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-= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=-


Restore RS's forum rank text [Awaiting Approval]
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Apologize for being a snivelly little bitch
  7% (6)
Ban the asshole mod
  9% (8)
Ban the asshole ResidentSadist
  8% (7)
RS is an ass and even he believes in "calling a spade a spade"
  4% (4)
Stop abusing mod privileges, there has already been enough of that
  19% (16)
Post to FetLife - whine about this in their Collarme Refugeess group
  5% (5)
Flashback to the days when Arpig used to have 86 socks posting
  8% (7)
Have frenzied masturbation fit and post 86 sexting threads of your own
  4% (4)
Laugh at drama lamas, get cookies & go watch TV like RS just did
  14% (12)


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:02:32 AM   
crazyml


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I will say it again. So happy to see some people back.


Yes... same here.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:03:03 AM   
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YAY Ten Pages!!!!!!!


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:06:10 AM   
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FTW!

<punches air>

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:08:13 AM   
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Did something change about the formatting, here, on the forums?

There used to be 20 responses per page (requiring 200 posts to reach 10 pages). We're at 18(4, now).



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:11:21 AM   
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you are right...looks like a change.


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:22:45 AM   
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Admin M38284 said there was a "temporary server move we did a few days back". So they made some hardware changes, maybe they did some site formatting changes too?

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:26:10 AM   
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nods, ty I know what a pain that can be, as im in the middle of some site formatting changes too...

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 3:18:57 AM   
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I think I have my own answer: I think (for some unknown reason) it has to do with this being a poll. I could be wrong but there's one way to find out ...



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 3:57:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr


Did something change about the formatting, here, on the forums?

There used to be 20 responses per page (requiring 200 posts to reach 10 pages). We're at 18(4, now).



Michael



I looked through each page.
20 on each.

It turns out that the magic 200 will happen at the end of page 20.
20 * 10 = 200
Voila!


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 4:40:48 AM   
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ok i feel a right tit now...you would think after nearly ten years I would have remembered that...

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 5:31:00 AM   
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@RS

You're welcome.

I can ban. Again, though, the topics that have been raised have been responded to by some, so they have actually made the forums a more interesting and active place to be. That is where we walk the line.

Sure, the poster in question is a weirdo, but hey, aren't we all in some way? And we've all seen barely-literate posters come and go.

Banning via IP only works so well, when it changes each time people get online, or even few days/weeks/etc. We use the tools we can, and we are working to make this as lightly moderated as possible with the tools and technology we have.

I understand that there is bad history. I've been there. I've seen it. Not all of it, but enough. And I've heard about it from others, long-standing members.

In my defense, I am the one who has allowed everyone back in, when they've approached me.

My girlfriend took this casual picture of me, when I turned to see what she was bitching and complaining about now. See how patient I look, despite that she was interrupting my evening "watch sports in my adult-real-fabric-underwear time"?

http://cdn.ipernity.com/118/44/53/10074453.47ecb5bb.240.jpg?r2

@LadyPact

I have the ability to remove posts, hide posts, etc.

I do not know about any tiers that were mentioned, nor do I have the right or desire to police others who may be able to moderate these forums.

At this point, I can think of only one person, but I can't say for sure that is the case.

And I have no desire to discuss who does what and why on here. I am here to interact with you as best I can, and see what I can do to tidy things up a bit.

It will take a while, and I hope I have your support.

@angelikaJ

Sounds like a good idea! Can you help me find what you're speaking of? I'll see what can be done.

@Greta75

Thank you.

@DaddySatyr

Nothing that I know of was intended. We did move servers, to fix some of the (lack of) speed issues in CS as a whole. That may have rolled back some settings.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 6:05:10 AM   
shiftyw


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Ommmmggg!!

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 8:35:08 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: M38284
@LadyPact

I have the ability to remove posts, hide posts, etc.

Well, you should. I'll go even further than that and say that more than one of you (you meaning those with Administrative access) has to have that ability. I'm not the only long term poster around here who has seen individuals come along and put stuff on these forums that needs to be taken down from member view. Just a few off the top of my head have been posts about how to locate members by their physical address, (one even came with a google map) revenge porn, posts made about sexual encounters with non-adults, and the list goes on and on. Just yesterday, I reported a journal entry because somebody was talking about loving their pet in a certain kind of way. That kind of content has to go.


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I do not know about any tiers that were mentioned, nor do I have the right or desire to police others who may be able to moderate these forums.

Publicly? No. Privately? If it were me, I'd be trying to sort it out. The list of who has the ability/access to do something like change a forum tag ought to be pretty short. I can't speak about today, but years back, there was a thread about requesting personalized forum tags because regular forum Mods didn't have that ability. Personally, yes, I do consider this kind of thing petty but it is an abuse of power. Somebody needs that power taken away.


quote:

At this point, I can think of only one person, but I can't say for sure that is the case.

Dude, (don't get offended, I tend to call everybody dude-not a gender thing) if there is no log of Administrative actions on the site, that kind of puts you in a predicament. All it takes is one member of staff to tarnish the reputation of everyone. I would suggest to you, if there isn't one now, that a policy be initiated that all Administration actions be documented. No, I am not suggesting that such logs be made available to those of us with just member access.


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And I have no desire to discuss who does what and why on here. I am here to interact with you as best I can, and see what I can do to tidy things up a bit.

That's good because frankly, I don't want to know. I don't want to know your identity, the identity of any member of staff, or anything else that I shouldn't know as a 'regular' member. Y'all need to discuss such things among you as staff but that's exactly where that kind of thing needs to end.

It is my personal opinion that Mod 3 should not have been discussing any forum member with other forum members. Especially if such discussions have been to accuse forum members of a) scamming money from folks via the internet and b) threatening civil litigation against the site. If you've got a member of forum staff that is willing to lie about forum members to other forum members, it's time for that staff member's privileges to go. I don't care if she considers herself on strike, taking a time out, been hospitalized, or anything else.


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It will take a while, and I hope I have your support.

I don't know what to tell you. I really don't. I think this site has some decisions to make about member confidentiality. Granted, the stuff she was whispering to other members of this forum about me weren't true but if her lips were so fast and loose, that's not a good proposition for me. I don't know where Mod 3 sits on the food chain compared to you but I would suggest to you that there is a higher authority. This might be the time to utilize it.


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 9:51:01 AM   
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To clarify:

As far as I know, at this point, there is only me, the team I am creating and limiting, and the owner who has access to do anything. There are no tiers, because they have not been created in a solid, systematic way.

In that sense, Mod3 is nowhere. She is no longer a mod.

I have no desire to police former mods or what they did. The logs are blank in certain places, and frankly I don't care why. What happened before does not really interest me.

You can give me a clean slate, and trust that I will do my best for you, as I have by removing your ban, or you can color me with whatever brushes you have on hand. That will just make my job here, and your results, more difficult to achieve.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 10:00:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: M38284

To clarify:

As far as I know, at this point, there is only me, the team I am creating and limiting, and the owner who has access to do anything. There are no tiers, because they have not been created in a solid, systematic way.

In that sense, Mod3 is nowhere. She is no longer a mod.

I have no desire to police former mods or what they did. The logs are blank in certain places, and frankly I don't care why. What happened before does not really interest me.

You can give me a clean slate, and trust that I will do my best for you, as I have by removing your ban, or you can color me with whatever brushes you have on hand. That will just make my job here, and your results, more difficult to achieve.


Okay, let's say that you are ticklish. I've a plethora of brushes my twisted sadistic black heart is eager to use. However, if you're not ticklish, I'm not interested in playing those funny games, mister/ma'am.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 10:08:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: M38284

To clarify:

There are no tiers, because they have not been created in a solid, systematic way.


Unless the software has been drastically changed - I can't see how they'd be gone. They're the permission levels built into the software.

Moderator status - the setting allows editing, moving, hiding and deleting of threads. (It would say moderator under the screen name)

Admin Status - the setting allows the previous items along with the ability to put people on AA and banning them from the forums. (it would say Administrator under the screen name)

Upper Admin Status - can change users profiles, delete profiles, etc. (It would say Administrator under the screen name)


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 10:53:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: M38284
To clarify:

As far as I know, at this point, there is only me, the team I am creating and limiting, and the owner who has access to do anything. There are no tiers, because they have not been created in a solid, systematic way.

That probably means you have a big job ahead of you. I hope that's not coming off as snarky. If I'm understanding it right, somebody is going to have to come up with a plan and whether that's you or a cooperative effort with the owner, it's not a position I envy.


quote:

In that sense, Mod3 is nowhere. She is no longer a mod.

That's probably a good thing. If it were me, I wouldn't want the headache. It just screams liability and there's enough on the plate without that.

quote:

I have no desire to police former mods or what they did. The logs are blank in certain places, and frankly I don't care why. What happened before does not really interest me.

I'm not suggesting that you attempt to police former Mods. I don't think anybody has the capacity to do that. I've been trying to think of a good way to say this without violating ToS. The best I can come up with is that it's no more reasonable now than if somebody tried to "fix" the criminal, addictive behavior that might have been happening five years ago. (I'm using that term "might" very lightly.)

quote:

You can give me a clean slate, and trust that I will do my best for you, as I have by removing your ban, or you can color me with whatever brushes you have on hand. That will just make my job here, and your results, more difficult to achieve.

I give everybody a clean slate to start. It's actually one of my faults.

I honestly do want to wish you luck in your endeavors.



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 11:09:38 AM   
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@angelikaJ

Sounds like a good idea! Can you help me find what you're speaking of? I'll see what can be done.



I wish I could tell you where it is.
It is where ever deleted content was moved to.

Maybe LP could help by refreshing my memory of the poster's nick?

It was a solid piece of information that provided so many answers to male submissives on how to approach women, how to write an attractive profile etc.
It may have been structured like a FAQ.
(I kind of think there were 2 separate threads, actually.)


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 11:12:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: M38284


I have no desire to police former mods or what they did. The logs are blank in certain places, and frankly I don't care why. What happened before does not really interest me.


Trying to undo what has come before you would be futile and drive you crazy. I think the fresh start attitude is a good one.


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 11:44:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


quote:

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@angelikaJ

Sounds like a good idea! Can you help me find what you're speaking of? I'll see what can be done.



I wish I could tell you where it is.
It is where ever deleted content was moved to.

Maybe LP could help by refreshing my memory of the poster's nick?

It was a solid piece of information that provided so many answers to male submissives on how to approach women, how to write an attractive profile etc.
It may have been structured like a FAQ.
(I kind of think there were 2 separate threads, actually.)


You are looking for a poster by the name of SlyvereApLeanan. For a time there, she had a forum sig line of "she who must be obeyed". She, at one point, helped to organize that sticky in the "Ask A Mistress" section. I'm not sure if the poly one ever took off from the ground, but she had a thing up for a while of an essay 'from a unicorn to prospective poly couples'. Not quite the same but it was a start.

If a person couldn't find the actual AAM sticky, you might want to try for a thread title that has something to do with cross dressing tips and advice. Not my kink but there were a lot of contributions to that.


ETA - Let me have a look. I'll see what I can find.



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