Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing?

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ClubErotica -> Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 1:15:32 PM)
Hey Subs, Could I ask a quick question! Going to ask anyway, so here goes... If you are into doing tasks/challenges set by a Mistress or Master, what top 10 challenges are you most likely to attempt? If you can't come up with ten challenges (I couldn't think of ten genuine 'doable' challenges off the top of my head), then simply name as many as you can. Also, would you expect to provide proof that you did the tasks/challenges?

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 1:54:50 PM)
M and I are engaged in a real life relationship. We don't need to add tasks or challenges beyond keeping our lives, relationship and home running.

DesFIP -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:21:28 PM)
I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who wanted stupid shit. Someone like that earns my contempt, not my respect. Life presents enough challenges.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:27:05 PM)
I'm with DesFip, I got enough on my plate without adding that to the mix

ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:34:04 PM)
I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges.

DesFIP -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:35:37 PM)
Because we're trying to educate you. What you're asking has nothing to do with maintaining a power relationship. It's wank fodder, pure and simple.

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:44:19 PM)
Getting dinner cooked on time could be a bit of a challenge if traffic was bad coming home from work. Getting her out the door so we were on time to events could also be a challenge. In the winter it was challenge to drive because they didn't plow the roads. Cooking in general was a challenge because we didn't have a stove or oven.

ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:45:28 PM)
Thank you, 'educate', rather presumptious of you. And 'wank' material for who? Me! (If thats your assumption, it's inaccurate and insulting). Please don't hijack this tread, respect that others have different needs to yourself. and where did I mention that my question was connected with maintaining a power relationship! (I didn't) I'm creating a game for people (subs) who enjoy being given tasks and challenges, you should respect that there are such people and if it's for 'wank' material, again, isn't that their prerogative.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:51:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission.

ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:56:17 PM)
While I respect your opinion, you shouldn't force your opinion on others. I do not have a fantasy view of D/S, the scene is made up of different people with different needs. Please stop trying to deny those that want these 'sex games' based on your personal views - Its disrespectful.

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:57:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission. hey now, those were not mindless tasks. I put a lot of thought into what i was going to feed her.

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 2:59:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica While I respect your opinion, you shouldn't force your opinion on others. I do not have a fantasy view of D/S, the scene is made up of different people with different needs. Please stop trying to deny those that want these 'sex games' based on your personal views - Its disrespectful. In that case, why don't you start the ball rolling by giving a few of your own scenarios

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:10:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica While I respect your opinion, you shouldn't force your opinion on others. I do not have a fantasy view of D/S, the scene is made up of different people with different needs. Please stop trying to deny those that want these 'sex games' based on your personal views - Its disrespectful. D/s = Dominance and submission - a power dynamic relationship BDSM - bondage, discipline, Sado-Masochism = kinky sex Bottom and Top = people who engage in kinky sex games without a power dynamic relationship. My personal view is if you enjoy kinky sex games, that's fantastic. Nor, do I attempt to deny those that wish to play "sex games". Just don't try to make it something it's not. You came here asking about submissives, Masters and Mistresses....which are all power dynamic terms and then get offended when people assume you're talking about power relationships rather than a "sex game". The responses you received are because of the terminology you used. It's interesting that you view anyone that has a different view and speaks of it....as disrespectful.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:13:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission. hey now, those were not mindless tasks. I put a lot of thought into what i was going to feed her. Oh...now, there's a mental image..... <shudder> I probably don't want to know....[:D]

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:17:59 PM)
I miss a lot when I go for a walk. OsideGirl wasn't forcing any views on anyone, she's telling it like it is and I'm in agreement with if any newbie submissives coming here to read that dribble, there is enough wrong information online that do not have anything to do with power dynamics. Bad enough I have been trying to educate a kinky vanilla about the ways of BDSM.

ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:18:07 PM)
Well ok then :-) Challenge: To write a short story in which you reveal your deepest fantasy. Then record yourself reading said short story. Conclusion: The recording would be published online along with the written story. The Sissy Challenge: You're given a number of iconic photos of celebrities posing (think, Marilyn Monroe, Miley Cyrus, etc). The sissy has to do their best to mimic the pose. Challenge: To record an erotic answer phone message, and use it for a set period of time (longer the better) Proof: The phone number for verification. Also the recording is published online.

ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:19:44 PM)
Ditto

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:26:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 I miss a lot when I go for a walk. OsideGirl wasn't forcing any views on anyone, she's telling it like it is and I'm in agreement with if any newbie submissives coming here to read that dribble, there is enough wrong information online that do not have anything to do with power dynamics. Bad enough I have been trying to educate a kinky vanilla about the ways of BDSM. Have I said lately, how thankful I am that Castlerealm no longer exists?

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:32:44 PM)
Oh dear.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:32:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica Well ok then :-) Challenge: To write a short story in which you reveal your deepest fantasy. Then record yourself reading said short story. Conclusion: The recording would be published online along with the written story. The Sissy Challenge: You're given a number of iconic photos of celebrities posing (think, Marilyn Monroe, Miley Cyrus, etc). The sissy has to do their best to mimic the pose. Challenge: To record an erotic answer phone message, and use it for a set period of time (longer the better) Proof: The phone number for verification. Also the recording is published online. There isn't a chance in hell that I'd allow someone online to publish that stuff on the internet. (It's not safe) And I certainly wouldn't make people calling me listen to an erotic voicemail greeting. BDSM is about consent and that message means that you've involved other people in your kink without their consent.

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