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SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:16:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

Unlike most men, what you do not understand, is some women get literally hundreds of messages a day here.

The time it would take for someone to answer all of those messages, not to mention the number or horrible, nasty replies we get from the polite: "Thanks, but no thanks" response, makes answering every message impractical for many women.

But if you want a better response ratio, make your profile attractive to women and craft better emails.
I took the time to include helpful links in one of my responses to you.



Bingo! Give this woman a cookie!



angelikaJ -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:17:58 PM)

You are, once again, operating under the wrong assumption that by hovering you can read the entire message.
Unless the message is more than a few lines, you can't.

And you are also wrongly thinking that just because someone can hover over a message that they do, or that they read more than the first couple of words.




MsLadySue -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:21:36 PM)

@Op Why do you continue to argue with the people who have explained, in great detail, how things work? Nothing will change simply because you don't like how the website is run on the other side. You were told who to contact, but rather than doing so, you continue to debate the issue.

All you've managed to accomplish is make yourself look foolish. When people look at your message posts, what they see will tell them you are anything but an "Alpha".



Real0ne -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:21:47 PM)

FR
I dont want to get too involved in this since all I have is hearsay, however I was told there was a falling out and one of them controlled (note: I did not say 'own' since that is not necessary), the domain name and the other controlled the content. It made sense to me since the name changed which implied the information given to me was correct since that is what I would expect would take place under breakup conditions when one person cannot lay claim to the whole enchilada.
Leave it up to you all to sort out.







OsideGirl -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:22:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

You are, once again, operating under the wrong assumption that by hovering you can read the entire message.
Unless the message is more than a few lines, you can't.

And you are also wrongly thinking that just because someone can hover over a message that they do, or that they read more than the first couple of words.



EXactly. The hover feature usually gives me just enough to know that an email isn't worth my time to open. For instance, the guy that for the last 5 years has emailed every single female on the site repeatedly that he'd like to pay to have garbage/bugs/ants dumped on him. He's somehow under the delusion that I owe it to that wanker that I actually read that email every single time before I delete it.



alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:24:09 PM)

Angelika you really sound more mature than the others Zambies here, I can accept your argument ,



angelikaJ -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:26:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

You are, once again, operating under the wrong assumption that by hovering you can read the entire message.
Unless the message is more than a few lines, you can't.

And you are also wrongly thinking that just because someone can hover over a message that they do, or that they read more than the first couple of words.



EXactly. The hover feature usually gives me just enough ino to know that an email isn't worth my time to open. For instnace, the guy that for the last 5 years has emailed every single female on the site repeatedly that he'd like to pay to have garbage/bugs/ants dumped on him. He's somehow under the delusion that I owe it to that wanker that I actually read that email every single time before I delete it.


Or the blood pressure cuff guy, or the egg guy... etc.



LadyPact -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:26:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: alpha299
Wow thanks for the compliment, you think I am going around sending messages like "you are hot" MDR , it means LOL .

No, I used that example (one that darn near every female has received at one point or another) because it is one with so few characters that the entire message would be seen using the hover feature. It does have a character limit but I couldn't tell you what it is, as I've never counted it. You may not send messages like that but plenty of men do. Any female here will tell you that.

I did think of a potential loophole for your complaint. If a person has signed up to the site using their real email address, they can go to their mail controls and send every message that they've received that they haven't deleted in the past six months. Everything sitting in their CM mail can go directly to their yahoo, gmail, or whatever account. Considering the amount of mail that most women get here, that would honestly be a lot of work. I don't know how much of an incoming message shows up if a person has their mail alerts activated to their regular mail. My yahoo would be drowning in messages if that was turned on.

Now, I've been signed up here for roughly eight and a half years. I haven't been active on the forums for all of that time, but I have been a prolific poster in the past. I have seen people gripe about women not reading their emails, not responding to emails, the trash people get in emails, and darn near every other thing. You really are the FIRST person I have ever seen complain about the site notification about being deleted unread. Truthfully, I've seen the opposite, meaning people on the black and white site will say "at least on CM, you know your message has been deleted unread". With this in mind, I think you are in the minority opinion on the matter.




MsLadySue -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:27:18 PM)

Alpha299, for someone who is 45 years old, how did you make it to this age if something this ridiculous managed to get your knickers in a knot?



OsideGirl -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:28:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ



Or the blood pressure cuff guy, or the egg guy... etc.
I'd probably reply to the "crisps" guy.



crumpets -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:30:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
A scammer is out to use you in some way. What would be the point in insulting you?


I have to agree. Scammers know there is one fool in a thousand that they need to sucker in. A scammer doesn't need to waste his/her time on the 999 out of a thousand who won't fall for the scam.

HOWEVER: There is ONE (apparent) EXCEPTION to that rule that I have never been able to figure out.

You know that little chat thing that shows up sometimes on the bottom right of your browser window when visiting icky sites?

It's a gorgeous babe (what else?) who sends, at first, seemingly innocuous "chat" messages, from your VERY OWN TOWN.
How about that? There's a gorgeous babe in every town you log in from (I use Tor all the time, so, I come in from anywhere on earth, and there is always a gorgeous babe just waiting to chat with me from every town I log in from).

Of course, it's just a bot, trying to sucker you in ... but what gets me is that if you actually ignore the bot, which, of course, I do, then it gets mad at you. It calls you gay, or something like that.

Now, why would a bot bother to insult you simply for not responding to the bot's chat request?

Since I still believe, as does Missokyst, that the scammers need to sucker in the sap, I guess their pre-programmed technique is to somehow shame you into responding. I guess, since, for example, they ask "are you a faggot?" for not responding, I'm supposed to then, I guess, vehemently deny the accusation, and, by doing so, I guess, I'm supposed to be further succored into the robotic conversation. I guess.

So, this insulting chat robot is about the only place I've seen a scammer intentionally try to insult me, in the hopes of winning my trust (somehow).

All they need is the dumbest person out of the next 1,000, so, I guess, in the end, it works for them.

I don't know WHO falls for this blatant stuff (just like the picture to the top right of all your collarspace mails which purports to be a gorgeous babe from YOUR TOWN (so many in your town!), which is, in effect, merely a robotic advertisement from Alt.com in an official collarspace banner ad, which is, by the way, easily blocked in your hosts file so you don't have to be assaulted by these top-right banner ads as you read your collarspace mail. [If you need a screenshot of what I'm talking about, I'll post one for you.]

I really don't know who falls for this stuff, but, all they need is the dumbest person out of each 1,000, which, given the supreme lack of English grammar knowledge of the OP's opening sentence, probably is the 45-year-old OP himself, who apparently has the English language skills of an 8 year old, to wit:
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Has anybody saw this notification when checking sent messages folder?



Real0ne -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:30:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: alpha299

Angelika you really sound more mature than the others Zambies here, I can accept your argument ,



I think you have made it perfectly clear to everyone why your messages get deleted unread.



alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:31:53 PM)

MSladysue, this is just to give you something to talk about, you need it , it is not a problem to me , I can always hire an escort if I want to, so thanks for the nonesense, again guys, check the meriam Webster for message definition it does not say how many words shall a message contain to be called a message, check your phone ,preset messages , I am busy , call me , these are called messages , a long one is called an article, do you want me to quit my job like you and sit there write long messages ,I am not Victor hugo



MsLadySue -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:33:34 PM)

Hey sweetpea, I'm retired, I can send messages all day if I choose. They won't be to you because you're too childish to waste anymore of my time.



alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:41:30 PM)

MSladysue, you still believe on the boogeyman, deleted unread messages is a lie and so is someone's age, you never know the truth until you meet them in mcdonalds,or red lobster



SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:42:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

You are, once again, operating under the wrong assumption that by hovering you can read the entire message.
Unless the message is more than a few lines, you can't.

And you are also wrongly thinking that just because someone can hover over a message that they do, or that they read more than the first couple of words.



EXactly. The hover feature usually gives me just enough ino to know that an email isn't worth my time to open. For instnace, the guy that for the last 5 years has emailed every single female on the site repeatedly that he'd like to pay to have garbage/bugs/ants dumped on him. He's somehow under the delusion that I owe it to that wanker that I actually read that email every single time before I delete it.


Or the blood pressure cuff guy, or the egg guy... etc.


Or the guy that wants to be barbeque and eaten at a Domme picnic



crumpets -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:45:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue
Hey sweetpea, I'm retired, I can send messages all day if I choose.


I'm also retired.
I have, oh, I don't know how many profiles, one for each kink that I can think of, and, well, what I do for most of them, when the experiment is over, is I simply put a line in the profile text saying something like "please don't message me" or "taken" or "only here for the forums", etc.

Wouldn't you know it, that works fine for most of the male hetero profiles, but, doesn't work a damn for any of the female profiles, and barely works for the gay male profiles.

So, what's a sock to do?
I simply either delete using the bulk mail automatic filter; or, I manually delete all mails, unread, en masse, once every few months.

What's crazy is that there are so many idiots from all over the world who will respond to an inactive profile that clearly doesn't wish to be contacted. I'm still amazed how many guys from Kazakhstan or India or God-Knows-Wherever, who think they can turn a submissive but cute lesbian into his lover, by constantly emailing her a picture of him with his hairy chest next to his sailboat.

Given my experiments, I feel sorry for the "real" women here, because what they have to put up with is insane.
So, I would never fault them for deleting ANY mail, wholly unread, on sight, if not sooner.



LadyPact -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:46:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ



Or the blood pressure cuff guy, or the egg guy... etc.
I'd probably reply to the "crisps" guy.


Hey, even I'd respond to the famous crisps poster. After all of the laughs provided, it would be the least I could do.




alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:48:03 PM)

Sdf you ate scaring me to death , I'm not sur what is a message in your opinion? A news paper MDR



alpha299 -> RE: deleted unread messages (10/4/2015 8:52:40 PM)

Ladypact, this website is designed for BDSM encounter ,right?, if you are her for any other purposes you either state it on your profile and make clear why you are here or use twitter or facebook



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