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dcnovice -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 9:26:59 AM)

FR

This might prove a helpful read. [:)]

For Men: How to Find a Woman Here



DesFIP -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 9:39:48 AM)

Nobody wants to be your fetish delivery system. Because they don't get anything out of it.

If you can't offer a woman anything she wants, then expect to pay to get what you want.

Or do you walk into restaurants and insist they feed you for free?



WickedsDesire -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 9:57:21 AM)

I am led to believe no -one women of reality ever offered there self to me on from a gene pull of planet earth, let us look closer

Scotland population 5 million
London about 10 million
New York about 10 million
x13 years

One must conclude there are simply no genuine women here, like the fact you stole that picture Op - but you are the many 99% rule applies, not bell end rule. One cannot behold nothing



WickedsDesire -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 10:59:16 AM)

I am a genuine guy i an genuine behokld all the real bitches who have hammered me in 13 years on there


none :(



Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 11:35:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

I am a genuine guy i an genuine behokld all the real bitches who have hammered me in 13 years on there


none :(

Blah blah blah. Get over it, man up, and meet women in the real world.



LadyPact -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 11:46:01 AM)

Ah, memories. That certain time period where flocks of 23 year old, bisexual, submissive women, who all contacted men (and sometimes couples) and there were tons of them everywhere. (Posters who have been here for a while will get the joke on that.)

OP, I will cut you some slack. If I were a 26 year old male, trying to use the site to meet people, your target age group is probably in a certain range. It's actually not your fault that it happens to be the age group (and location) where a lot of people have figured out they can make a buck at it.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Here's the thing OP, I bet I could get a woman to meet you using your account.

I'm fairly confident that you could. I'm reasonably confident that I could. I think a certain percentage of most women could.

The reason I say that? Women actually listen to other women about what kind of emails they respond to and actually apply that when they contact people.




DynamicDs -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 12:04:13 PM)

You should try meeting a real live male submissive.



OsideGirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 12:06:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact



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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Here's the thing OP, I bet I could get a woman to meet you using your account.

I'm fairly confident that you could. I'm reasonably confident that I could. I think a certain percentage of most women could.

The reason I say that? Women actually listen to other women about what kind of emails they respond to and actually apply that when they contact people.




Exactly!!!



Shandirra -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 12:08:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DynamicDs
You should try meeting a real live male submissive.


Says the profile using fake pictures...



FieryOpal -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 12:17:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice
This might prove a helpful read. [:)]

For Men: How to Find a Woman Here

Thanks dc, I had thought Collarchat made that thread into one of their stickies for general reference by now.

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
I am a genuine guy i an genuine behokld all the real bitches who have hammered me in 13 years on there

none :(

OP, when you read posts from our resident "do-me" dude ambassador-at-large, ask yourself whether (a) your approach is any better than his, and (b) if you were a woman, would you want to go near such a character with a ten-foot pole?

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Why are genuine women so rare on here, why are genuine women so rare on here that are looking. This site has been around 12-13 years, I think?
<snip>
Why won’t genuine women join here, remain on here - is another question

What makes you think any "genuine" woman would want anything to do with you? You're a self-absorbed, narcissistic control freak, not a Dominant. (Although they are not necessarily mutually exclusive attributes.)
How ironic that high-maintenance male Prima Donnas expect their female *hot babe* counterparts to be low-maintenance partnership material. Those are what are mutually exclusive and which don't exist, because you search for women to fit criteria by whatever measuring stick you have arbitrarily devised, when they are clearly out of your league (meaning you yourself will never measure up to what they require in a suitable mate).

Ladies can spot your type a mile away with "drama-free" being manspeak for "As needy, greedy and desperate as I am, I will turn out to be nothing but an inattentive, selfish bastard" AND "I have fucking nothing of real substance to offer you in an enduring relationship."

I left this site most of last year, and have not been active here for about half of this year. Vanilla dating is not much of an improvement, since HNGs abound everywhere, but at least I'm not as beset by fuckbuddy/playbuddy trawlers.

The force of bullshit meter breakage is strong on kink dating sites.

On the upside, however, well-mannered guys possessing adequate social skills, who actually do have some game going for them in terms of adroitness and emotional maturity [sm=kiss.gif], should be making out like bandits compared to their lame-ass competition.



LadyPact -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 1:28:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DynamicDs
You should try meeting a real live male submissive.

If that reply actually was to me, are you suggesting that I need to take Engie's pulse or something?




angelikaJ -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 4:59:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Here's the thing OP, I bet I could get a woman to meet you using your account.

ML has part of it right - you're mostly likely emailing the "too good to be true" profiles.

Your profile is terrible and somebody interested in actually having a relationship is going to pass it by.

And lastly, every thread you've started is complaining about women.




I did not check the profile and from the content figured he was on the other side of the kneel.



OsideGirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 5:18:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Here's the thing OP, I bet I could get a woman to meet you using your account.

ML has part of it right - you're mostly likely emailing the "too good to be true" profiles.

Your profile is terrible and somebody interested in actually having a relationship is going to pass it by.

And lastly, every thread you've started is complaining about women.




I did not check the profile and from the content figured he was on the other side of the kneel.



He's a 26 year old male Dom in Los Angeles and is attractive. There's no reason why he can't meet someone other than himself.



Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 5:57:27 PM)

OP, peeped your profile. Anyone who uses the word "cum" in place of "come" is a total skeeze.



dcnovice -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 6:55:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

OP, peeped your profile. Anyone who uses the word "cum" in place of "come" is a total skeeze.

This startled me, since I've never had that reaction to "cum." Being an editor, my far greater concern is whether the past tense should be "cummed."

I decided to see what the good folks at Merriam-Webster had to say. "Cum" is in the dictionary, but not in orgasmic sense. (Attaining orgasm is one of the definitions for "come," but it's noted as "often vulgar.")

Things got particularly interesting below the "cum" entry, where M-W invites folks to say why they'd looked up the word. (They do that for every entry.) The esteemed John El had written, "This is what I do to young bitches every night.."

And I thought, "Well, she's right! Total skeeze."



Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 9:12:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice


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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

OP, peeped your profile. Anyone who uses the word "cum" in place of "come" is a total skeeze.

This startled me, since I've never had that reaction to "cum." Being an editor, my far greater concern is whether the past tense should be "cummed."

I decided to see what the good folks at Merriam-Webster had to say. "Cum" is in the dictionary, but not in orgasmic sense. (Attaining orgasm is one of the definitions for "come," but it's noted as "often vulgar.")

Things got particularly interesting below the "cum" entry, where M-W invites folks to say why they'd looked up the word. (They do that for every entry.) The esteemed John El had written, "This is what I do to young bitches every night.."

And I thought, "Well, she's right! Total skeeze."


Lol.
He said it in place of the verb to come, meaning to go to, not reach orgasm. It's always annoyed men when people try to be cute or clever by saying shit like "cum over here" or "how about I cum to your place." Skeezy and lame, and frankly a little embarrassing for them.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 10:21:03 PM)

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how about I cum to your place

That would be impressive, as it's a pretty large building



DarkSteven -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 10:37:41 PM)

OP, I will make two suggestions.

1. Revise your profile. The goal should be that a woman reading it will think, "I'd like to know him better!" Describe your interests. Especially list topics you like to talk about. The very fact that you focus on that puts you ahead of 95% of the guys here, regardless of what the topics even are.

2. Go out. Go to munches. Go to play parties. Get to know locals. Play casually, and people will get to know you. Any unattached woman on the prowl will feel much safer if she knows you've been in the scene and have played with a few women and they liked it.



Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/11/2016 10:46:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice


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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

OP, peeped your profile. Anyone who uses the word "cum" in place of "come" is a total skeeze.

This startled me, since I've never had that reaction to "cum." Being an editor, my far greater concern is whether the past tense should be "cummed."

I decided to see what the good folks at Merriam-Webster had to say. "Cum" is in the dictionary, but not in orgasmic sense. (Attaining orgasm is one of the definitions for "come," but it's noted as "often vulgar.")

Things got particularly interesting below the "cum" entry, where M-W invites folks to say why they'd looked up the word. (They do that for every entry.) The esteemed John El had written, "This is what I do to young bitches every night.."

And I thought, "Well, she's right! Total skeeze."


Lol.
He said it in place of the verb to come, meaning to go to, not reach orgasm. It's always annoyed men when people try to be cute or clever by saying shit like "cum over here" or "how about I cum to your place." Skeezy and lame, and frankly a little embarrassing for them.



Annoyed me* not men....grrrrr, missed the edit window.



thishereboi -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 3:37:23 AM)

look for the common denominator



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