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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:18:09 AM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:19:07 AM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:20:42 AM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:27:47 AM   
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It's not rocket science.





Well dreamlady, for some even though it is not rocket science might want the original poster to address... Thank you dreamlady for your I will wait until the guy who the question was asked of offers they're and than with the penny in my pocket have five whole cents, to than go buy a pickle for my lunch....lol

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:38:59 AM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:52:05 AM   
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Sorry folks, but this is the best I can manage for the time being. Clicking on the link should give you a pop-up.

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I just can't understand why JOK3ER, has no appreciation for your sense of humor, that one is going in the book for sure..... have a great day dreamlady, just remember insult are used only successfully by those with small minds who pick on other small minds... So as Mommy said it takes two to fight and I just see no need to fight you.... Have a great day, your one of the best commentators they have here and I look forward to reading more entertaining words of yours.....

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 9:58:26 AM   
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another malarkey comment:) oh good



Hey Lucylatic, thanks for mentioning me in such a positive light but perhaps if Nthrall validated his post you and dreamlady wouldn't have to try to pick a fight. Have a wonderful day your attempts at humor are really funny, keep it up you have me in stitch's, in a goodway, not a bad way

So feel free to validate your post Nthrall your is still wanted.... thank you all for the kindness apparent in your posts

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 10:05:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

another malarkey comment:) oh good



Hey Lucylatic, thanks for mentioning me in such a positive light but perhaps if Nthrall validated his post you and dreamlady wouldn't have to try to pick a fight. Have a wonderful day your attempts at humor are really funny, keep it up you have me in stitch's, in a goodway, not a bad way

So feel free to validate your post Nthrall your is still wanted.... thank you all for the kindness apparent in your posts

im sorry, there seems to be a bit of a problem and its my fault.
I was commenting on the marlarky comment made by Luminous fire.
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4850648
However I didnt make it clear by name so I apologise.

I didnt mention ANYONE by name
I can see why you thought I was talking to you...but I wasnt.


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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 10:17:57 AM   
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Sorry folks, but this is the best I can manage for the time being. Clicking on the link should give you a pop-up.

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OMG .WTF.. nice one dreamlady.


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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 11:07:40 AM   
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@zombiegurlsos, sometimes we like to have a bit of fun around here -- at times just plain silly, at other times more on the snarky side. I personally prefer irony.
Nothing personal, I would have posted the same no matter who was posting.

Lucy for one doesn't go around picking fights that I've ever seen, and neither do I intentionally.

Agreed, let's not feed those - and there are a lot of guys in that grouping of bystanders - who would like nothing better than to see gals get into a catfight!

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 11:27:30 AM   
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I am gonna put this down as simple as I can without any crafting, like i were talking to the neighbor next door. it is just a simple question for ALL. ( men, women, dom/mes, switches and subs ). wait a second...... NO TROLLS!. Oh!... did i forget to say please? .... I dont say please to trolls in fine prints.
lets cut through the chase. if you live in the land of milk and honey, you probably have an idea on how people customarily dress up in an ordinary day. but, lets say you stumbled upon an exception. you went to a gas station, for your daily fuel up, or to a store to buy beer,.... and a woman !!! OMG! dressed up just like those " findomme or amazon" hoes. knee high boots, Crop Top,Stripe Skirt etc...
Now my question is: is it considered appropriate behavior to approach that woman decently, introduce yourself and ask her if she is into BDSM, i focus on the last part of the question which is ((( if she is into BDSM ))). and i will certainly consider your points of view.


No it is not appropriate. No matter how one dresses a man should always approach a woman in a chivalrous manor.

Many goth people dress in the manor your describe. Just because a person dresses differently that you expect, does not mean they are into BDSM or anything else for that matter. I will assume you do not get out or travel much. I have seen what you describe in almost every major city in the US. And a lot more common in the UK. Walk around in Koln Germany on a Friday night and you will see a lot of woman dressed provocatively.

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 11:40:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would say no. I live in Toronto, where people are pretty open, and walking down the street you see fetish wear, same sex couples being openly loving, and trans people all the time... or at least, it's unremarkable to see them. It wouldn't be appropriate to assume that just because they appear to be in to the same thing that you are in to, they would be in to you.

That said... being friendly and saying hello to people you pass on the street doesn't seem inappropriate to me, and maybe they will want to stop and chat, or at least say hello back as they pass.

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 11:43:51 AM   
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I don't think there is anything wrong in very politely approach her something like, "Hi, I want to apologise to you in advance if I concluded wrong, but are you by any chance into bdsm? Because the way you dress is quite similar to what some dominatrix wears, and I got curious."



To me, this sounds as safe as asking a woman if she is pregnant.

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 11:56:39 AM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 12:16:36 PM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 1:36:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DocStrange


quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

I am gonna put this down as simple as I can without any crafting, like i were talking to the neighbor next door. it is just a simple question for ALL. ( men, women, dom/mes, switches and subs ). wait a second...... NO TROLLS!. Oh!... did i forget to say please? .... I dont say please to trolls in fine prints.
lets cut through the chase. if you live in the land of milk and honey, you probably have an idea on how people customarily dress up in an ordinary day. but, lets say you stumbled upon an exception. you went to a gas station, for your daily fuel up, or to a store to buy beer,.... and a woman !!! OMG! dressed up just like those " findomme or amazon" hoes. knee high boots, Crop Top,Stripe Skirt etc...
Now my question is: is it considered appropriate behavior to approach that woman decently, introduce yourself and ask her if she is into BDSM, i focus on the last part of the question which is ((( if she is into BDSM ))). and i will certainly consider your points of view.


No it is not appropriate. No matter how one dresses a man should always approach a woman in a chivalrous manor.

Many goth people dress in the manor your describe. Just because a person dresses differently that you expect, does not mean they are into BDSM or anything else for that matter. I will assume you do not get out or travel much. I have seen what you describe in almost every major city in the US. And a lot more common in the UK. Walk around in Koln Germany on a Friday night and you will see a lot of woman dressed provocatively.

the subtle statement you just made is an acknowledge to the subjectivity of my question.
you just assumed that " I DO NOT GO OUT AND DO NOT TRAVEL" yeah whatever, I know your state by the Inch. plus the other 47 states, plus canada, Mexico, west europe and the middle east and North Africa. so why can I not assume that a lady in 7" high heel-knee high
boots , chain-belts around her hips is not a fetishism? moreover what is likely to go wrong if I ask, as long as I keep my approach on the polite side.
and feeders keep alluding to my post as being a sexual harassment attempt , where in my post did i say I would ask her out? or even implied it. I am just doing a gallup poll of whether it is appropriate or not, from both men and women point of view, if you say NO. it is not appropriate. dont stop there please, I'd like to know why it is okay to strike a conversation with a lady and can ask her a very personal question as if she was married or if she is a member of people-helping organization. or is BDSM something people dont recognize as socially acceptable behavior. is BDSM shameful?.


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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 1:39:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		This idea sounds on par with one that was posted here a while back; spilling drinks on woman in order to see if they would Dom you in response. It makes me wonder if these ideas were posted by the same person. At any rate, yeah, bad idea.

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 1:41:05 PM   
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Do whatever you want. You'll probably wake up before you get to the good stuff anyway.

some people go on CS to stimulate the dreams others go out to make it happen.

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 1:44:08 PM   
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This idea sounds on par with one that was posted here a while back; spilling drinks on woman in order to see if they would Dom you in response. It makes me wonder if these ideas were posted by the same person. At any rate, yeah, bad idea.

where do you see the similarity between making someone upset by spilling shit on them, and ask someone a question. Hey stefftroll, ask him not to hit you on the head , he is causing damage to the grey matter in your brain

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RE: Serious question - 10/25/2015 1:56:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
you just assumed that " I DO NOT GO OUT AND DO NOT TRAVEL" yeah whatever,

Where was that said?
You assumed that was the assumption.

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...moreover what is likely to go wrong if I ask, as long as I keep my approach on the polite side.

Have you NO idea of what 'personal space' is?
Do you have NO clue on reality and manners?

Do you always assume that hitting on women is Ok as long as it's polite??

Jeeeez man. You got a lot of social skills to learn.
Reminds me of someone else we had earlier in the year that couldn't grasp that leering at women was Ok because he didn't touch.

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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
and feeders keep alluding to my post as being a sexual harassment attempt

It is. Simple as that.
You don't have to be asking her out for it to be harassment.

quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
I am just doing a gallup poll of whether it is appropriate or not

Most people with any sort of social skills will tell you it is NOT appropriate.

quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
or is BDSM something people dont recognize as socially acceptable behavior. is BDSM shameful?.

It is not shameful.
What it is, is VERY personal. Or can't you grasp that concept??

It's one thing to tip your hat and say hello.
It's quite another to go up to them and ask if they like being rimmed when they receive oral sex.
Because..... moron, personal questions are NOT asked of anyone until you know them. DUH!!!



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