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RE: From vanilla to BDSM/DS. - 2/19/2016 5:24:33 AM

Greta75

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I don't believe that Greta. I believe you could sell ice cubes to Eskimos.
Lol.
Now if your telling them beat me to a bruised mess... They will be like I'm getting the hell out of here. Start with playful. Like a tiny slap on the bottom, a few. <<<< like that.

The spanking too, they try, and they say, they don't like, it makes them uncomfortable, they just don't like beating a woman.

I mean, I meet these guys off vanilla sites. They are seriously vanilla vanilla, know nothing about bdsm vanilla.

It's been very difficult for them to feel comfortable in beating a woman, even if I said, it brings me so much pleasure, it's not painful at all!

So if any woman successfully groom a vanilla vanilla male to inflict pain and bondage on her, please give me step by step instructions on how you prep him for it.

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RE: From vanilla to BDSM/DS. - 2/19/2016 5:39:23 AM

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That's not vanilla, that's the big yawn...practically comatose.
A spanking equals a beating? A slap equals a beating?

Okay, that's pure vanilla extract. Alone it tastes like crap, but put it in cake it's the bomb.

But I guess that works for some, drinking vanilla extract.

Edited to add.
If someone is that vanilla I have no further steps to add.

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RE: From vanilla to BDSM/DS. - 2/19/2016 5:56:42 AM

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I do seem to always end up with vanilla vanilla men in bed. It's just that, vanilla men are often also the nicest, like most nicest. And I am drawn to nice men!

A vanilla man once explain to me, his reasoning for why he can't do it. He said, I'm looking for someone to be nice to me outside the bedroom but nasty to me in the bedroom. He can't do it, he will never hit a lady in or out of the bedroom. The idea of even spanking her buttocks is so disrespectful to her, his brought up never to hit a woman in any circumstances and he will not start now, and he won't do it. Of course it's a vanilla vanilla point of view.

One of them told me, "I will not hit you, even if you enjoy it!"

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RE: From vanilla to BDSM/DS. - 2/21/2016 11:15:12 AM

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"The idea of even spanking her buttocks is so disrespectful to her"

You always make me smile 75.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I do seem to always end up with vanilla vanilla men in bed. It's just that, vanilla men are often also the nicest, like most nicest. And I am drawn to nice men!

A vanilla man once explain to me, his reasoning for why he can't do it. He said, I'm looking for someone to be nice to me outside the bedroom but nasty to me in the bedroom. He can't do it, he will never hit a lady in or out of the bedroom. The idea of even spanking her buttocks is so disrespectful to her, his brought up never to hit a woman in any circumstances and he will not start now, and he won't do it. Of course it's a vanilla vanilla point of view.

One of them told me, "I will not hit you, even if you enjoy it!"

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