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-= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=-

Restore RS's forum rank text [Awaiting Approval]

17% (15)

Apologize for being a snivelly little bitch

7% (6)

Ban the asshole mod

9% (8)

Ban the asshole ResidentSadist

8% (7)

RS is an ass and even he believes in "calling a spade a spade"

4% (4)

Stop abusing mod privileges, there has already been enough of that

19% (16)

Post to FetLife - whine about this in their Collarme Refugeess group

5% (5)

Flashback to the days when Arpig used to have 86 socks posting

8% (7)

Have frenzied masturbation fit and post 86 sexting threads of your own

4% (4)

Laugh at drama lamas, get cookies & go watch TV like RS just did

14% (12)

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 12:41:42 PM

LadyPact

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The best I could come up with after a quick search was only one of the threads that, at one point was a part of the AAM sticky. This (I hope) is a link to the first post that was Femimization, Help, Advice & Support. http://www.collarchat.com/m_3027796/mpage_1/tm.htm# I was unable to find any link to the sticky, itself. It used to be in some people's sig lines. On quick review, I couldn't find it.

Idea one would be a time investment of going through old files that are at least a year old. It might be needle in a haystack territory because, taking things at face value, not all old records are going to be here. There are, from my understanding, at least thirty-eight days of backlog and there just aren't enough hours in the day. And, yes, even though everything posted becomes the intellectual property of the site, somebody is going to have to decide if they are cool with restoring another person's work.

Idea two would be to revamp. Get a current female M-type poster to volunteer to help recreate a reference thread. There are a couple of posters that I think would do a pretty good job who aren't in the middle of all this other stuff.

I don't know. Best thoughts that I had.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 12:47:03 PM

mnottertail

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I think a great number of FAQs and so on went down the tubes. Now, they might be in the tray in the backrooms, or it might be that many of them died horrible deaths when the massive atomic disk crash of the forums happened some time ago.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 1:21:21 PM

ResidentSadist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: M38284

@RS

You're welcome.

I can ban. Again, though, the topics that have been raised have been responded to by some, so they have actually made the forums a more interesting and active place to be. That is where we walk the line.

Sure, the poster in question is a weirdo, but hey, aren't we all in some way? And we've all seen barely-literate posters come and go.

Banning via IP only works so well, when it changes each time people get online, or even few days/weeks/etc. We use the tools we can, and we are working to make this as lightly moderated as possible with the tools and technology we have.

I understand that there is bad history. I've been there. I've seen it. Not all of it, but enough. And I've heard about it from others, long-standing members.

In my defense, I am the one who has allowed everyone back in, when they've approached me.

My girlfriend took this casual picture of me, when I turned to see what she was bitching and complaining about now. See how patient I look, despite that she was interrupting my evening "watch sports in my adult-real-fabric-underwear time"?

http://cdn.ipernity.com/118/44/53/10074453.47ecb5bb.240.jpg?r2

It took a degree of Chutzpah to jump into this snake pit of a thread I had set up (hey, I was a little ticked off). You got sniped at a bit when you landed, but your riposte was clever, non-defensive and not self centered. You focused on our questions, answered concisely and invited us to choose a path between optimism or pessimism. You asked us to cut you and your team some slack by assuming the best rather than the worst. Inviting positive choices is good leadership skills and good crowd control.

You took some of the edge off my insulting "ass" thread with humor and used the term itself, telling us if we chose to be an ass with conspiracy theories, it was OK because you are an adult with real fabric underwear... and then provided a pic as proof. Indeed you do look patient and comfortable in your adult-real-fabric-underwear. Thanks for playing. Your sense of humor is well received. I like your style and you got social skills.

I must say that I have found you to be informative, unpretentious, concise in your communications, transparent about who you are and what you can or want to do around here. You have kept your word, doing what you said you would do and not spun us on any of our questions. You have gone from the potentially evil admin covering for 1 or 2 of the only other people that work here to having our gratitude for lifting bans, fixing tags and sharing information, even uncomfortable information like the blank log.

From what I can perceive of your personality, I get the distinct impression you're gonna keep those comfy adult-real-fabric-boxers on and stay level headed, instead of donning a speedo, transforming into a drama queen and randomly jumping out of the bushes at members with a ban stick while throwing fellow teammates under the same bus you happen to be driving... like some of your predecessors.

Speaking of predecessors and drama, I see you have no desire to wallow in the drama of the former mods or what they did. You ask for a clean slate, a fresh start and faith that you will do your best. I think that is a great plan. This is a really great website when it is in balance. Leaving the past behind to focus on the future will create a much nicer ambiance around here. You have my support and I will change the tone of my comments to be in accord with your desire for us to cut you some slack and leave the past behind.

You took the job and committed to the work ahead which makes you our host as it is your responsibility now. Even though it isn't my domain, I would like to give you a warm welcome to these forums since you are new to us. Glad to have you here. I think your trial by fire has turned out rather well so far. Well played indeed.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 1:36:15 PM

mnottertail

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Eleven pages later, you still haven't stopped it, E.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:00:16 PM

LadyPact

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
I think a great number of FAQs and so on went down the tubes. Now, they might be in the tray in the backrooms, or it might be that many of them died horrible deaths when the massive atomic disk crash of the forums happened some time ago.

I went and looked at the Gorean forum. I'm glad to see that one is still there. I'm sure MM could reconstruct it if he had to, since he (and others?) did it the first time.

I don't know anything about the massive atomic disk crash. That's probably a good thing.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:02:19 PM

mnottertail

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You were already dusted at that time. And I never said welcome back, but you knew I thought it.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 2:49:58 PM

LadyPact

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Thank you.

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 3:20:37 PM

Hillwilliam

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11 pages. Can we go for 20?

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Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 3:38:28 PM

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Shifty'll go orgasmic if we do!

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 4:05:04 PM

Hillwilliam

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All the more reason.

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Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 4:32:35 PM

OsideGirl

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On camera?

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 6:27:16 PM

Hillwilliam

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Pitchers er it nayer happened to quote an old regular.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/28/2015 6:27:42 PM

shiftyw

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Oh my...20 pages?

Such a rare achievement. I've basically learned to not get too excited for that...but if we want to go for gold, I'm of course, all game.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 2:11:02 AM

M38284

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@Exiled Tyrant

I am not ticklish sir, and you are not my type.

@OsideGirl

That may be, but I do not play with the software side. I can change user profile and delete profiles, etc., yet I have no access to logs, etc.

And from what I know, each item was actually given to me, one by one, as we discussed strategies and came to basic agreements.

Fresh start is all I got. lol

@LadyPact

Thank you. :)

I'll look up SlyvereApLeanan.

@angelikaJ

If we can't find it, maybe we can find ways to recreate it.

@RS

Thank you. I'll do my damnedest.

@General

Perhaps we (collective we) could create a nomination for "Hall of Fame" posts, that could be useful to newbies. I'll look into options.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 2:55:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

It was a solid piece of information that provided so many answers to male submissives on how to approach women, how to write an attractive profile etc.
It may have been structured like a FAQ.
(I kind of think there were 2 separate threads, actually.)

There were a few former stickies which were replete with useful info, which I had saved a while back.

This one may have been on the Ask a Master board http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/tm.htm
(For men: how to find a woman here - 3/18/2008; OP=Dom Stephann)

Now these I definitely remember were in Ask a Mistress, and only just noticed they've vanished:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057095/tm.htm (CMail Help: How to Contact a Dominant Woman - 2/9/2010; OP=Domme Domin8tingUrDrmz)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm (Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman - 2/9/2010; OP=Domme Domin8tingUrDrmz)

There's also another thread about making contact with women which was M/f-oriented, or how to treat (submissive) women when messaging? where OP was Dom mnottertail that I can't locate. It wasn't a sticky, but it should have been made one.

DreamLady

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 6:05:48 AM

M38284

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@dreamlady

Thank you. The originally mentioned FAQ was reposted, thanks to your links.

I'd like to see more done, though. I'll think this through, create a plan.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 6:58:39 AM

LadyPact

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LOL. I tried a new keyword this morning and just saw that the original FAQ came back to life. I'm glad to see it could be restored. Hopefully, some other things that disappeared will be able to come back as well.

DreamLady, this might be a long shot but would you be referring to the chicken dance thread? http://www.collarchat.com/m_100186/mpage_1/tm.htm#100186

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 7:16:39 AM

mnottertail

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What we really need is 'Are you Jessika's ass?' thread in a FAQ, but I am afraid that is long relegated to the ages.

Tap, Tap, Tap, should be a permalink, as well as the National Kinkster registry.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 7:39:48 AM

LadyPact

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I don't know if they'd ever do it but wouldn't that kind of be a hoot? We'd just need a forum called "Classic Comedy" or something like that. Put in 15-20 classic threads that were so funny that the long time posters still laugh about when you mention them...

Tap, tap, tap (of course)

At least one from Jessika or has good Jessika references

One from that guy that I used to call tinkertot (Don't know if you remember him but he had that pic of him and tinkerbell from Disneyland)

That really long one about the dishes/fibro/bunch of mess brought to us by the A**** & t**** show.

Domi's classics - Who hates Domi/blocked Domi today and/or the Pro/fin thread. (I think that second one was taken away.)

Maybe one of the Socra*** threads, cause that guy was another dimension.

Shifty would be laughing non stop for days.

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/29/2015 7:42:25 AM

kdsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

11 pages. Can we go for 20?

Why

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