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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/8/2016 10:29:51 AM

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Would it be cynical to wonder if anybody who's complaining about FinDommes in this thread has ever paid a stupid hourly fee to get their arse caned by a pro?

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/8/2016 5:05:09 PM

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Would it be cynical to wonder if anybody who's complaining about FinDommes in this thread has ever paid a stupid hourly fee to get their arse caned by a pro?

No more cynical than to wonder if the only way they can get any women interested in them is to hand over money first.

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/8/2016 7:43:48 PM

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 8:18:28 AM

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This is very interesting because a lot of you don't actually seem to know what financial domination really is LOL
Granted some of it is just online porn to be exact but what some call bdsm is also just sex.....and a way to get it without commitment or paying for it.
Real financial domination does exist and not in the form most of you have proclaimed to have seen. I have performed it very well over the years controlling who and what I will do thus not perverting a dynamic at all.
I guess it just comes down to what some think acceptable because I often question male masters who have to have sexual intercourse with their slaves....but it's not really my business how someone goes about getting sex
just like it is no one's business how a male goes about getting off nor how a female (or male in some instances) go about getting money. Part of the financial fetish is attractive women who are often seen as superior to the
men they are collecting coins from who will never have a real chance to meet them or see them yet they worship them. If that's not a real fetish or a real power exchange I don't think many of you know what one is. Withholding your presence while still receiving cash and gifts is an ultimate form of feminine charm and power.......just like most male domiants lead with their dicks........most female dominants lead with their sex appeal....and only a little bitch would whine about it. But clearly he is whom should be paying for her presence because what real woman wants a broke whiny bitch??????? http://cdn.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 8:20:41 AM

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And I didn't mean to reply to anyone in particular....it just happens to be where I pressed reply.....take no offense....unless you want to that is LOL

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 8:22:33 AM

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If it works for both parties involved, then why wouldn't it be a "genuine" part of BDSM, whatever the fuck that means?

^^^ This

And.... oh, yeah.....another FinDomme thread...
OP you could have posted on one of the other 50 threads bitching about FinDommes....

^^^ This

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 2:36:25 PM

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I think it can be. But since the scam ratio is so high online, you'd have to be foolish to engage in it with anyone other than a long term trusted partner that you have met, or at the very least know who the person is. Financial domination is certainly not what you commonly see here. What you see here and many other places online is scams/and fraud games.

Now please don't come back whining about this topic till you have re-read the above 100 times and understand it.

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 4:12:00 PM

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So, when we put those two words together into the term "financial domination" we're talking about having significant direct control over someone's major assets, and/or their decision-making regarding those assets. Thats what true Fin-Dom is.

No matter how many pages you write defending your opinion (and that's all this is,-your personal opinion, one in which you have no way of knowing if the majority of other bdsm practitioners would agree is standard, accepted usage), when you take away all the justifications, all the disclaimers, all the attempts to distance your definition from any other school of thought, and strip your argument down to a defining point, you prove that this is just one more example of 'one twue way' thinking.

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 4:23:59 PM

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So, when we put those two words together into the term "financial domination" we're talking about having significant direct control over someone's major assets, and/or their decision-making regarding those assets. Thats what true Fin-Dom is.

No matter how many pages you write defending your opinion (and that's all this is,-your personal opinion, one in which you have no way of knowing if the majority of other bdsm practitioners would agree is standard, accepted usage), when you take away all the justifications, all the disclaimers, all the attempts to distance your definition from any other school of thought, and strip your argument down to a defining point, you prove that this is just one more example of 'one twue way' thinking.

Sorry, no. Words have meaning. No matter how much you want to define them into meaningless, those definitions are NOT my personal opinion.

Insisting the scammers that infest this site calling themselves "Fin-Dommes" are anything but parasites, or that they're practicing "legitimate BDSM" is just pathetic. This isn't a 'one true way' thing for me anymore than it is for you.

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 5/21/2016 4:28:00 PM

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since the scam ratio is so high online, you'd have to be foolish to engage in it with anyone other than

This is an astute observation that bona-fide honest financial domination (probably) exists; however, when money and sex is involved, the scam rate is so high as to make a truly professional non-scamming supplier something of a unicorn.

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RE: Is financial domination a genuine part of BDSM ? - 9/13/2016 10:31:58 PM

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As a FinDom myself, yes, we exist. *throws sparkles*
On a serious note though, for us who ARE genuine, it's a pain in the butt to shift throw fake finsubs (who talk big shit and then run the moment they hear the word "tribute"), and it's hard on us genuine Doms cause there's so many Doms screaming every humiliating thing they can call a sub (and somehow expect money to be forked over?) and the Doms that are obviously just doing it for a quick buck (or desperately trying to pay bills).

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