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Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 2:27:25 PM   
RosOwen78


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I came on here after being bombarded with sick messages off me who had seen me posted up on several disgusting adult websites.
I know I've been faked on collarspace several times & hoped someone, anyone would know something that might help me work out who was behind it or at least be sympathetic towards how much I'm being humiliated by assholes who need to getalife.
I even uploaded a proof photo of me I took just before leaving for work less than 24hrs ago so I would be taken seriously, shortly after I get sent this http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2447535p08.jpg?07272016140250 showing absolutely no respect for me or what I'm going through.
Then I'm getting told I actually DESERVE this & worse!
I can't believe how sick people are!


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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 2:42:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78

What is wrong with people?
I came on here after being bombarded with sick messages off me who had seen me posted up on several disgusting adult websites.
I know I've been faked on here several times & hoped someone, anyone would know something that might help me work out who was behind it or at least be sympathetic towards how much I'm being humiliated by assholes who need to getalife.
I even uploaded a proof photo of me I took just before leaving for work less than 24hrs ago so I would be taken seriously, shortly after I get sent this http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2447535p08.jpg?07272016140250 showing absolutely no respect for me or what I'm going through.
Then I'm getting told I actually DESERVE this & worse!
I can't believe how sick people are!


Unfortunately - that's the internet.

All, I can say is Report, Block and Delete.

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 3:32:18 PM   
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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 5:47:57 PM   
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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 6:04:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78

What is wrong with people?
I came on here after being bombarded with sick messages off me who had seen me posted up on several disgusting adult websites.I know I've been faked on here several times & hoped someone, anyone would know something that might help me work out who was behind it or at least be sympathetic towards how much I'm being humiliated by assholes who need to getalife.

Confusion number 1. Am I understanding that you have been sent messages HERE on your collarspace account, regarding your photo appearing on some random disgusting adult websites in a none too flattering way?
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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78
I even uploaded a proof photo of me I took just before leaving for work less than 24hrs ago so I would be taken seriously, shortly after I get sent this http://www.collarspace.com/photos/2447535p08.jpg?07272016140250 showing absolutely no respect for me or what I'm going through.

Confusion number 2. So, knowing that you've been faked on here several times AND having been told that your image was used on several random disgusting adult websites which was humiliating to you, you go and post ANOTHER picture of yourself?
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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78
Then I'm getting told I actually DESERVE this & worse!
I can't believe how sick people are!

I wouldn't go so far as to agree that you Deserve this, and you do get a little sympathy from me, but I do question your method of actions in trying to resolve this. Why not "not" post a picture?

I hope I offered you the help you asked for.



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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 10:39:14 PM   
RosOwen78


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No I've been getting sent all these messages via my email etc but have had a lot of what has been said confirmed since posting up a genuine profile putting people straight on the situation.
I've also only posted up pics of me that are already being used online elsewhere hopefully to jog anyones memory? The only new photo I had posted up was my "proof photo" so everyone could see I am real & not one of these fucking fakes causing shit for me.

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 10:55:21 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/27/2016 11:12:55 PM   
RosOwen78


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Except now they have a "proof photo" to prove they are real.


Thats kind of the point with a proof pic isnt it?

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/28/2016 1:46:54 PM   
Awareness


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People are assholes. Anonymous people are worse. It kind of works like this:



You're not obliged to read every email. Block anyone who sends you something unsavoury. Delete the rest. Reporting is a waste of time as the system is automated.

And harden up. It's only words.

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/28/2016 8:57:06 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Thats kind of the point with a proof pic isnt it?


Except they can now use it to "prove" they are you.

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/28/2016 11:39:30 PM   
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OP, I didn't totally understand and got more confused looking at the picture.

Did they cgi cum onto your face when you simply posted a normal picture? Or did you put that picture of yourself with cum on your face voluntarily on the web for people to take it and use it?


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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 1:26:29 AM   
RosOwen78


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ORIGINAL: Greta75

FR
OP, I didn't totally understand and got more confused looking at the picture.

Did they cgi cum onto your face when you simply posted a normal picture? Or did you put that picture of yourself with cum on your face voluntarily on the web for people to take it and use it?



No the photo I posted up on my collarspace profile didn't have cum over my face, it was only posted up to prove I was real.
The one with cum over me was sent to obvs upset me & make me out to look a complete slut.

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 1:33:09 AM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78
No the photo I posted up on my collarspace profile didn't have cum over my face, it was only posted up to prove I was real.
The one with cum over me was sent to obvs upset me & make me out to look a complete slut.

Sorry to hear that. But how did they get hold of a picture with cum on it? Or was it falsely photo shopped on?

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 3:54:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RosOwen78


quote:

ORIGINAL: Greta75

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OP, I didn't totally understand and got more confused looking at the picture.

Did they cgi cum onto your face when you simply posted a normal picture? Or did you put that picture of yourself with cum on your face voluntarily on the web for people to take it and use it?



No the photo I posted up on my collarspace profile didn't have cum over my face, it was only posted up to prove I was real.
The one with cum over me was sent to obvs upset me & make me out to look a complete slut.


Master Says:

I adore sluts, have no use for wanton hoors, but sluts are on the top of my list of the most AWESOME THINGS IN THE FUCKING UNIVERSE!!!!

You should be well aware of the potential pitfalls of the internet... I'm pretty sure you didn't just turn 18... and I'll echo a bit of what others are saying; you should be flattered. You put yourself out there, people are really noticing you, they are plastering you all over the net and it's not going as YOU would've preferred it... but you posted your personal email online, so that's on you.

There is a familiar phrase that you should be ruminating over rather than agonizing; "imitation is the sincerest form of flattery".

Charles Caleb Colton made that a bit famous in 1820, but it's first claim to fame was via Marcus Aurelius around 160 AD. Now, 160 AD was a little while ago, but that should tell you this is nothing new, you should be flattered, but also you should make better decisions if it's grieving you so much.

Jus sayin

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 8:30:38 AM   
WickedsDesire


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I see nothing that proves you are whom you claim....bit like almost all on here, or there.

And this where you will begin your stance?

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 9:05:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Sorry to hear that. But how did they get hold of a picture with cum on it? Or was it falsely photo shopped on?

Greta, hon, the dude who did it put her pic up on his screen, masturbated to it, ejaculated on his screen, took a picture of *his* screen, and then sent it back to her.




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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 10:00:34 AM   
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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 10:47:43 AM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Sorry to hear that. But how did they get hold of a picture with cum on it? Or was it falsely photo shopped on?

Greta, hon, the dude who did it put her pic up on his screen, masturbated to it, ejaculated on his screen, took a picture of *his* screen, and then sent it back to her.




Oh! Is that what happened! That's super fucked up!

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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 10:53:53 AM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Asking for help with being slut shamed online - 7/29/2016 10:55:56 AM   
Greta75


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even the fakes judge your fakery...embrace the majority dear fake

I think you seriously have mental problems calling every woman fake.

This OP is the perfect example, why women shouldn't post their picture online at all.

All you need is some sick dude to masturbate to it.

But of course, if they choose to, they voluntarily take the risk. It's a nasty online world out there.

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