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UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:26:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Absolutely, somebody with a larger ribcage will have a smaller cup even if they are bigger than we are, 30F here, which sounds massive but isn't, in fact a lot less than a 40 or 42 B or C. The smaller the underbust the smaller they make the cup size, a B or C is not the same with all underbusts


Yup... I'm thinking of getting implants, which as my current chest size would put me at a 34I/J.
However, when I loose the weight I want I'll be at a 30 band size, which would make my cups currently a size I, and after implants an L or K.




LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:35:03 PM)

Implants never ever crossed my mind, seriously...

I was working out like a maniac to increase my underbust size, because it's so darned difficult to find bras, doesn't seem to work, I can lose about 15 lbs but only one cup size, nothing underbust size, but then my face looks haggard. Where did my fucking youth go? The liquid allowance on planes was used for booze, now it's moisturizer and eye drops. This getting old business really sucks!




LadyPact -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:37:04 PM)

Exactly where do you think you're going to lose weight from?




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:40:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Exactly where do you think you're going to lose weight from?



I'm currently 40lbs heavier than when I signed up for this site.

I used to look like this:
Going back to that.




LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:40:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Exactly where do you think you're going to lose weight from?



I only saw the pics where Ish was doing a slave dance, and I wanted to give her a sandwich, I agree, unless she wants to impersonate Skeletor, she really doesn't have much to lose




crumpets -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:43:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Have you ever noticed that men on the beach walk around topless and they don't get a ticket?
If women do so outside a clothing optional beach, they will be ticketed.

This makes no sense. I agree.

Men have the exact same anatomy (give or take the size of the lacrimal glands) as women, particularly these little things called "nipples", which, often, seems to be the tipping point between showing too much in public and just being racy in public for women.

So, I'd be all for repeal of the laws that discriminate against women being allowed to show their entire chests in public.
The only thing I'd ask is that any women who does so, shouldn't be surprised if men look (at least until it becomes so commonplace that men get bored, which must be what happens in tribal communities).
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
You see men topless at the beach, yet not a lot of women.

Yes. Men are universally topless at a beach, and, most men (nearly all) cover their junk quite well.
You won't see mine, for example, swinging wildly for the entire world (including kids) to see.
Yet, while I concede the woman are almost always "topped", they certainly do show a heck of a lot more bottom than do the men.

Therefore, women seem to find a way, even on a beach, to show as much as they can get away with.
But, in my experience, women rarely complain that men are looking at them when they're on the beach; so, I don't have a problem with that, since their actions make sense.
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
If you look at most suits, they are cut to enhance the male built, which is more V-shaped, dresses are cut to enhance the natural hour glass shape, there really is nothing more to it.

I have never understood suits. So I will take your word for it.

I always found it odd that the sizing on shirts had nothing to do with the size of our torso; only two things mattered, both of which stick out of a suit.
1. Your neck size (which matters greatly because the top button is buttoned so there is no room for error), and,
2. Your arm length (which, I guess, matters because the cuff sticks out of the suit a certain distance).

You'd think shoulder width, or chest width would be part of the sizing, but it's not in the shirts I buy (albeit I don't buy custom tailored clothes).
However, the chest size IS a key component of the suit sizing (the trousers size normally, just as in jeans or any other pants men wear).

Your point that women dress to minimize or maximize their proportions is also important, as I have never met a guy who bothered.
We dress to fit. That's about it.

However, if a woman dresses to MAXIMIZE her proportions, then all I'm saying is that she shouldn't complain when men notice that which she just artificially maximized.
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Your reasoning seems to be that some women dress like tarts, yeah and some guys wear wife beaters,

I had to look up "wife beaters".
Interesting term. I have never worn one in my life.
Well, correct that. When I wrestled, that is what our uniform looked like (it wasn't white, and it snapped under our shorts, but, the top was cut the same way.
[image]https://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/wifebeater.jpg[/image]
We used to call the guys who wore those hideous things, "Guidos".
It was a derogatory term then, and I'm sure still is now.

But the point isn't what they wear; it's what they say when people notice what they wear.
[image]http://www.quickmeme.com/img/99/99eaeb8156f76159d5373a2f4ba32cf8925deca0e759bd3b88552e3f32c495e3.jpg[/image]
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
I don't know if Beckham or Justin Bieber padded their crotches (and frankly not interested) but you can't help noticing...


Hmmmm... I don't even know who Beckham is, and I only know of Bieber because of the press he gets when he gets arrested, so I'm sure I've never seen his underwear ad. Since I buy a lot at Costco though, I DO see the Adonis-like men on the packet of underwear I buy in bulk every few years. It's a bit hilarious though, to buy a size 36 with a guy who is apparently a size 28 on the cover ...
[image]http://blog.brandsexclusive.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/493102-200-a-1.jpg[/image]
When, in actuality, the cover should look more like this...
[image]http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/06/24/article-1028900-01B85A9D00000578-430_233x423.jpg[/image]

I can't imagine trying to identify with a horridly tattooed freak like Beiber, when it comes to buying my underwear though.
So, the ad wouldn't work on me, I'm pretty sure (plus, I just buy boxers in bulk. I even buy socks in bulk. Black. White. One drawer for each. Pretty simple stuff.)

EDIT: Googling, I see the "bulge" you're speaking about. It doesn't look all that big, but, I can't imagine that the whole setup isn't supremely doctored (the underwear material doesn't even look real, for heaven's sake), so, I can't imagine it having any positive effect (and ug, those Neanderthal tattoos). Decidedly not sexy.
[image]http://www.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2015028/rs_560x376-150128101705-1024.David-Beckham-Justin-Bieber-Underwear.jl.012815.jpg[/image]
I use boxers most of the time anyway (more comfortable); and no bulge is gonna show up in boxers without trying to make it so (it will stick well out the waist band when hard, but that never happens in public).

If I could walk around with my balls hanging out, and if women liked that, I'd do it.
Heck, I have a discussion on Fetlife where I'm asking Femdom women how they verify when men intimate they have a huge cock.
Nobody responds (for the most part).
It's just not interesting to women - they basically don't care about size whatsoever - other then if she's a small woman - otherwise - the issue isn't something they seem to care about.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:44:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Exactly where do you think you're going to lose weight from?



I only saw the pics where Ish was doing a slave dance, and I wanted to give her a sandwich, I agree, unless she wants to impersonate Skeletor, she really doesn't have much to lose


Dammit stupid upload ain't working for me... Uploaded pic on my profile instead... http://www.collarspace.com/bdsm/v/1609388/photos.htm

And Lady C, that slave dance pic is about what I'm trying to get back to. I had a medical issue with had me on meds and stationary for a while. At my heaviest, I was a full 65lbs over what I was in that pic.





LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:49:52 PM)

David Beckam, football player (soccer for the continentals) and an extremely meepy voice and a wife who has too much botox and not enough food (though she increases her size with implants)

[image]http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/08/05/00/0385667D00000514-3185158-In_his_heart_The_star_decided_to_move_his_designs_away_from_his_-a-105_1438731322357.jpg[/image]

Justin Bieber for CK

[image]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nlW82LTIbRo/VLvSTOFH7aI/AAAAAAAAgv0/hxU14G6AuSg/s1600/snl02.jpg[/image]

As for the topless thing, I have seen guys with bigger moobs (man boobs) on the beaches of California and Florida, yet they weren't threatened with a ticket, and yeah, mine are a hell lot perkier but would be considered offensive




LadyPact -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:51:44 PM)

She's got another pic I tend to favor.




LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 3:56:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Exactly where do you think you're going to lose weight from?



I only saw the pics where Ish was doing a slave dance, and I wanted to give her a sandwich, I agree, unless she wants to impersonate Skeletor, she really doesn't have much to lose


Dammit stupid upload ain't working for me... Uploaded pic on my profile instead... http://www.collarspace.com/bdsm/v/1609388/photos.htm

And Lady C, that slave dance pic is about what I'm trying to get back to. I had a medical issue with had me on meds and stationary for a while. At my heaviest, I was a full 65lbs over what I was in that pic.




I like skinny, I wish I was skinny but that slave dance, you were a bundle of ribs. Bones covered by skin, seriously, you didn't look healthy and weight means jack shit, muscles are heavier than fat. I managed to be a size 0 for about 2 months and was fucking miserable, and so was hubby, he told me he's fed up from getting bruises hugging me




LadyPact -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:01:48 PM)

Ish, where's that pic of you holding (what appears to be) the blue dragontail?




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:05:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I like skinny, I wish I was skinny but that slave dance, you were a bundle of ribs. Bones covered by skin, seriously, you didn't look healthy and weight means jack shit, muscles are heavier than fat. I managed to be a size 0 for about 2 months and was fucking miserable, and so was hubby, he told me he's fed up from getting bruises hugging me



Oh shush. [8D]

I was 140lbs when that pic was taken, which at my height puts me at a BMI of 20, and was a healthy size 8. If I looked that skinny, it was because of the posture. I can assure you I wasn't a stick at the time.

Hell xBullx, who owned me at the time, likes women with a little flesh on them, and he considered me perfectly acceptable at the time.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:08:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ish, where's that pic of you holding (what appears to be) the blue dragontail?



You mean the one with the flogger?

Got that one on my Fetprofile. I'm about 140lbs in that one as well. I was 40lbs heavier than I am in that pic when we met. 35lbs heavier than that now.

And can we please stop talking about my weight now... lol







LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:13:47 PM)

You are also taller than I am, so you can carry more weight. Seriously, I can't remotely picture you as having meat on your bones.

And you are talking to somebody who obsessively squeezes all parts of her body to check if there might be dimples forming and cellulite is looming, I'm a bit fucked up like that, I haven't changed my profile picture in ages as I don't have any other pics that hide my face, and despite the fact that I know I'm not obese in them I feel like I was. I think women are much more prone to having a fucked up body image of themselves. The last thing a guy checks for if he sees a naked gal is cellulite or stretchmarks, I can't figure out for the life of me why we are so obsessed about it




LadyPact -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:42:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
And can we please stop talking about my weight now... lol

Yep. As soon as you say one of the following...

"I am perfectly healthy."

"Nobody cares about my dress size, including me."

"Size six/eight is not a crime."





UllrsIshtar -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:44:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
And can we please stop talking about my weight now... lol

Yep. As soon as you say one of the following...

"I am perfectly healthy."

"Nobody cares about my dress size, including me."

"Size six/eight is not a crime."




I want to get BACK to a size 8. I haven't been a size 6 since I was 15, and never will be... I'm too tall.

I was a size 16 when we met woman!

I sent you naked pics to prove it. [8D]




littleclip -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:47:54 PM)

it used to be desirable to be what would now be a size 22 in Europe the physical size is of no importance to me its the fire within that im attracted to the fire in the eyes that I submit to and give control over to




crumpets -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:49:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
David Beckam, football player (soccer for the continentals)

Thanks. I don't follow professional sports at all, so, I wouldn't even know the QB of the winning team in the Superbowl, so, I appreciate the heads up.
Ug. Those tattoos.

I have a theory on tattoos, but, that doesn't belong in this thread because this thread has morphed from the original question, to stalking, and how people's perception of stalking is so very different.

I went on a long hike today ... all morning ... with a couple of buddies ... and I brought the topic up.
One immediately said it's the same with politics.

I looked quizzically at him. Huh? Politics?
He said yeah.

His explanation is that your entire life experience determines how FEARFUL you are.
The more fearful, the more you tend toward certain politics.

He had a point, given that I don't think I've ever been afraid of anything in my life.
And, my politics tends toward the government allowing everything and leaving me alone to make my own choices.

Of course, I've almost died a few times, but nobody has ever shoved a gun in my face. I can show you police reports where I've confronted three burglars, naked, yelling at them "what the fuck are you doing trying to break into my home? (They ran, and were arrested, due to outstanding warrants.)

I mean, yeah, I've come face to face with rattlers when bending over to work on my pool pumps - but that fear subsides within seconds - and certainly I trap the snake as humanely as I can and dump it in the woods far from people. I do the same with all my black widow spiders. I'm not afraid of rats, and, if you saw the pictures of the last cave I went in (I think it was a horizontal well, drilled into the mountainside, long ago), I was covered in spiders (I sent the picture to one of the people here, and can post it if you like). I sky dive. Scuba dive. Climb cliffs. Where it says Keep Out, I go in. I love (absolutely love!) like all boys, to blow up things. I ride a rather large beemer, the most powerful street bike they made that year. I chain saw in the forests like I'm swinging at mosquitoes (one of our better female posters here knows about me slicing through my thigh as I was batting down the branches with an 18 inch chainsaw recently).

Given that I'm not prone to fear, and that I haven't ever been in wartime (that's "real" fear!), my "politics" is one where I think it's ridiculous that helmets are required (even though I wear a thousand dollar set of protective clothing when I ride - but it's "my" choice). I think it's idiocy that, in California, 17 year old bicycle rider craniums are required to have helmets but 18 year old craniums are not. Huh? Makes no sense. The whole gun-control-law thing is something I understand all too well (i.e., the line in the sand) as are the abortion laws (same concept of the line in the sand). I'm all for guns for all and abortions to anyone who wants them.

While my "P" personality plays a role in me being open minded here, my point is that I'm not prone to fear mongering, so, all politics that plays to those prone to fear has no effect on me. Cellphone laws? Ridiculous! (They play ONLY on fear - there is absolutely no fact behind those laws, as evidenced by the US governments own well-kept records on accident rates over the past five decades!). The entire cellphone-law thing is based SOLELY ON UNFOUNDED FEAR! Just like the gun-control thing.

Point is, that I think this observation, by my buddy today on our hike, relates to why the women here universally FEAR life so much that they consider looking at email headers the first step in stalking. Fear drives you. Not logic.

If I had as much fear as you seem to have, I'd say EXACTLY what you all are telling me.
Clearly, you fear that stalker. Worse, you fear ANYONE who just happens to be INTERESTED in you.
Pure unfounded fear.

That's why you make no sense.
You make sense, ONLY if you assume you are so filled with fear that you'd stand on a chair with a broom like a housewife in a kitchen with a mouse in the middle of the floor, swatting at the perceived "creepy stalkers" surrounding you on your chair.
[image]http://i478.photobucket.com/albums/rr144/b_sloth/Image%20Pickin/TomAndJerry_01_350.png[/image]
The mouse, in this analogy, is the "creepy stalker".

Understanding why a woman might be afraid of a mouse, helps to understand why she may be similarly afraid of someone who knows how to read mail headers.




LadyPact -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 4:52:51 PM)

Just goes to show. I never pay attention to that stuff.

It is my astute (rather than humble) opinion, that most women don't know how pretty they are. Even women with confidence for days.




LadyConstanze -> RE: What do senders do that they can so quickly POUNCE on juicy profiles? (11/5/2015 5:01:22 PM)

As I said, I am happily married, THAT stalker has been taken care off, but he cost me a few jobs, created a lot of trouble in the family, had the cops over at my house at a regular basis, to the point where I am now friends with the local police. Hmmmm yeah, I am going to be so welcoming of anybody who's trying to get my info... That would be fucking stupid.

As for fear, yeah familiar with it, cancer and fine now, being beaten to an inch of my life by random thugs, check, being robbed at fun point, check... All fairly traumatic but not half as bad as dealing with a stalker, you don't know when the guy strikes, you don't know where... You feel like a sitting duck, you do the reports (though like almost everybody I thought it would "blow over" if I ignore it so I didn't react straight away)...

I'm not fearful of people interested in me, I possibly have met more people from the board than you do, face to face, but some things do trickle a certain spidery sense of unease, and I wish I would have listened to them before, because then I wouldn't have had a stalker, I tried to be not prejudiced and make allowances for lack of being able to understand what's acceptable, thought it was just being a bit socially inept, look where it got me. Now that kind of stuff sets up alarm bells and I'm not going there again,




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