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LilJuly76 -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 2:58:56 PM)

I am going with Awareness on this one.

also OP I do believe Narcissism is a sin? who wants to sin? Not I!




LadyPact -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 3:02:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MrRodgers
Don't hold back now. Are you saying that this profiler OSF like maybe this OP's author, couldn't get laid in a 2 bit whorehouse...with a pocket full of quarters ?

Nah. Not going that far. [:-]






MrRodgers -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 3:18:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRodgers
Don't hold back now. Are you saying that this profiler OSF like maybe this OP's author, couldn't get laid in a 2 bit whorehouse...with a pocket full of quarters ?

Nah. Not going that far. [:-]




Well hey everybody has 6-pack abs, we just can't always see them. But you are correct of course. That is going on a bit.

However, I've been told to frequent at least two specific casino hotels and even I'd be prey for some rich divorcées and widows so.....? I guess everybody has their own demographic of some size.




LadyPact -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 3:25:25 PM)

You know how I keep joking that I'm going to write a book titled "A Thousand and One Reasons Why I'm Not a Submissive?"

It's kind of like that.




Wayward5oul -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 6:18:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom
They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.

Because this is not what a D/s relationship is. The fact that you don't know that means that you should not be advertising yourself as a dom.






Spiritedsub2 -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 6:30:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom
They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.

Because this is not what a D/s relationship is. The fact that you don't know that means that you should not be advertising yourself as a dom.


It doesn't matter what label he adorns himself with. I really doubt any woman is falling for it.




MuscleBoundDom -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 10:46:40 PM)

I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"





Dvr22999874 -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 10:49:16 PM)

Muscleheaddum...........just because 10,000 people say a thing, doesn't make them right. Who would you poll with ? Dipshits.com




OsideGirl -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/2/2016 11:23:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"




Is that question followed up with "what is your longest D/s relationship?" Because I think you'd find that everybody that answered "yes" hadn't had a long term D/s relationship.

The majority of the D/s BDSM community is made up of people that can't sustain a relationship longer than 6 months, but yet feel free to tell others how a D/s relationship works.




LadyPact -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 12:27:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom
I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"

If that's the case, why do you think you are failing at getting what you want where other people succeed? Do you really believe that the problem is everybody else, rather than you?




DaddySatyr -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 1:12:24 AM)


I'm going to go out on a limb, here and suggest that the OP has impossibly high standards.

I mean, you're looking for a lady that genuinely likes and respects you, right?



Michael




Lucylastic -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 1:21:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"



Of course you disagree with everyone...LOL
Why didnt you make this a poll in ask a submissive section???
In fact...why dont you? Put on your big girl panties and do it......
But
Try being truthful in your question asking
try asking

"Would you get into a master/sub relationship with someone who thinks its all about him?"
or
"Would you trust a dominant who only thought he was important?".
Or
"Given my previous posting history, do you think I can ever be a good dominant?"

As you dont seem to be able to attract submissives for longer than a fly farts,
so how would you know what submissives think




thishereboi -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 1:48:43 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"




You are right, if asked I will say it's all about her. But that is only after she has proven that she is deserving of that kind of service and respect. If she was a narcissist, I wouldn't waste my time on her. One of my main requirements is that my partner gives a shit about other people and not just herself.




crazyml -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 1:59:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness
Because narcissists are spoilt children and children are incapable of handling the responsibility for another person's welfare.



This.

And, to echo LadyPact, if you find your approach is causing you issues on a regular basis, you need to open to the idea that the problem is you. Check out Proverbs 26 11




Lucylastic -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 2:06:20 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi


quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I have to disagree with everyone.

If I took a poll, in the Submission section, and asked the question, "When you are serving your Master, is it all about him?"
I bet most everyone would vote, "Yes"




You are right, if asked I will say it's all about her. But that is only after she has proven that she is deserving of that kind of service and respect. If she was a narcissist, I wouldn't waste my time on her. One of my main requirements is that my partner gives a shit about other people and not just herself.

right on!!!!




UllrsIshtar -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 8:00:26 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Awareness


quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



*****
I edited this to say that I realize I'm just venting. But other people vent on the forums too.

Because narcissists are spoilt children and children are incapable of handling the responsibility for another person's welfare.



Not just incapable... also unwilling to handle the responsibility for another person's welfare.

Submissive women don't want a relationship where it's all about 'what he wants'. They want a relationship where they trade 'abiding by his will' for 'him being the one responsible for making the right decisions'.

You're looking for a relationship where you can get your way all the time, without having to be responsible for making the right decisions.
Hence, you have nothing at all to offer. Like seriously... nothing to offer at all. You just want to take.

Like Awareness said, it makes you a spoiled child, not a Dominant man.




Danemora -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 8:53:42 AM)

~FRing it~

Frankly I just think you are here trying to get a rise out of people. Troll smarter...not harder, Muscles. Your efforts grow more half-assed and formulaic with each attempt. Just saying





UllrsIshtar -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 9:05:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Danemora

~FRing it~

Frankly I just think you are here trying to get a rise out of people. Troll smarter...not harder, Muscles. Your efforts as of late have been really half-assed and formulaic. Just saying




Of course he's a troll. That doesn't matter in the slightest though, because the point in replying to him is never to reply to him (because if he's a troll, he won't care, and if he's not a troll, he's too stupid and set in his ways to listen) the point is to ignore the 'trollness' and give decent advice anyways.

If enough people jump in and do that, it sets a community standard of 'this is what the public opinion on this topic is'. There are tons of people reading here who won't post. Some read once, some read a lot.
Ignoring troll posts waste the opportunity to give decent advice, even on a stupid subject, and gives the overall impression to lurkers that whatever the troll post is, is acceptable behavior.

If you're at your local club, and you see somebody obviously throw trash on the floor, while nobody else speaks up and says something, any bystander looking on will assume that it's socially acceptable to throw trash on the floor.
This forum isn't any different. Not replying to troll posts with decent comments (not troll reply/joke comments) implies that one feels it's okay to throw trash on the floor here.




Danemora -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 9:30:05 AM)

What decent advice is going to be able to be given on this subject though? Not much. Most folks already know what the hell is wrong with being a narcissistic douchebag who waxes orgasmic about himself ad nauseum. It was pretty "no shit, Sherlock" when he was on here last month like PMS complaining about the overweight female submissive who tuned him out while he was lecturing her about being overweight too. What decent advice are you giving him by replying to it? Nothing...because he isn't listening anyway.







BitaTruble -> RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? (3/3/2016 9:33:37 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this.



People who want to follow you won't complain about the way you lead. It's still an issue of compatibility.




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