll see what I can do to track down the origination, but I don't think I have the clearance (or the technology). Your title change happened some time ago (I can't see by who, it's blank), was changed again, and then got reset not long ago. Very odd. Perhaps with he temporary server move we did a few days back.

@Everyone

All the other tags were never changed in that central time period, and so remained as they were, according to whatever mod came before. Requests can be made through site support to change those to more appropriate tags.

I also don't have access to specific forum/post reports, so I'm not sure what be going on there (if you re reporting things), but you can reach me via support (site help) if there is something truly out-of-bounds.

The forum mod tiers that were mentioned are not something I am familiar with. They don't exist right now, as far as I know.

Regarding MS4S, he has been taken care of. If you stop responding to his threads, he will stop posting. Otherwise, his posts will be allowed when they are not too unintelligible from here on in, and deleted when they add nothing. Before you say they add nothing to the forum as is, look around at how many of you have responded.

If you (general you) want to be an ass to me and come up with weird conspiracy theories, that's cool. I'm an adult, and I use real fabric underwear. However, perhaps you could try assuming the best about me and the team I am trying to assemble, rather than the worst.

Or not. On you, really.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Nobody with Administrative access should be discussing any management type actions with general members. That's part (not all) of what was wrong with the last person running this joint. The minute that somebody starts violating the privacy of individual members by discussing Mod actions with other members, that's a problem right there. Whether somebody is a loved poster or a hated one, they should not be discussed with other forum participants.