Termyn8or
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Estring; I hope you'll post a link to that. I think it's going to get bounced by a Mod. It happened to me. They said something about a full quote being unacceptable, but excerpts are apparentl OK. They said fair use did not apply to full quotes, so I guess it's a copyright issue. Interesting nonetheless. Strange how people keep using Nazis as a negative example, and in doing so actually make them look better, or at least not as bad. Also seems they do so in relation to conditions in supposedly free countries. If that court decision is not overturned it will make case law, and set a very dagerous precedent. Now let's get my position clear. 1. Smoking is BAD FOR YOU ! IF in your case it is giving you a bad reaction, STOP. 2. Smoking is bad for everyone. 3. Second hand smoke is bad for you, errr, others. This varies. Extreme sensitivity is notable in some individuals, so if you smoke do not do it around them. 4. I am a 2+ pack a day smoker, and of premium cigarettes (Winston Select). That is about $2,000 every year of my hard earned money going to pay for your bureaucrats, with a few crumbs thrown at the schools and your sports arenas and junk like that, and I might add that smoking is prohibited in most of those places. 5. Even though I am a smoker, I do not want anyone smoking at the table while I am eating. If there is really good ventilation it's OK though. 6. If in a place with non-smokers who are bothered by it I have no problem going outside, but don't start telling me I have to go 3 miles away and get into a hermetically sealed chamber with hepafilters on the exhaust. It's ridiculous. Last but not least, I think it is foolish to smoke around children, not only because they MIGHT have an adverse reaction. That is an issue, children who see adults smoke might get the idea that smoking as an 'adult' thing. If I had kids I might quit, but I would at least not smoke around them so as not to impart a $2,000 a year habit on them. Whether they have the strongest of constitutions and can handle it physically or not is not the main issue. There are many activities that adults should not do around children, drink excessiveley, any drugs, in fact if on medication the young ones should NOT know about it. Additionally adults should not argue heatedly in front of the kids. What I would do if that's where it's headed is make a motion with my head towards a bedroom or something. This means "We are not arguing in front of the kids, take it to the bedroom". If she refuses, too bad, if she's hot about something she will follow me to at least bitch at me. Problem solved. Not that I will not argue, but it will be done in private. Incidentally, I have recently smoked around a child, but here are the circustances. She is sensitive to it, it bothers her, BUT. In my house I have a very very powerful ventilation system, I mean this started out as a commercial exhast fan, like for a restaurant kitchen. It had an 1100 RPM motor in it until it burned up, we replaced it with an 1800 RPM motor. It has about double it's original already quite large air flow. I have three main windows I keep open in the summer unless I run the AC and you can't light a match or a lighter in front of any of them. I am talking about the supposedly 'windproof' Zippo, yes. One with a really good wick and full of fuel might stay lit, but with the air velocity you can't light it. We gave her a seat right next to a window, and she CAN smell cigarettes. Her Dad told me she would say something if it bothered her, she is a very polite little girl of 5 years, but not so polite so to not mention when something like this bothers her. She was in the wind tunnel, we could've set off a smoke bomb and she would not be the wiser, I assure you. In fact she had a blast and wants to come over again, however I don't know what we're going to do in the winter. I played an MPEG of one of the best cartoons I've downloaded, Knighty Knight Knight (Bugs and Yosemite) which is from the 50s or 60s. Actually the adults enjoyed it as well, but I was sure she had never seen it before. Like I said I don't know what we'll do if they come over in the winter, but we will do something, even if we have to snmoke outside for the duration of the visit. I might have to make a temporary rule, we smoke outside. Those who don't like it will go outside, those who will not abide by it will be leaving, that simple. The kid is a pleasure to be around, can listen and keep quiet during an adult conversation and actually participate some. Good conversation with intelligent adults is very important to a child's development, I have seen the results firsthand. This is way more important than my desire to smoke. That court case bothers me quite a bit. Even if they had ordered her not to smoke around the kid, that is s pecific thing. It was mentioned that she can't smoke in the bathroom ? Damn it was bad enough the times they legislated what goes on in the bedroom, now the bathroom ? Damn, Nazism keeps looking better and better. Lose the bigotry and we might have something here. Anyway, I saved the article so I might be able to quote it later. I have a feeling it will be bounced. Als, I will go now. I think I missed part of page eighteen so I want to go back and read it before posting further to the thread. Be well. Go ahead and quit smoking if you can, but if you ask me not to smoke around you, at least be honest. Instead of harping on bad science or coughing and acting the fool like I'm killing you, just admit it. You are tempted. I can accept that reason, just like there are certain ex-alcoholics you can't drink around because they are not (yet) strong enough to resist. I got it through my head, someone is trying to improve themselves. Who am I to screw it up for them ? T (the numbered list and it's header counted as a paragraph makes this nine paragraphs I think, one under the 'limit' :-) )
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