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Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 11:17:00 AM   
MistressBG


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Status: offline 		I have tattoos, piercings, collar, I serve Him in every aspect - what other ways do you demonstrate your submission?
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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 11:19:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you serve him in every aspect.. what other ways are there?

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 11:49:10 AM   
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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 12:00:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		Little things like Making him something to eat or pouring his soda for him.  And as i am sure you do also loving him.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 12:20:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm service bent, so I try to anticipate, when I can, what he needs.  And I strive to be good at what it is I do.  And I try to smile when he reaches for the tabasco and clothes pins.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 12:28:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		worship  is part  of it too .. always  admire  and appriciate  each and every move  of your master .....    for example i   say" thank you mam"  even while   she   hits  my ass  with  big wooden stick ...  also buying gift for master is great idea too  ..note down  what makes him happy and repeat those things so  keep your dom happy for ever

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 12:51:29 PM   
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Learn what he needs/likes/wants and do it...often.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 1:05:29 PM   
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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 2:12:50 PM   
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This was more of a conversation starter than an actual, personal, question - although I DO always strive to find new and better ways to show my submission to him, I was hoping to start a good conversation on the subject.

I do all of the pampering, domestic service, etc... so it's not really a service oriented question. I serve him all the time, every day - it's more of public displays, or even personal ones - ie; I had my name legally changed to Kajira, as chose - I have his name tattooed all over my body - etc.... those are the type of extreme displays I speak of.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 2:22:22 PM   
ravn


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Status: offline 		i've been in many a situation where the world was required of me to make Him happy, and i couldn't do it- though i would try. In my newest relationship, i try to give Him the world, and He's happy with a simple kiss of His feet and seeing His slave awaiting Him with a genuine smile on her face when He gets home.
It doesn't have to be a grand gesture- it doesn't have to be buying presents. It has to be about truly WANTING to serve and please. Any good Dom/Master will see that and be happy that you want to and that you've tried.


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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 2:26:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		extreme  if  thats what you really want here is  answer ....

get naked   in public and hold  a banner in your hand with your master name like " i am slave of  Master ...."
it will be extreme  but not sure it may attract leagal action against you ...

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 2:30:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: maysubgirl
extreme  if  thats what you really want here is  answer ....

get naked   in public and hold  a banner in your hand with your master name like " i am slave of  Master ...."
it will be extreme  but not sure it may attract leagal action against you ...


OMG....that is pricelessly stupid!

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 5:17:31 PM   
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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 5:45:16 PM   
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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 5:47:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Thank god you're offline.


possibly creating yet another sn and profile

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 6:20:49 PM   
eruditegirl1


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Status: offline 		Because our relationship is still new...I listen intently to his words....having known him for 2 years I do have a slight advantage....like...I gave him a foot and calve massage the other night...he played soccer proffesionally for 2 years...so his ankles get sore....I think it's the little things that matter....

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 7:09:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressBG

I have tattoos, piercings, collar, I serve Him in every aspect - what other ways do you demonstrate your submission?


Pleasing  Him, fulfulling His desires, doing as He requests(wearing items,etc).... making Him laugh or smile, and me just being sweet, kind, respectful.


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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 8:24:07 PM   
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Brownies.


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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 8:40:39 PM   
syreena


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Status: offline 		For me it's more than just anticipating His needs or just "being there."  It's the moment He walks in with a guest and i serve them quietly.  It's the times when a whole weekend is planned because He has a couple over for mediation and everything runs so smoothly - ie. breakfast is ready, coffee is on or just about the time they think they are hungry i have lunch being served.  It's about knowing when He's discussing with A/another and i come with His water.  It’s about serving even when i’m not acknowledged or praised.  It's about fulfilling His journey as much as mine.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/19/2006 10:46:08 PM   
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Will you be my submissive?

LOL I dunno about THAT...but I'm certainly open to bottoming.

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