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LadyPact -> RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! (9/25/2016 7:32:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: longs2serveBBW
So are your male offspring subs then? I'd really be interested to know as It's something I've often wondered about.
I bookmarked this thread yesterday because I was headed out for the evening.
If you're thinking that Dominant women are more likely to have male offspring that will turn out to be submissive men, I'm sorry to disappoint you. There is definitely some niche erotica out there that goes to the tune of "I was always raised to serve and obey Dominant women" ([:'(]) but frankly, that's hugely fantasist stuff that gets somebody's dick hard. There is no greater or lesser likelihood for somebody who happens to be a parent and kinky to have offspring that happen to be kinky. You don't think that offspring raised in household of same gendered partners are more likely to 'grow up gay,' do you?
You happen to be on a kink related site. Is it because you have kinky parents? Probably not.
Keep in mind, I said "not more or less likelihood'. There absolutely are people out there who are what are sometimes called "second generation kinksters". They happen to be kinky and their parents happen to be kinky. I've written some things on threads about a couple of them that I've been involved with in the past. (Keep in mind, these are all ADULTS.) One was a person I'd nicknamed "Chosen". His parents were actually in the swingers, rather than the BDSM community. (He happened to be a switch.) Jxxx*** was a fabulous guy, who was also a switch who's mother happened to be a switch. (She's a great lady in her own right.) I had one needle scene a few years ago that was partially negotiated through the bottom's father-in-law. These aren't people who get their kinks from their parents or participate with their parents in kink. They are independent people who happen to be kinky.
My male offspring, specifically, is exceptionally vanilla. Yes, he knows Mom is kinky but isn't interested in knowing details. The only thing he ever thought was 'cool' about it was, when he was younger, he knew 'Mom' knew how to set people on fire. A discussion I told him I wouldn't have with him until he was eighteen years old.
(My female offspring, on the other hand, has bottom/submissive tendencies and has asked me about them in the past. I'm never really sure if she's pulling my leg when she'll ask me for a pink flogger for her birthday, etc. Never gives me enough time to actually pull this off because she knows me well enough that if I'm going to have something to do with a flogger, it's not going to be some piece of crap.)
All of that aside, my comment on the thread is that my son is not a GD idiot and probably knows more about internet scams that I do. The stuff on this thread is not "NEW" by any means and there are threads about scams that spring from this site that go back as far as 2004. A lot of those threads do get pulled here because idiots keep including the name of the person scamming, which is what the site determines as blacklisting, so it's against ToS. So, basically, the OP is warning a bunch of people who have been aware of this stuff since the site has been in existence.
I stand by my opinion. A person who lives in LA (of all flipping places) who can not find a reputable pro domme, rather than getting scammed on CM is ignorant at best or intentionally stupid at worst. Supposedly to have it happen multiple times, after people on the forums have specifically given pointers regarding going about the practice is idiocy.
*** Jxxx actually used to have an account here. Those from the forums who saw me in GA a couple of years ago met him because we came to Savannah together. Yep, that's the guy.
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