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LadyConstanze -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 9:38:11 AM)


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ORIGINAL: pleasnpetrichor

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
What? But what the little boy says isn't? Is he crying? Awww, give him a tissue. Nice to see that he lets you post when his ikkle little feelings are hurt


No offense, but it seems pretty classless to be rude to Kaliko, who has been nothing but gracious to you (whatever your feelings are towards Awareness).




You mean it's perfectly alright that the Little Prince insults me and my hubby, but then she needs to come in? If anything, if she is real and not his internet creation, she has my deepest sympathy. I replied pretty much in the same vein as he dished out, as for my feelings towards the screaming little boy with the toddler tantrums, not really any feelings or concerns, I leave that to medical health professionals.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 11:12:15 AM)

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Price negotiation between two individuals is none of your fucking business

The OP asked our opinion on whether or not he should make the proposed offer, and I gave my opinion.
And it is so cute how you leap from criticizing my imagined faux fucking outrage to criticizing my worthiness to offer an opinion. I just have to smirk when some jumped up macho type has to switch gears and jump through hoops to be able to convince himself he is right.
Too fucking funny.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 11:15:17 AM)

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Why is some stranger's hypothetical sugar market value such a sticking point here?

Because that was the question asked, and therefore the topic of the thread. Don't like it? Too fucking bad, it is what it is.
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This would be a different thread if some girl were here asking why she wasn't getting the offers she wanted.

Of course it would, because that would be an entirely different question with entirely different parameters.



Awareness -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 11:51:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: tj444
So a man having a relationship with a woman is him paying for sex???
How many women do you know who insist on exclusivity as the price for fucking someone?

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and so a man gets nothing more from that relationship than sex? omfg..
That depends entirely on the woman and what she brings to the table.

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One of the major reasons I dumped my ex was cuz he stopped wanting sex, and for me, I need the physical closeness I get from sex and that intimacy to keep love alive and replenished.. once love disappears you are just roommates.. who needs that? And in the case of my ex, when we split up I didnt demand anything from him, no "payment" at all (finally getting away was all I needed).. I even gave him back my wedding ring as it was his grandmothers and I felt that giving it back was the right thing to do.. Btw, he never asked for the ring back, it was my idea to do that..
That's all very well and good, but the divorce courts are full of women who seem to think they should be compensated for the time they spent in the relationship. Amber Heard seems to think she deserves $50,000 a month for fucking Johnny Depp on a regular basis for a year and a half. That seems awfully bloody transactional to me.




pleasnpetrichor -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 2:37:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
You mean it's perfectly alright that the Little Prince insults me and my hubby, but then she needs to come in?


I can see your point to a degree, but I'm not sure the two things are really equivalent. In the first place, I don't believe your husband is a regular poster on these forums (correct me if I'm wrong here). He isn't here to read what's being said, so Awareness (whatever he says) is still only insulting you. In the second place, it should go without saying that Kaliko doesn't deal in that kind of nastiness, so it seems particularly unfair to drag her in. In the third place, I don't agree that the insults you gave were equal in tone to what you took. I actually think you upped the emotional ante considerably.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 2:42:11 PM)

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I actually think you upped the emotional ante considerably.

Hardly. All she did was state a rather obvious fact.



Greta75 -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 7:59:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx
Not sure how exactly condoms change one's job title from cum dumpster to something resembling an inter-active sex partner.?

It does, since the cum doesn't actually get dump on me or even touches me. It gets dump inside a balloon of rubber, he put over his own dick.

Also most men who hate to cum inside rubber, usually withdraws right at the end, remove the condom and cum on themselves, finish up by wanking. So either way, cum doesn't get dump on me. If you wanna get technical.



thompsonx -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 8:02:01 PM)


ORIGINAL: Awareness
That seems awfully bloody transactional to me.


Everything in life is transactional sweetie get over it.



thompsonx -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 8:17:01 PM)


ORIGINAL: Greta75

]ORIGINAL: thompsonx
Not sure how exactly condoms change one's job title from cum dumpster to something resembling an inter-active sex partner.?

It does,

No it does not.


since the cum doesn't actually get dump on me or even touches me. It gets dump inside a balloon of rubber, he put over his own dick.

Pretty sure the rubber is inside of you which would make you a cum dumpster. You know a woman who is not an active participant in the sex act. That you wish to parse words makes it more obvious.

Also most men who hate to cum inside rubber,

This would be your ignorant unsubstantiated opinion. You have mentioned numerous times your lack of concern for his ejaculation or plesure.



usually withdraws right at the end, remove the condom and cum on themselves, finish up by wanking.

You watch lot of pron don't you?[8|]



So either way, cum doesn't get dump on me. If you wanna get technical.

to paraphrase shakespear...a cumdumpster by any other name would smell....



pleasnpetrichor -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 8:32:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: Awareness
That seems awfully bloody transactional to me.


Everything in life is transactional sweetie get over it.


Not for everyone it isn't. People of high character, intelligence, and self esteem will very naturally think that those qualities are sufficient in themselves. In other words, they will judge their own value based on who they are, not on how much they they bring to the table.




Greta75 -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 8:46:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx
You watch lot of pron don't you?[8|]

No, alot of men does this, from live experiences. How many men have you slept with? I bet I beat you in live experiences with sex with men. You keep going for paid whores, you aren't even getting realistic sex with real women. You are paying them to do what you want them to do. I personally think generally men who goes to whores often, HATES giving women any sexual pleasure at all, that's why it bothers you so much that my sexual experiences involve the man pleasuring me that you refer to me as a cum dumpster. You want to make it look ugly. There is nothing ugly about a man who loves to bring a woman to nirvana and who's main mission in sex is to give a woman mind blowing orgasmic experiences. Usually such men don't bother paying for sex, because men who provides women nirvana level experience in sex gets women craving to go back to them, just for sex. No financial returns required.
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You know a woman who is not an active participant in the sex act.

Spoken like a man who's sexual orientation isn't geared for receiving pleasure by pleasuring a woman. I am just glad I don't meet alot of men like you. Most men are happy to make me cum and keep me cumming for them. For you, that's being inactive, for the men that enjoys it, they simply love watching a woman cum for them.



thompsonx -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 8:55:58 PM)


ORIGINAL: pleasnpetrichor
ORIGINAL: thompsonx
ORIGINAL: Awareness
That seems awfully bloody transactional to me.


Everything in life is transactional sweetie get over it.


Not for everyone it isn't.

Yes it is.


People of high character, intelligence, and self esteem will very naturally think that those qualities are sufficient in themselves. In other words, they will judge their own value based on who they are, not on how much they they bring to the table.

Who you are is what you bring to the table.






pleasnpetrichor -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 9:01:00 PM)

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thompsonx -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 9:12:45 PM)


ORIGINAL: Greta75
ORIGINAL: thompsonx

You watch lot of pron don't you?[8|]


No, alot of men does this, from live experiences.

First you say most men now you say a lot of men...You can only speak for the ones you have been a cum dumpster for.



You keep going for paid whores, you aren't even getting realistic sex with real women.


In your mind they are not real women???why is that???


You are paying them to do what you want them to do.

Are you sugesting that I pay them to do something I don't want????
That seems less than productive.



I personally think generally men who goes to whores often, HATES giving women any sexual pleasure at all,

Opinions are a lot like assholes...everyone has one and most everyone feels theirs works best for them.



that's why it bothers you so much that my sexual experiences involve the man pleasuring me that you refer to me as a cum dumpster.

Gir,l get a grip....nothing you do "bothers" me. My reference to you as a cumdumpster is a fair reflection of your description that you have posted many times of your outlook on sex. I do not judge you for your behviour. This is a kink site. There are tons of guys looking for a cumdumpster...I do not judge them either...win win.



You want to make it look ugly.

Sweetie you are the only one who can make yourself look ugly.


There is nothing ugly about a man who loves to bring a woman to nirvana and who's main mission in sex is to give a woman mind blowing orgasmic experiences. Usually such men don't bother paying for sex, because men who provides women nirvana level experience in sex gets women craving to go back to them, just for sex. No financial returns required.


Some men prefer a woman who fucks back...some men are into faux necrophilia with cum dumpsters...It is all good hon don't be a hater.





Greta75 -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 9:23:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx
First you say most men now you say a lot of men...You can only speak for the ones you have been a cum dumpster for.

In the casual sex world, first of all, I have many men who says it's a deal breaker IF he had to use a condom. So yea, deal breaker for him and me, that's why I said most men HATES using rubber. How many married men are willing to continue to use rubber with their wives?
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In your mind they are not real women???why is that???

Not real, because they are doing it as a job. They are only fulfilling your desire and not their own.
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Are you sugesting that I pay them to do something I don't want????
That seems less than productive.

I am suggesting that sex with you for her might be less spectacular if there is no money involved. Thinking of the money allows her to go along with whatever you want, which may not be what she wants, but she wants the money, so she will do it. They say the highest compliment a whore can pay you, is when she refuses to accept your money anymore and just want nothing but sex from you. But since you keep going back to the ones that needs to get paid, I guess that hasn't happened for you yet.
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Some men prefer a woman who fucks back...some men are into faux necrophilia with cum dumpsters...It is all good hon don't be a hater.

Yea, but I love how there is no derogatory word for men who does all the taking without the giving. You're a taker. I'm a taker. We will never get along in bed. We both need givers.

You pay for your givers. I find my givers for free. Stop being jealous and use derogatory terms like "cum dumpsters".

And I know men who find givers for free too, so your gender has nothing to do with it.

Already just within the last 2 months, 2 male friends who travel with their female colleagues, got their female colleagues get them drunk, to just have them lie there, so they can have their way with them. The girl did everything, blew them, got them hard, and fucked them. Took them for herself. She just wanted sex. Wanted them just for sex. They had to pay for nothing. And it was consensual, since the men only say, they wanted it but only feel guilty as it's unprofessional to be fucking fellow colleagues, might lead to complication, but they enjoyed the sex. So it wasn't rape.



thompsonx -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/13/2016 9:59:08 PM)


ORIGINAL: pleasnpetrichor
ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: pleasnpetrichor
People of high character, intelligence, and self esteem will very naturally think that those qualities are sufficient in themselves. In other words, they will judge their own value based on who they are, not on how much they they bring to the table.

Who you are is what you bring to the table.


Then I suspect I'm in trouble.

Lets hope so.[;)]



Awareness -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/14/2016 6:35:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Sex is not transactional with all women. Some believe they are priceless and will turn down a Million dollars or more. I was a offered a 1mil apartment (because apartments minimally cost 1 mil in my country anyway), and a ferrari to be a man's 24/7 full time sub. He was early 40's, and I was late twenties than.

But I turn it down not because I think I am priceless, I definitely have a price
If you have a price, then sex, to you, is transactional.



Awareness -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/14/2016 6:39:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
What? But what the little boy says isn't? Is he crying? Awww, give him a tissue. Nice to see that he lets you post when his ikkle little feelings are hurt
*grin* Kalliko is amused, you unstable basket case. Believe me, she pegged you as a cunt years ago. What's funny is that you're clearly so invested and can't keep me out of your head when I really don't give a flying fuck about you in any way, shape or form.

Let it go, already. I'm married. And unlike some people, I don't cheat.



Awareness -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/14/2016 6:41:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Actually little boy, I took you off ignore for a while because I changed a few things on the computer.
You've never had me on ignore. You know it, and I know it. And there's no scenario under which "changing a few things on the computer" would justify taking anyone off ignore in the first place. You're busted, my little sycophant.



Awareness -> RE: Why not offer a Young girl, an Arrangement? (6/14/2016 6:43:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
You mean it's perfectly alright that the Little Prince insults me and my hubby, but then she needs to come in? If anything, if she is real and not his internet creation, she has my deepest sympathy. I replied pretty much in the same vein as he dished out, as for my feelings towards the screaming little boy with the toddler tantrums, not really any feelings or concerns, I leave that to medical health professionals.
I do believe you're having a waaaahhhhh. Awwww.... and people wonder why women like you get treated like children. It should be perfectly obvious.

Cheer up, Buttercup - I'm sure Crumbs will happily support your delusion that you have dominant characteristics - even if you and I both know you're roleplaying. *chuckle*



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