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ShadowStirling -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:24:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 SO WHY READ MY MESSAGE AND DELETE IT AS UNREAD , AM I MAKING SENSE OR NOT , ANY BODY UNDERSTAND? You are making perfect sense, the problem is that everyone else here is a mature adult who realizes that doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is a form of insanity. Try changing your approach, stop demanding that people change to suit you. The only person in the world you have any true influence over is yourself. If you are being perceived in a particular way over and over again, even if it may not be your intention, it's entirely up to you to change yourself till people's perception of you matches what you feel is your authentic self. And your paranoia that everyone is a "scammer" has got to go. Grow up, learn to talk to people like adults you respect and you'll find out quite quickly just who's a player and who's not.

Kirata -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:24:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 regardless the dishonest replies I'm s u r every body sees my point and choose to ignore it even though they all agree Yeah, that must be it. Poor you. K.

OsideGirl -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:25:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 Angelika you don't know how many people out there don't like this option, regardless the dishonest replies I'm s u r every body sees my point and choose to ignore it even though they all agree Again, trying to guess the motivation of complete strangers. You dislike that we disagree with you, so therefore we must be lying.

LadyPact -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:25:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 I'm not sure since you can hover your mouse over the message and "" read it "" and see the content of the message , some messages have to be short in order to make sense and clarify things, but with that hovering option removed AH ! IN THIS CASE I WILL BELIEVE YOU, SO WHY READ MY MESSAGE AND DELETE IT AS UNREAD , AM I MAKING SENSE OR NOT , ANY BODY UNDERSTAND? Well, I don't think you are making sense but let's see if we can help you. The hover feature only allows you to read the first few lines of any message, so if you've written some crap like "u r hot," then, yeah, the other person can read the whole thing. If you've written anything that's more than a few sentences, like the post above, the recipient can only see so much of the beginning. The hover feature is also very useful if the sender of the message has triggered the spam filter because that notice will appear at the very top. When I deleted your message (which I promise you I didn't hover over to see what it said) I just checked the little box and hit delete. The site then gave you alert that it was deleted unread. It wasn't me who bothered to do that.

angelikaJ -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:28:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 Angelika you don't know how many people out there don't like this option, regardless the dishonest replies I'm s u r every body sees my point and choose to ignore it even though they all agree Why are you so sure that anyone would waste their time on a dishonest reply regarding this issue? That makes no sense at all. I think that the majority of people who don't like it, don't like it because the rejection feels very personal. What you are proposing is that if a message is not replied to, you would rather not know that the person deleted it without reading it, or would you rather that messages couldn't be deleted at all until they are cleared from CS automatically, every 6 months?

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:29:41 PM)
Sdf you seem to me like someone who attempt repairs and ends up fucking things up , since the reply was not to you and you admitted knowledge it was not to you however you step in with a bunch of nonesense, you are the clueless why CM went down , have you read the owner whining for over 6 months , the owner fell once she will fall again only because of mismanagement like any other business ,wake up

OsideGirl -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:33:59 PM)
The owner of this site is male. His name is Eric. There once was two owners - one male and one female. They had a falling out. The domain name was under her name, so when they disgreed, she held onto the name. He then registered Collarspace and moved everything to that domain. And before you argue...I have first hand knowledge.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:34:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 Sdf you seem to me like someone who attempt repairs and ends up fucking things up , since the reply was not to you and you admitted knowledge it was not to you however you step in with a bunch of nonesense, you are the clueless why CM went down , have you read the owner whining for over 6 months , the owner fell once she will fall again only because of mismanagement like any other business ,wake up Sweetie, the Owner of this site is not a woman, never has been. However I do know the owner and if you would like HIS # I have it. I am quite knowledable of why the original site went down straight from Eric's own mouth. So I would suggest you quit digging the hole you are in and zip it.

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:38:29 PM)
SDfemdom, you seem to me like someone who attempts repair and ends up fucking everything up, you jumped into a conversation may me you don't really understand, no problem we can explain to you things at your level, the owner of CM spend over 6 months whining over the loss of CM , she fell once and she will fall again it is a matter of time since there's no change, same mismanagement is going on , you jumped into a conversation with a bunch of crap and nonesense and I should be replying to more interesting posts not to yours, I am gonna tell you this , every business fails or succeeds depends on management.

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:40:07 PM)
Cc

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:43:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl The owner of this site is male. His name is Eric. There once was two owners - one male and one female. They had a falling out. The domain name was under her name, so when they disgreed, she held onto the name. He then registered Collarspace and moved everything to that domain. And before you argue...I have first hand knowledge. That's close, but not quite it. She who shall not be named was never an owner. Or at least not according to Eric, but she was a friend and did work for him.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:46:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alpha299 SDfemdom, you seem to me like someone who attempts repair and ends up fucking everything up, you jumped into a conversation may me you don't really understand, no problem we can explain to you things at your level, the owner of CM spend over 6 months whining over the loss of CM , she fell once and she will fall again it is a matter of time since there's no change, same mismanagement is going on , you jumped into a conversation with a bunch of crap and nonesense and I should be replying to more interesting posts not to yours, I am gonna tell you this , every business fails or succeeds depends on management. Keep on talking about things you have zero knowledge of Punkin. She is no longer involved with this site in any capacity. Since you have no idea what was going on I'll leave you to your own self righteous ineptitude. Toodles!!

OsideGirl -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:47:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl The owner of this site is male. His name is Eric. There once was two owners - one male and one female. They had a falling out. The domain name was under her name, so when they disgreed, she held onto the name. He then registered Collarspace and moved everything to that domain. And before you argue...I have first hand knowledge. That's close, but not quite it. She who shall not be named was never an owner. Or at least not according to Eric, but she was a friend and did work for him. We met both of them at a social in person in the early 2000s, and they introduced themselves as the owners of the site. I have personal experiences that will take anything outside of my experiences with a grain of slt.

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:54:25 PM)
No Angelika that's not what I said, a rejection van be partial, like you accept my gift and reject me after accepting it ,this is not a rejection, reject me and my gifts haha and I will top my hat to you

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:56:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl The owner of this site is male. His name is Eric. There once was two owners - one male and one female. They had a falling out. The domain name was under her name, so when they disgreed, she held onto the name. He then registered Collarspace and moved everything to that domain. And before you argue...I have first hand knowledge. That's close, but not quite it. She who shall not be named was never an owner. Or at least not according to Eric, but she was a friend and did work for him. We met both of them at a social in person in the early 2000s, and they introduced themselves as the owners of the site. I have personal experiences that will take anything outside of my experiences with a grain of slt. Totally respect your knowledge but according to my conversations with Eric after the fact she was never an Owner but often implied she was one in numerous situations.

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 7:58:03 PM)
Wow thanks for the compliment, you think I am going around sending messages like "you are hot" MDR , it means LOL .

angelikaJ -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:00:59 PM)
Again, I have no clear idea what your issue is. How could someone deleting an unread message be made better for you? Would it be better to have the message remain listed as unread so you wouldn't know that it was deleted?

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:06:09 PM)
Lol a short message like this one should be deleted unread , LOL I just don't have the option de delete it 😂 ok guys look at this message , is it worth anything , I don't think so however I am responding to it

alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:12:15 PM)
Angelika 2+2=4 right? You need to concentrate a little deleted messages are messages that are deleted read or unred, ok? Read messages are messages that are read,ok.? Messages that are deleted unread are messages that you deleted without reading them MDR ok? What yoy call a message yoy deleted after reading it short or long it is a message

angelikaJ -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:13:11 PM)
Unlike most men, what you do not understand, is some women get literally hundreds of messages a day here. The time it would take for someone to answer all of those messages, not to mention the number of horrible, nasty replies we get from the polite: "Thanks, but no thanks" response, makes answering every message impractical for many women. But if you want a better response ratio, make your profile attractive to women and craft better emails. I took the time to include helpful links in one of my responses to you.

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