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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 1:49:53 PM

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Id openly mock a female terrified of papery French pancakes too. After all, if one is going to act like a twatwaffle...one deserves to be treated like a twatwaffle. You're welcome

Just sack up and start carrying a spatula. Crepes are terrified of them.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 2:14:17 PM

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Maybe it is crepe paper, rather than the pancakes? People in the toilets are slipping gaudily coloured bits of crepe paper into his back pocket while he's not looking, and this is what's attracting the gay guys' attention?

"Brown, yellow and mauve in his right back pocket? I need to have a word with this chap..."

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 2:15:40 PM

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If I had vb's problem, I would be asking myself 'Am I doing anything to encourage or attract this type of behaviour?'.

As vb seems to be the only person who is attracting this type of unwelcome overture in the loo, it might well be the case that he is doing something to attract it. So I suppose that at a minimum, vb ought to consider:
* cease spending so much time in public bathrooms and cut back on the body scents he uses prior to using public bathrooms;
* cease wearing bright coloured shorts and skimpy vests or any outfit that emphasises his physique to public bathrooms ;
* cease preening in front of the mirror in the bathroom for hours on end;
* cease returning time after time to any place where he has an unpleasant experience: and, last but certainly not least
* consider counselling for his overt homophobia, including considering the option of coming out as a gay man.

This was the first post I read on this thread, and the very first thing that came into my head after reading this was the same thought that the OP (I believe) has had: this type of thing said to a woman would be victim blaming. (Even if it is somewhat in jest.) It's curious that nobody but the OP has pointed that out - that I caught, anyway.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 2:28:55 PM

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If I had vb's problem, I would be asking myself 'Am I doing anything to encourage or attract this type of behaviour?'.

As vb seems to be the only person who is attracting this type of unwelcome overture in the loo, it might well be the case that he is doing something to attract it. So I suppose that at a minimum, vb ought to consider:
* cease spending so much time in public bathrooms and cut back on the body scents he uses prior to using public bathrooms;
* cease wearing bright coloured shorts and skimpy vests or any outfit that emphasises his physique to public bathrooms ;
* cease preening in front of the mirror in the bathroom for hours on end;
* cease returning time after time to any place where he has an unpleasant experience: and, last but certainly not least
* consider counselling for his overt homophobia, including considering the option of coming out as a gay man.

This was the first post I read on this thread, and the very first thing that came into my head after reading this was the same thought that the OP (I believe) has had: this type of thing said to a woman would be victim blaming. (Even if it is somewhat in jest.) It's curious that nobody but the OP has pointed that out - that I caught, anyway.

I did in post #65. Last time I tried to link to the post it just kept going to the page, so I'll just cite the post#.

However, the OP has continued to spew verbal vomit all over the forum that still makes it impossible to take him seriously. And that has been pointed out to him. Its kind of like when respectmen makes a post that might actually have a valid point in it-even people who might otherwise agree with him are hesitant to state so publicly because of his rabid ranting and constant inanity. No one wants to be associated with such whatthefuckeryitis, nor let it go bye unremarked upon.

And for those of us who are smartasses, he and his ilk are like bright and shiny objects that cannot be ignored.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 3:54:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

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If I had vb's problem, I would be asking myself 'Am I doing anything to encourage or attract this type of behaviour?'.

As vb seems to be the only person who is attracting this type of unwelcome overture in the loo, it might well be the case that he is doing something to attract it. So I suppose that at a minimum, vb ought to consider:
* cease spending so much time in public bathrooms and cut back on the body scents he uses prior to using public bathrooms;
* cease wearing bright coloured shorts and skimpy vests or any outfit that emphasises his physique to public bathrooms ;
* cease preening in front of the mirror in the bathroom for hours on end;
* cease returning time after time to any place where he has an unpleasant experience: and, last but certainly not least
* consider counselling for his overt homophobia, including considering the option of coming out as a gay man.

This was the first post I read on this thread, and the very first thing that came into my head after reading this was the same thought that the OP (I believe) has had: this type of thing said to a woman would be victim blaming. (Even if it is somewhat in jest.) It's curious that nobody but the OP has pointed that out - that I caught, anyway.

Errr Nope! If you think through the bit I have bolded in my post, the bit that says: "As vb seems to be the only person who is attracting this type of unwelcome overture ....." you will understand why the converse of my post doesn't apply.

I cannot think of any circumstances where unwelcome sexual overtures could be said to be an individual problem of one woman only, unlike vb's situation which seems to be pretty much unique to vb. We all know how common unwelcome sexual advances on women by men are - there's simply no way they can be considered an individual issue. His complaint is that the gender/sexuality of people hitting on him is in his view inappropriate, not that sexual harassment is inappropriate.

Vb had the option of making his issue broader by talking about his case as an instance of sexual harassment but declined this option, choosing to present his case in purely individual terms. My (admittedly tongue in cheek) post was a response on the same level.

So sorry the converse doesn't apply.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 4:39:30 PM

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On the other hand, VB may have a lunchpack and buttocks that are even more exquisitely proportioned than my own, which is leading these men to approach him with their amorous intentions at the urinal. However, it's up to those men to control themselves isn't it, Tweak?

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 6:35:53 PM

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why bathrooms attract gay men

They have to pee.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 7:20:14 PM

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......When I complained to the management of the public bathroom........

Which manager do you complain to, the general manager, the assistant manager, a department manager or any old manager on duty ? Maybe the problem is you thought you were complaining to a manager when you went up to the service desk but they were just a regular employee. Or could it be everyone that works there is also gay including management ??

If a woman complaned to the management that a man creaped her out in the bathroom would you make lights of it like you did here?
Or do you carry with you a double standard?

I had to go back and reread the OP and it looks like I misdirected my sarcasm. Someone mentioned rest stops on the highway and I've only seen maintenance people when I've stopped at these places or security at night. So I thought complaining to the management at a rest area was absurd but I now see you said, or seem to imp!y any or all public bathrooms which is just as absurd if not more so. I have not ever in all my years been hit on at a public restroom so I don't get where you're coming from.

I do realize that this sort of thing happens but usually at places with a reputation for it, so I've heard. One such place is the Minneapolis airport bathroom where a certain prolific poster here on this forum, who mentions this place a lot, frequents all the time.

Actually he mentions airport bathrooms in general a lot so you could be on to something.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 7:55:58 PM

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......When I complained to the management of the public bathroom........

Which manager do you complain to, the general manager, the assistant manager, a department manager or any old manager on duty ? Maybe the problem is you thought you were complaining to a manager when you went up to the service desk but they were just a regular employee. Or could it be everyone that works there is also gay including management ??

If a woman complaned to the management that a man creaped her out in the bathroom would you make lights of it like you did here?
Or do you carry with you a double standard?

Now that I think about it, the whole OP is flat out full of shit, I mean with the holes, screwdrivers, plyers and all the rest of it. So I'm thinking you must be one of the socks on here, and troll and a liar.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 8:05:40 PM

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"Gotta take a piss" marks the true male as a 'manly man,' whereas "gotta pee" marks him as a restroom stalker, make no mistake.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 8:22:48 PM

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Now that I think about it, the whole OP is flat out full of shit, I mean with the holes, screwdrivers, plyers and all the rest of it. So I'm thinking you must be one of the socks on here, and troll and a liar.

Yeah, that.

I remember showing ID with such fine glee, the first time I went into a porno video place, and the first low-rent bars (which we call "a dive" in the US), which only took being 18 at the time.

Only places I ever saw any hole in the wall in the restroom. Even then, not often..

Some of us move beyond after age 20-22.

Some don't.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/2/2016 10:10:58 PM

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Why is it that when I go to the bathroom in public places I have to deal with gay men trying to pick me up?

They stick paper in my stall, they peep through the holes they drilled in the dividers, they look at you where they've removed the doors from the stalls.

What is it about bathrooms that attracts gay men so much?

Stop hanging out in gay pickup joints.

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RE: why bathrooms attract gay men - 6/3/2016 6:19:05 AM

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"Gotta take a piss" marks the true male as a 'manly man,' whereas "gotta pee" marks him as a restroom stalker, make no mistake.

Naw . . . and if you're going to take his piss, you're kinky as well.

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