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armyprincess -> question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:31:13 AM)

good Morning

I have a question that is important to me and I would like your thoughts on the matter.

In my relationship I am the Sub. The question I have is this morning my Daddy/master need the car to go take care of one thing. I gave him permission to take my car. You see we had a talk last night about my car because I had things that needed to be taken care of military wise this morning and he can not get on base.
After he finished the one thing he needed to do, he was going to come back and give me back the car so I could take care of what I needed to take care of before I get in trouble with my command.
Long story short he finish what he needed to do called me and told me that he was at his fishing spot and was fishing. I reminded him that he just fucked me over on what I needed to get done and he goes you can call them.
Now he called and told me he will not be back until after 1230pm.

Does My Daddy/Master have a right to fuck my life up and career because he feels like it?

(sorry this is a really sore point with me because I could lose my rank over this)



Greta75 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:38:24 AM)

wow!

One post was how considerate he was doing housework for you.

Now, his being irresponsible with your car.

Hmmm...., anyway, dom or not, he is being irresponsible.



DaddySatyr -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:39:55 AM)


It takes a special kind of person to be a military "spouse". This incident shows that he ain't special.



Michael



JVoV -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:44:38 AM)

Your Master has exactly the rights you choose to relinquish. Obviously, your rank is less of a priority for him than 'fishing'.

But you're serving two Masters, and that can be hard to juggle, especially with competing demands on your time.



armyprincess -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:45:30 AM)

yes I know that one post was praising him but this all happened this morning and I am not very happy right now. The Soldier is coming out this morning



LadyPact -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:52:02 AM)

No offense, but you might want to let the guy know that Mistress Military outranks him.



Greta75 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:58:58 AM)

Personally, this seem extremely irresponsible.

Especially if you need it for work.

Unless he is gonna financially take care of you 100%, he should not be messing with anything that jeopardize your work.



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 11:59:52 AM)

Me? I'd call a cab if I had to and take care of whatever business my commander required of me.
THEN I'd deal with the M/s D/s stuff.

If you were commanded to do something by your commander WTF are you doing online?

Cab, bike, walk or crawl - whatever it takes. It aint getting done with you playing the game of poor newbie sub online.

PS - your master is a selfish bastard if he is screwing with not only your rank but your freedoms as insubordination can be a serious charge if followed through with.

For crying out loud, please tell me they haven't issued you any ordinances.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 12:04:06 PM)

You might want to take note of what LP has said.
She has walked in your shoes for longer than you've been alive.
It is very sound and solid advice.



OsideGirl -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 12:06:46 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: armyprincess

Does My Daddy/Master have a right to fuck my life up and career because he feels like it?

(sorry this is a really sore point with me because I could lose my rank over this)


My view on the Dominant/Master in a relationship is that since they make the decisions, they have to follow the "Do no harm" credo. This means that he doesn't do things detrimental to my health, my career or our relationship.





armyprincess -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 12:18:27 PM)

Because I live quite aways from base I can not afford to take a cab. I need my car because even the bus doesn't go to the part of base I need to go to. I took offensive to the poor newbie sub comment: 1) we all make our own choices 2) have out grown the poor me stage of my life a long time ago 3) i have seen things that would destroy the way this country thinks of others parts of the world.
So honestly no offense to anybody but I came to you to ask a honest question. and I thank you for the input and info

@Lady Pact I will make sure he knows that when he gets back. He never served so he doesn't get it. and I have said more then once also it takes a special person to be a military spouse.



mnottertail -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 12:25:58 PM)

well, call your commander and say you have no way there, and I would wonder if he wont send the duty driver for you.



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 12:41:51 PM)

Good! Take offence. The statement was offensive. Get mad, if that helps. I just refuse to coddle someone who is a soldier and should know the answer to "should my Master fuck up my military career."

You've made it through boot camp and a stranger online being harsh with you offends you? Seriously?

I get that sub frenzy can throw one for a loop and I've made some really addle brained choices from time to time, but I never had to ask if it was ok for someone to fuck up my life.



LadyPact -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 1:20:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: armyprincess
@Lady Pact I will make sure he knows that when he gets back. He never served so he doesn't get it. and I have said more then once also it takes a special person to be a military spouse.

Thanks. It's kind of a pain in the tail, sometimes. We're soooo close to being finished. [:)]

Ron had the other thought I had. You might still get chewed for not having your transportation available but probably better than the alternative. Especially if the person is not a spouse, it might not go over well. You know the drill.




DarkSteven -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 5:40:21 PM)

You have chosen him as your Dom because you trust him to do what's best. You need to reconsider whether his judgment merits him being your Dom.



Killerangel -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 6:23:18 PM)

No, he does not have to right to mess with your career and fuck up your life. Like any good relationship, he should be adding value to your life, not taking it away.

Does he have his own car? Why does he need yours to run an errand? What would he need to do that is more important than you doing something related to your livelihood?



AQRMZ -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 6:30:01 PM)

I just read your form post and darlin' I am just shakin' my head here.


Good luck cause you are gonna need all the luck you can get.

He is not a DOM or a MASTER he is a loser, his actions prove it and he is gonna ruin your life in uniform and out.

He should be looking out for you not screwing over you.

I am a vet, enlisted, USAF and hon. disch.

I feel sorry for you and also for the folks that depend on you in your military unit.





sexyred1 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 8:47:47 PM)

I am astonished that an adult, in the army no less, would ask this question.



Greta75 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 8:51:33 PM)

I don't understand why some of you ladies gotta be so judgmental on this question.
Have you never experienced being in love, and being unable to think rationally because of being overwhelmed by emotions, and you literally need to ask a simple question even though the answer is obvious, to help you make the rational decision?



sexyred1 -> RE: question for The Dom/masters (9/29/2015 8:58:57 PM)

No.

I've been madly, passionately in love and would never have let myself get fired or derail my career. Being in love/lust and being rational are not mutually exclusive.

If I had to ask that question, I would have dumped whomever it was, no matter how hot the sex was.



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