SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/24/2016 2:24:58 PM)
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ORIGINAL: WMDom26CA All the women I meet want money. What's the deal? Because kink dating is like an arranged marriage, with no one to arrange it for you. It starts with a list of criteria that you want, with no reference to the personality or needs of the other person. It's a tall order. If guys could walk around with their cocks on their sleeves and find enthusiastic women, people would be doing it in the vanilla world as well... but it generally doesn't work. There isn't any shortcut to what you want. You need to put in the time to search for someone who you like as a person, who's personality is compatible, and who wants the same things out of life as you do... and spend the time to get to know them so you can find out if you are sexually compatible. People think there is a short cut to sexual compatibility... and they end up wasting just as much time when they do find someone through a kink site, only to find out later that sexual compatibility was the only compatibility they had. And often, they find out that not even that was true. If you want something real, you have to start from a real place yourself. Bravo! I have said this numerous times over the years. A D/s relationship based solely on kink with no other level of compatibility will fail just as easily as a vanilla relationship that is missing sexual compatibility. Any D/s based dichotomy must have multiple levels of compatibility to succeed in the long run.
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