Termyn8or
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FR I got this one solved. Don't use titles. I have solved so many things is it unreal. but think about it... At the restaurant, you are at the front but there is some waiting time, the host(ess) asks "Name and how many ?". Later "The Jones party, we are ready for you, please come to the front". Just start using first names and be done with it. In a professional setting just give up on Mr. and Mrs. Like the Muslim Women wearing Hijab being IDed, instead of a picture you put a thumbprint. then at airports or whatever they have that tape they use at no ID check cashing places. They stick their thumb on it and it takes their print and then you stick it to a transparent sheet and compare by putting it over their ID. Personally, I don't use titles. I don't call cops sir, or judges your honor. I tailor my words to avoid the use of these. If everyone did this there would be no problem. Also, if these people weren't such big fucking babies there would be no problem. You can call me any goddamn thing you want. First of all I have to respect you to even consider your opinion, and even then I remember something I learned when I was like five years old. "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". Whatever happened to that ? Now everyone, especially not totally normal, are some kind of special snowflake or some shit like princess. I'll tell you what, in pubic I won't address many people. A few yes, but I just start out with what I wanted to say, I do not preface it with Mr, sir, ma'am, any of that, even their name ! (if I know it) So in public, just refrain for using titles unless the person requests it. Like if you say "Jones party ready to be seated" and you go from the bar and shown to your table, if you say "It's Mr. Jones" THEN that is the way they should address you. but we are getting to the point where they almost want you to guess, and that is bad. And if there is a fine involved it is probably another case of government "rent seeking". In other words they want MONEY. T^T
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