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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
My husband can stand in front of a woman dressed like that and not look at her boobs.
Yeah? You believe that?
Do you believe that he still looks away when you're NOT right there next to him?
C'mon. He's a guy (I must presume). And, he's still alive, right?
Fact is, I've learned a LOT from this thread, and I much appreciate your input.
The reason we see things quite differently is simply that our entire experience in life is not at all the same!
People flock to you. They are INTERESTED in you. They want to know more about you. In my quick search for information about you, I found bloggers TALKING about you (behind your back, as it were), and I found sites RATING your web site. You have a bigger presence on the web than you might even know, simply because PEOPLE ARE INTERESTED IN YOU.
In fact, for the purpose of this thread only, I was also interested in you. For example, to my knowledge, I had never prior even looked at your profile (as I don't usually bother for respondents in the web forum). Not only had I not cared enough about you to look at your profile, but I certainly had never bothered to read your web site, nor had I read any of your literotica scattered about on the web - yet - what I found in a cursory search wholly impressed me.
You're not juts one of many. You, like your husband, do have class! (As just one example, you explained why you don't have a photo on your web site, and it make perfect sense that you could put a faked photo-shopped photo, but, instead, you preferred to have some class and not try to be fake for business purposes. You also explained how you love toys, so much that you often buy toys for men, which isn'[t anything your run-of-the-mill competitors would ever think of).
Having said that, let's get back to those boobs, shall we (because the point is germane why we see stalking differently).
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It makes the same amount of sense as you telling me not to look at the boobs of a lady who is standing right in front of me with her blouse unbuttoned to her navel.
After thinking about this overnight, I realized that nobody is at all interested in me. So, nobody is gonna stare at me no matter what I wear, nor are they gonna even bother to read my profile, and, certainly, to the point, they're not even gonna waste their time looking at MY email headers, nor geolocating my IP address (you didn't even bother - when I gave you the perfect opportunity to).
Yet, you - ah you ... on the other hand. You're INTERESTING just like any woman with her blouse unbuttoned to her navel is interesting!
That's germane because people want to know MORE about you, just as they would likely not only look at any woman with her blouse unbuttoned to her navel, but some would be so bold as to walk up to her to strike up a conversation, and to follow her around, and to talk about her, perhaps they'd snap a photo of her, and certainly they'd be much more interested in WHO she is (and, by way of extension, how they could get their hands on those boobs).
So, if I were to stand right next to this lady, nobody would care, no matter how open my shirt was, while, everyone (women included) would be talking about the lady in the restaurant with her boobs nearly bared.
Why am I saying all this obvious stuff?
I think the reason you take almost anything as creepy stalking is because you're supremely and very sensitively tuned to people you don't know being inordinately INTERESTED in you!
Meanwhile nobody is at all interested in looking me up, even if/when I give them the opportunity to do so.
Basically, I see your reaction as senseless because, in my world, the world I have been exposed to for half a lifetime, nobody cares to stalk me (except a bunch of Italian thugs). Yet, in your world, ALMOST EVERYONE cares to know more about you.
Hence, your super-sensitive well-overt-the-top reaction to what you perceive as creepy stalking.
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). But if I want a furry cuddly friend, either one will do for me. If I care for it properly (and that's when I do my research), it'll give me all the unconditional love that I'll ever want or need from a furry friend. That's ALL I need to know. I'm quite capable of deciding what type I want without doing PhD level research of every damned 4-legged furry critter on the planet. 
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