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This is a fast reply. Over the years we have had many people come on the forums with a fantasy that is unusual. Most of those folks are only able to focus on the fantasy and not the actual reality of what it would require to bring that fantasy into fruition. For an example, I will show you this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4724509/tm.htm The gentleman in the thread wanted to live his retirement years in a coffin sized box covered in shit 24/7. Not my kink, but hey... if that is what gets you off, fine... however there are practical issues that are involved that never seem to permeate the bubble of the fantasy. When confronted with those realities, the one with the fantasy tries to make a case for how to overcome some of those risks, most of those solutions they come up with are usually impractical as well. The fact is, the folks on here got asked a question about a fantasy. They got answers, possibly not the ones that they wanted but answers all the same. Now, reality is sometimes harsh and cruel and doesn't often bend to our every whim. So, even if there is a chance of some risk happening, it is worthy to point it out. That doesn't make those folks naysayers, they are simply pointing out reality. On the current topic, I would not want to be tethered to a person I was holding "captive" in my cellar. Doesn't mean no one else might want that, it's just not for me. Just because it isn't for me doesn't make my opinion of the practical nature of the fantasy judgemental of their kink, it means that I gave an opinion, nothing more.
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"For there is no folly of the beast of the earth which is not infinitely outdone by the madness of men." Herman Melville - Moby Dick I'm wearing my chicken suit and humming La Marseillaise.
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