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dreamlady -> RE: What can a Goddess possibly offer. (10/9/2015 10:01:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
in case a Goddess and a slave/sub enter in a relationship, under the absolute authority of the Goddess, what kind of guarantees and sureties can the slave/sub obtain and is entitled to, knowing that goddesses don't like to be negotiated , it is their way or the highway , .
Note: if you feel like you wanna retort, join another conversation.
I'm gonna break your second Q down (first is irrelevant to me). Just humor me, now. . . . :p
The fact that you refer to Dominant women as being Goddesses, sort of answers your own question vis-Ã -vis the title of your thread.
You want to worship a (Dominant) woman as a deified/superior being. From that standpoint, it is your desire to adulate which motivates you. She doesn't have to offer you didley-squat other than to stand/sit on that pedestal, if she chooses to do so.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Second, not a Goddess. Find the term to be nonsense. However, the answer in general is absolutely none. Nobody is required to stay in a relationship that is making them unhappy. It's like any other relationship. Either party is allowed to end it if they don't want to continue.
I would also never dream of using this honorific or of having anybody call me this. It's silly and somewhat blasphemous.
(The only exception I would tolerate would be if my man [sparingly] called me his Love Goddess or Sex Goddess as a term of endearment.)
It's just a matter of using one's common sense. Open communication that dispels ambiguity and reveals intent, as well as the many facets of one's character.
Unless you're being played, or you're the one who's doing the manipulative playing, it should become clear within just a few convos whether you and the Lady with whom you are interacting have any relationship potential.
For a solitary play session between a Top and a bottom, then negotiations would be in order; then ongoing negotiations if this leads to more sessions and additional BDSM scening.
But, otherwise, I am not of a mind to negotiate for what I want. Either a sub can cut the mustard with me, or he isn't a suitable match and needs to keep looking elsewhere for a compatible partner. The same goes for any man who wants to date me, regardless of who or what he is.
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
The dominants with whom I have been acquainted, regardless of gender, do not negotiate. Personally, I work from the premise of "show me your path" .. Then I decide whether or not I want to follow. I would not ask for a dominant to compromise their wants or needs for me. If they did I would dump them. It is so much better to start from a path the Dom enjoys and which will make me joyful to follow because it is natural to both of us. Mmv
Now, this isn't to say there aren't variables that can be worked out to the parties' mutual satisfaction, but there has to be a meeting of the minds and something to work with in the first place.
I would suggest that you always try to find out what the other person's track record is in a number of areas which are personally significant to you.
You can only fault yourself if you choose to ignore any waving red flags.
DreamLady
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