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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/20/2006 6:05:42 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
Most men are far more attentive, have more energy and tend to be more focused when they're not draining their hoses constantly.

I understand what you mean here, and you are probably right, but I still prefer the man who won't cum because I told him not to, and won't masturbate because I told him not to. Most of the time I enjoy having him readily available, and I simply enjoy seeing my lover cum (or lose his mind trying not to).

I am averse to the men who lose focus and can no longer submit after cumming, and realize that makes my pool of choices much smaller. M

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/20/2006 10:36:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: SaphireLynn
the benefit is he is a better slave when you take away the orgasms he will do anything to gain the priveledge to have one...

Including finding someone else to serve and/or play with...

This made me smile since I keep hearing about the amazing difference in the Domme/male sub/slave ratio. I am thinking......"good luck dude!"

Fortunately, I'm learning patience in my old age, so I can afford to wait for that rare compatible partner to appear. As ProtagonistLily says, "If it's not fun, why bother?"
Orgasm denial with little or no chance of release definitely qualifies as "not fun" in my book...

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/21/2006 4:55:02 AM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: planomaid
As to the chastity part in general, I love the look of chastity belts on women. They are much more, ah, 'streamlined' than they are on men! :) I've also heard that chastity is less effective on women since they have the ability to have an orgasm with less physical stimulation than men. Though I do not know how much of that is urban legend.

Both men and women can have orgasms without physical contact and rather, use operant conditioning and mental stimulation. It's often not the shooting, blithering mess of a load that you boys are accustomed to, but a more overall, body orgasm that starts at the tips of the toes and reaches far beyond the skull.

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/21/2006 9:16:02 PM

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Bottom line... control the cock and you control the boy......

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/21/2006 11:51:59 PM

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that sounds about right

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 7/22/2006 2:37:18 AM

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Enforced chastity, orgasm denial and sexual restrictions are usually not imposed upon female submissive, so this issue may be almost exclusively a male submissive area. I know (giggle) that this is not necesarily the appropriate forum to ask about enforced female chastity, but what do women think about it being imposed upon them? Do they find that prolonged arousal and chastity to be an effective tool that affects their desire to serve? Obviously a dominant woman is probably > not < going to deny herself pleasure, but perhaps you have talked to friends who have had this done to them?

uhm....even if i sound a bit sarcastic...there is one very simple reason y orgasm denial ...sexual restriction and chastity are oftne implied on male..but seldom on female slaves....= male sex drive
its a simple gender thing.....male r way too focused on their sexual needs.....so by controlling that u control his beehavior....good boy=get off, bad boy= dont get off, while male dominants like to think they *give* a female an orgasm

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RE: How does the Mistress benefit male chastity - 8/3/2006 2:50:22 AM

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greetings to all

i agree with blk i like the idea i having him in my control instead of a device and yes it is great to be the key holder but oh well i like it my way but if a slaves wishes to try it i will let him

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