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Dizzy, I disagree with you here. You are free to do so, yet you are incorrect. Mainstream feminism stands for gender equality, so if you actually do want gender equality, they are your allies. However it seems that most people advocating for men are in fact not interested in equality at all. Alright Dizzy, you tell me I'm incorrect, I suppose that means you disagree with me? Some of the people who I listen to, read or converse with from time to time who tell me the opposite. How would a neutral observer go about determining which of these incompatible ideas is closest to the truth? I'm not sure it's possible to be a "neutral observer" when it comes to issues like this, so my answer is doomed to be biased. But here goes. A neutral observer would begin by doing some research. The internet is a fine place to do research, but it's not actually designed to open minds, if anything the opposite is true. If you want to get a balanced view of an issue, you have to take active steps to look for balancing arguments and statements. If you don't take those active steps, then you end up searching your way into an echo chamber. Check out - http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Feminism_101 quote:
I think it would help one of us see the other's point of view better if the terms were defined with some precision. Rather than recourse to wikipedia, or some other arbiter, can you tell me what you mean by gender equality? I don't think I want to commit to being interested in "equality at all" until I know what I'm getting myself into! I'm sure it's not your intention, but this kind of question is often used intentionally to derail conversations about equality. Do you believe that men and women should earn the same for the same work? Do you believe that men and women should have the same opportunities? Do you believe that men and women should be treated in the same way? If you do, then you're talking about gender equality. quote:
I also have a question with regards to what constitutes mainstream feminism. Is the person who penned the article about abolishing custodial sentencing for women a mainstream feminist? She is a professor of social work at the university of Illinois. This doesn't exactly sound like fringe to me, but I don't follow the social sciences terribly closely. Interestingly, she doesn't say that women should not be given custodial sentences, she says that traditional "prison" is not the right place for them. The distinction will be lost on some, but I'm sure you'll spot it right away. Interestingly, Illinois is the home of an initiative called "Project Redeploy" which seeks to provide alternatives to prison for non-violent offenders of any gender. Sure, title of the article could mislead, and it's evidently confused at least one of our resident trolls, but the trick is to read into the article. quote:
My contention with feminism, which I tried to articulate in my initial reply to you, was and is that I think some of the methods that feminism uses or encourages others to use in addressing the male side of gendered issues, I can't disagree - in that "some" of the methods used by "some" feminists can be counter-productive. But bear in mind, there are plenty of lies and exaggerations out there. The "all sex is rape lie" has been used on this board, it's a bare faced lie, it's been debunked a thousand times, but there are still people who believe it's true, and there are a few who know it's a lie but repeat it over and over as a slur. quote:
or even in some cases individual issues men and boys deal with that have nothing to do with gender per se, are in some cases ineffective, and in others even counter productive. I think this is because many of the techniques, methods, that people attempt to help each other with are frequently themselves much more applicable to one gender than the other, and in some cases can have the opposite from the desired effect. I think I'd need some examples of what you're thinking about. There's no doubt that, as a result of social conditioning and natural differences, that different approaches work with different genders, but I'm just not quite sure what point you're making here.
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