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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/11/2016 3:03:39 PM

FieryOpal

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Mini Fraud: Man claims 10" dick, knowing it really is only 9.5" and not even all that hard.

If rounding up by half or even a full inch, or lying about being thick when you're just average, constituted fraud, all yoos guys are a pack of con men.

(Having nothing to do with nonconsensual sex, so a moot point... Just saying, there should be ample opportunity to cut him off at the pass via visual inspection, unless exactitude doesn't matter.)

There is a corollary to this, IME. A man who lies about his height will also be prone to lie about cock size, and vice versa.
This can go in reverse as well. Jolly Green Giants in height might shave off an inch or two, claiming to be 6'3" or 6'4" instead of 6'5" or 6'6".

And quite frankly, 9 to 10-inchers are way too long for comfort, so that would be as much of a deal breaker as a small dick.
As for hardness, well, if it's not a diamond cutter, bendable Gumbi dicks are also a deal breaker.

So are gnarly, misshapen ones.

(Yeah, I'm picky like that.

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In all fairness, with push-up bras and chicken cutlets, a man might not end up getting what he's hoping for either--so this can work both ways in terms of misrepresentations.

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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/11/2016 5:13:23 PM

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The way you describe things tickles me. Lol.

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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/11/2016 5:26:49 PM

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The way you describe things tickles me. Lol.

Oh, you don't know the half of it, girlfriend....

I met this vanilla wannabe sub who claimed to be well-endowed, short of porno king John Holmesian proportions.
He completely shaved his pubic area to make his dick appear to be bigger than it was. He needed all the help he could get, cuz he was merely average.
(Plus he sported pics of himself that were at least 5+ years old before his hairline had receded and his hair had thinned significantly. I have a hair-tugging fetish, so that was also a letdown.

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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/11/2016 5:50:52 PM

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I have a bald short guy fetish. No explaining it. Lol

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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/11/2016 6:23:25 PM

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I have a bald short guy fetish. No explaining it. Lol

Hahahaha, the better to divvy them up amongst ourselves, tag team style.

Anybody want a teddy bear DaddyDom biker type? For me, that's 3 strikes.
I'm okay with the teddy bear part, as long as he's in good health and isn't a coach potato. :p

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RE: false identity/non-consensual sex - TRIGGER WARNING... - 10/12/2016 2:22:13 PM

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Now I am taking it in a somewhat different direction and am using something many people may find themselves facing -- and it may not be impersonating a person, but misrepresenting themselves as a person they are not.

Do you believe if someone misrepresents themselves and identifies themselves to be someone they are not legally identified as and a person has consensual sex, is it rape?

Consent is what defines rape in the legal sense. Is it rape to misrepresent yourself to someone knowingly and that person does not consent to have sex with the real identity that is you --
or does consent have to do with the body, i.e., you are there, with a person, and you agree to have sex with his body. Does the real identity make a difference in consent?

1-Caveat fucking Emptor, bitches.
2-There ain't enough prisons in the world to lock up every person that lied about who they were or do or what their intents are. Fuck, if that's rape, damn near all humanity is a rapist (Not that I can't make a good argument for that anyhow)

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