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RE: To want or not to want - 10/18/2015 2:29:42 PM   
shiftyw


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I'm just here cause we aren't to 10 pages yet.

ETA- THERE WE GO.


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RE: To want or not to want - 10/18/2015 4:17:49 PM   
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You need to add something like 'the resident ten page trainwreck thread slut' to your sig line.


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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 12:18:04 PM   
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Golly gosh notabull, please dont put Women on pedestals for a start, it can kind of be interpreted as abusive if the Woman in question does not want to be put on a pedestal and secondly read and listen more, not everyone is going to agree with you, some will and some wont accept it, like Lady Pact says someone who likes strawberry wont like chocolate stuffed down their gob if they dont like chocolate and vice versa, stop pause think before you post
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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 6:07:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You need to add something like 'the resident ten page trainwreck thread slut' to your sig line.



It used to say "gimme that 10 page thread baby" or something. But then someone started bitching about the cliques right when M3 took over. So it turned into a mean girls quote.

I've been thinking of changing it though...

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 6:16:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: notaBULL

When Dominant Females claim they want submissive males, are they really sure they want that, the feedback I am getting is that they get bored of these men very quickly, so what is the solution here?


My husband is submissive to me in a somewhat vanilla way. (No S&M play involved) We've been married over 25 years. I'm not even close to bored with him.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 6:36:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw
It used to say "gimme that 10 page thread baby" or something. But then someone started bitching about the cliques right when M3 took over. So it turned into a mean girls quote.

I've been thinking of changing it though...

Hey, if you're ever in the mood for a laugh, you might want to try the 'here you go, bitch about the clique' thread. I thought it was funny but you have to remember I have a weird sense of humor.



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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 6:43:04 PM   
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I'm still upset that I never got to know who was in the cliques and who wasn't, and that I never got invited.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 6:56:18 PM   
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Cliques are over rated.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 10:28:39 PM   
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Apparently I was in a clique, even when I wasn't here

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/19/2015 10:35:27 PM   
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That is SO fetch!

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/20/2015 2:47:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

This serves as a clear warning to all dommes, think twice about the consequences before you reject a slave.
This is so fucked up.


Actually...the reverse. It makes me think twice about accepting anyone as my slave. They could easily be hiding it from me, for a while, that their moral compass and mine are on entirely different planets.

The fucked up part is the implication that threats of any kind are normal, and that Dommes should expect to be endangered or punished for choosing to end a relationship that's grown toxic.

If I can't feel safe with someone...then the only slave I'm going to choose will have batteries and/or will plug into a wall.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/20/2015 7:35:35 AM   
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I want cake and cheap chardonnay all of it actually.
What do people want is a little harder to answer and I apply that to any relationship no matter the sex. So let me think of some kind of simple example or analogy, fictional of course, or is it.

Some people want their balls drained.
Normal solution is finding someone to do it infact anyone at all. Bonus points awarded if they are really good at it and you can stand the sight of them and being in the same room, and ideally excellent at the task in hand. Two hands if it’s a massive nutsack.

So here we have someone with a singular driven goal and how they value all of the potential of a significant other. It could be they want their balls crushed, beaten with some pots and bans and the kitchen sink and then run over with a steam roller, and so on. And in essence a typical BDSM perceived relationship for those looking. They look for the act and not the person. So in general I agree many relationships have a short time span, by no means all. Some people look just for the act and that’s fair enough. Is that a relationship in the true sense nope.

The opposite approach is when you look at all of the other person as a human and not as some protein juice drainer. And there is everything inbetween those two examples.

But you can apply that to any type of relationships – could be someone after money, someone strong, someone with hair – the need to feel secure and safe with ill conceived stereotypes. Would that be called an act or status or realm of being or state of mind. Important bit here is they completely ignored the other person as a human being.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/20/2015 1:47:10 PM   
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I think you're confusing boredom with disinterest. You have to ask youself if she's interested in you outside the kink labeling.

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RE: To want or not to want - 10/20/2015 2:46:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia


quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

This serves as a clear warning to all dommes, think twice about the consequences before you reject a slave.
This is so fucked up.


Actually...the reverse. It makes me think twice about accepting anyone as my slave. They could easily be hiding it from me, for a while, that their moral compass and mine are on entirely different planets.

The fucked up part is the implication that threats of any kind are normal, and that Dommes should expect to be endangered or punished for choosing to end a relationship that's grown toxic.

If I can't feel safe with someone...then the only slave I'm going to choose will have batteries and/or will plug into a wall.



quote:

ORIGINAL: wickedsdesires

I want cake and cheap chardonnay all of it actually.
What do people want is a little harder to answer and I apply that to any relationship no matter the sex. So let me think of some kind of simple example or analogy, fictional of course, or is it.

Some people want their balls drained.
Normal solution is finding someone to do it infact anyone at all. Bonus points awarded if they are really good at it and you can stand the sight of them and being in the same room, and ideally excellent at the task in hand. Two hands if it’s a massive nutsack.

So here we have someone with a singular driven goal and how they value all of the potential of a significant other. It could be they want their balls crushed, beaten with some pots and bans and the kitchen sink and then run over with a steam roller, and so on. And in essence a typical BDSM perceived relationship for those looking. They look for the act and not the person. So in general I agree many relationships have a short time span, by no means all. Some people look just for the act and that’s fair enough. Is that a relationship in the true sense nope.

The opposite approach is when you look at all of the other person as a human and not as some protein juice drainer. And there is everything inbetween those two examples.

But you can apply that to any type of relationships – could be someone after money, someone strong, someone with hair – the need to feel secure and safe with ill conceived stereotypes. Would that be called an act or status or realm of being or state of mind. Important bit here is they completely ignored the other person as a human being.




quote:

ORIGINAL: BlueRoses1111

I think you're confusing boredom with disinterest. You have to ask youself if she's interested in you outside the kink labeling.

Hold on guys. let me explain this before i receive more replies to this post.
My reply was to one of ( notaBULL ) posts back in page -2-.
quote:




ORIGINAL: notaBULL

Of course I am everybody knows me this was on CNN and all over the world, Michel *****TOS VIOLATION*****, why?



I was just trying to "connect the dots." Do you think spending every night in a strip bar, for 32-years, did something to you that made you commit that crime?


No! I was suppose to become the slave of the guide Goddess and after rejection I freaked out

*****TOS VIOLATION***** (Also not allowed is calling people out by screen name or specific links.)

< Message edited by M38284 -- 10/13/2015 5:27:57 PM >

I did not think he was serious about what he was telling us, so my reply was not any less sarcastic.
nevertheless, the feed backs were very interesting and worth discussing.

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