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thishereboi -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 3:38:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact How many women have you really met face to face that demanded your cash? Edited. Sorry. I tend to make typos when laughing. In that case, you might want to keep your hands away from the keyboard if you read his profile. oh and put the coffee cup down also.

dcnovice -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 2:05:17 PM)
quote: He said it in place of the verb to come, meaning to go to, not reach orgasm. It's always annoyed men when people try to be cute or clever by saying shit like "cum over here" or "how about I cum to your place." Skeezy and lame, and frankly a little embarrassing for them. Oh, dear God. I hadn't realized that's how he used it. (My masochism doesn't quite extend to checking out the OP's profile.) I agree: That usage sounds brain-dead.

Kana -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 2:09:19 PM)
quote: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? It's not. Not even kinda sorta maybe tough. Know who has trouble finding women on this site? Whiny losers

TallClevDom -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 2:14:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk Because there's so few real women and even fewer subs or slaves. It's all a bunch of fat fuckers jackin off in their grannys basement while watchin porn Hey, I asked my grandma when she came down to do the laundry and she said I'm not fat (right after she scolded me for looking at porn).

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 6:09:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact How many women have you really met face to face that demanded your cash? Edited. Sorry. I tend to make typos when laughing. In that case, you might want to keep your hands away from the keyboard if you read his profile. oh and put the coffee cup down also. I read his profile and now I want to send him an invoice myself.

OsideGirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 8:22:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2 quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact How many women have you really met face to face that demanded your cash? Edited. Sorry. I tend to make typos when laughing. In that case, you might want to keep your hands away from the keyboard if you read his profile. oh and put the coffee cup down also. I read his profile and now I want to send him an invoice myself. For dry cleaning after you spit your coffee out?

ilovestarbucks -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 8:49:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WMDom26CA All the women I meet want money. What's the deal? DUUUUHH!! Thats what pro-dommes do! They charge money. Don't make the smae mistake I did by sending them money before meeting them. At least get phone and video confirmation first.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 8:54:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: He said it in place of the verb to come, meaning to go to, not reach orgasm. It's always annoyed men when people try to be cute or clever by saying shit like "cum over here" or "how about I cum to your place." Skeezy and lame, and frankly a little embarrassing for them. Oh, dear God. I hadn't realized that's how he used it. (My masochism doesn't quite extend to checking out the OP's profile.) I agree: That usage sounds brain-dead. "I want a woman who lives close to me and who can cum to me" Feel the cringe Also, almost every sentence on his profile begins with "I want." And none of it describes him as a person. He's literally set himself up for failure then complains about failing.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/12/2016 9:04:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl Also, almost every sentence on his profile begins with "I want." And none of it describes him as a person. He's literally set himself up for failure then complains about failing. He's getting exactly what his profile is set up to do. Many people wish they were that lucky.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/13/2016 1:28:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WMDom26CA All the women I meet want money. What's the deal? Well, I didn't count how many times you said "I WANT...." kinda lost interest straight after the first few times you were acting like a spoiled toddler demanding a toy So I skimmed a bit further down your profile to this quote: I am only interested in a woman who will do what I say. What the hell are you complaining about? You are looking for a woman who delivers a service, fetish delivery always comes with a price tag

longwayhome -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/13/2016 1:39:19 AM)
[Fast reply] I suspect when people complain about it being difficult to meet women what they mean is that it's difficult to meet the fantasy woman they decided they were entitled to. If they got their head straight and thought about meeting the kind of women who live in their street, work in their workplace and hang out with people like them, they might have more "luck". How about meeting real people with real bodies and real fears? That svelte blond super dominatrix fantasy who hangs out with the "cool" guys isn't popping round your bedsit any time soon to give you a blowjob, any more than your Julia Roberts prostitute fantasy is going to give up the game cos you're just so fine. If the real people you meet every day don't turn you on, and you can't transform yourself into something else, you're going to end up doing a lot of wanking. Fair enough - a rich fantasy life can be great fun, but it's all you'll have if you don't modify something in your life. I can have sympathy for someone who doesn't have a partner and wants one, but not the self-entitled moaning because people's fantasies don't drop in their laps when they click their fingers (or their mouse buttons).

bondageerone -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/19/2016 5:06:49 AM)
I have the same problem, meeting REAL LESBIANS. XX

Awareness -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/20/2016 7:34:22 AM)
LOL!

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/20/2016 10:07:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bondageerone I have the same problem, meeting REAL LESBIANS. XX I don't think you are a real lesbian

Diffident -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/20/2016 11:50:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: bondageerone I have the same problem, meeting REAL LESBIANS. XX I don't think you are a real lesbian Neither do I, but he might still want to meet a real lesbian. No idea why though.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/20/2016 11:56:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Diffident quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: bondageerone I have the same problem, meeting REAL LESBIANS. XX I don't think you are a real lesbian Neither do I, but he might still want to meet a real lesbian. No idea why though. Hahahaha. Online fantacist for sure.

DomStrictMale -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/20/2016 11:28:37 PM)
I've meet some great women via Craigslist and Fetlife. And one or two from here. They majority though are just boring and yes, anyone stupid enough to pay a Fin Dom, a Pro-Domme or any woman for sex is pathetic. Hence why most of the threads are derailed by a few "homesteaders" (meaning they basically live here) who think they're witty, but are actually just vapid. So, most people rarely interact much because of the panhandlers and drama.

seeks2serveBBW -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/24/2016 3:23:13 AM)
You have to understand that D/s is a massive part of the adult sex industry and as such attracts a lot of con artists. A lot of the ''women'' advertising are the D/s equivalent of the con artists who prey on the old and weak in the real world. It's just life and you'll find it everywhere. And don't expect any constructive answers to questions on here because your unlikely to get any. Sites like this are very clicky, you get a lot of regulars using the boards who claim to have amazingly full D/s lives, but if you look at the amount of time they spend on here, how many posts they make? That's debatable. Just remember that to most on here D/s is a business and not a lifestyle, or just pure fantasy.

Bhruic -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/24/2016 7:29:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WMDom26CA All the women I meet want money. What's the deal? Because kink dating is like an arranged marriage, with no one to arrange it for you. It starts with a list of criteria that you want, with no reference to the personality or needs of the other person. It's a tall order. If guys could walk around with their cocks on their sleeves and find enthusiastic women, people would be doing it in the vanilla world as well... but it generally doesn't work. There isn't any shortcut to what you want. You need to put in the time to search for someone who you like as a person, who's personality is compatible, and who wants the same things out of life as you do... and spend the time to get to know them so you can find out if you are sexually compatible. People think there is a short cut to sexual compatibility... and they end up wasting just as much time when they do find someone through a kink site, only to find out later that sexual compatibility was the only compatibility they had. And often, they find out that not even that was true. If you want something real, you have to start from a real place yourself.

AtUrCervix -> RE: Why Is It So Hard To Meet Women On This Site? (10/24/2016 2:07:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Nobody wants to be your fetish delivery system. Because they don't get anything out of it. If you can't offer a woman anything she wants, then expect to pay to get what you want. Or do you walk into restaurants and insist they feed you for free? I do....but that's just me.

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