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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 12:33:35 PM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		I sense a bit of a misunderstanding I think. I, personally, would not accept someone in that sort of time frame. I originally brought it up not as a question of 'Should I do this' but more 'Have others seen things like this and did they know how it turned out'.

MistressSassy : You have the advantage of being a sexy Mistress :D I think profiles are really just starting points, ways to find someone that might be compatible. Naturally it moves on to other forms of communication as things progress.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 12:42:31 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Savage, sure I've seen ads like those before on other sites as well but never had any interaction with them.
They just sound too "dicey" to me.
And for the other part of your question no I don't know anyone who entered such a relationship as the people I knew up North were mostly already involved with other people.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 12:51:06 PM   
slaveintheruff


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Status: offline 		good afternoon!
i agree that one can not learn much until they meet tho i feel that there has to be some time to feel comfortable enough to take the leap and go..it seems most here want to do the meet without speaking much and i believe that is dangerous..am i wrong?

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 1:21:43 PM   
LordBennett


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Status: offline 		Savage,

  Yes I have run across others with profiles simmillar to what you expressed.  Most of the time, insisting on sending them a prepaoid airline ticket answere any doubts immediately.  If they ask for more money for some other reason, I consider it a scam and yes I even tried suggesting I could come get her once and she turned it doiwn and did not reply as she knew she was not going to get any cash from me.

  Admittedly this has occurred over a number of years but I am of the same mindset as you, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.  I have had some say they want to meet me and then never show.  I think you made the right choice.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 1:34:31 PM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		slaveintheruff: I am not sure really, I think that meeting in real life has a different dynamic than online chats and emails. There is a drive in me atleast to meet someone that really interests me relativly quickly as sort of a date, something short maybe only a few hours or a day. But this being life, it is rarely possible to make the universe do as I want. While I can not speak for all, certainly, I would think that some period of emails and probably chats or phone calls would precede any meeting. Really, if someone can not hold a conversation over email in a somewhat interesting manner I am not sure how they will do it in real life which tends to be harder because people are more nervous.

LordBennett: Thank you for that response,  I suppose it is a bit like panhandlers. They ask for spare change and if I have time and money I offer to buy them a meal. No one has ever taken me up on that offer.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 3:04:00 PM   
pissdoll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LordBennett

If they ask for more money for some other reason, I consider it a scam and yes I even tried suggesting I could come get her once and she turned it doiwn and did not reply as she knew she was not going to get any cash from me.



no one ever has to be scammed on one of these sites.  if someone wants to move in with you who you have never met but needs the money...and you have it...fly out to where that person lives and check it out for yourself.

that being said, be prepared that you may be stranded when you get to the airport by a fake, so make sure you have alternate plans for the weekend.

why anyone would even consider moving someone in with them who they have not spent a great amount of face-to-face time with is totally beyond me, but it happens. 

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 9:43:02 PM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		In one of my replies I said that if I was just out of college, had a good job and wasn't married (i.e. no one else to get hurt) I might do it just as an impulsive moment of insanity. But that is not the case right now. I actually did send her a message just to see what she would say but for someone in a time crunch she hasn't even read it yet.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:12:30 PM   
MstrDouglas


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Status: offline 		Savage, not only will you find that kind of profile, but I have found at least two others here that had the same photo on their profiles, with different physical descriptions.  I contacted both of those persons, because I know someone from another site that claims the photo is of her, one immediately deleted the photo, and the other replied and basically ignored my question of the validity of the photo. 
Needless to say, you are going to find all kinds of people from all different places, with all kinds of stories,you just have to "weed through them" and make up your own mind about them.  Good luck in finding whatever it is you are looking for.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:16:21 PM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		Ah now that is interesting and one thing that I included in my email, requests for other photos (not nude or anything) to see the response. I checked google image search just to see if it would pop up there but did not find it.

The search will be worth it, sorting through the chaff as it were.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:26:54 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		People such as my Master have no interest in these forums, so he doesnt post. Don't judge people because they don't post their opinion. Fakes come everywhere,even here.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:28:11 PM   
MstrDouglas


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Status: offline 		The request for more photos to verify is how I know it was from the set of this other slave I am talking with.  It was in the ones I got from her, and then it started showing up on other sites.  Have not tried the Google search, but it does sound like a good place to start. Will have to give it a try.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:28:58 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I have seen these profiles and some are just women or men giving sex for money. If youre suspicious, report it. I did and I was right. If it looks to good to be true, it probably is. Some people on cm have 3 or 4 profiles for various reasons. Best thing to do is go with your gut on this one.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:40:40 PM   
pissdoll


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Status: offline 		it just seems to be a lot of energy wasted on a person who may very well be fake.

i am contacted all the time by fake girls with fake pics who are completely interested in me, if only i will go on cam to masturbate and tell them my dirtiest sexual desires.

i laugh and either delete or send a one line sarcastic response and then move on.

half of the profiles on here are probably fake.  in weeding through the rest of them, 99% are not going to be a fit for any of us individually.

so look for that 1% you will need to sort through to find a possible match.  you're spinning your wheels in the wrong direction, imo.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:46:25 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Pissdoll, that happens to you too!?

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 10:59:40 PM   
pissdoll


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Status: offline 		cutting in on my action now, huh????

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 11:02:06 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		The Sluts!

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 11:12:09 PM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		i joined CM on 2/9 2004.   i hit the chat from time to time, but mostly read the boards, and yet i never posted until the last few months.   Hubby was going thru some mid-life crisis thing, the perfect marriage was dissolving before my eyes, and reading others gave me comfort, but i'd have sooner died than to post and open myself up to the conflicting opinions of everyone, i wasn't well enough to wade thru my OWn conflicting emotions.  :)

So i wouldn't say having a new profile, or being unseen in the message boards isn't exactly a red flag, a lot of people have CM accounts that don't use message boards ever.

As far as this quick-move slave, oh phooey.  she either doesn't understand the concept or she is going to serve one idiot of a "Master".   If she lands one that way, they'll both get what they deserve probably.  A free renter, and a new Landlord.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/23/2006 11:42:16 PM   
TSnGG2dressuup


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

What's even worse is when they actually do move in, and turn out to be a nutcase or a sponger. Or both


yes, or BOTH!

Listen honey bunny,  if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, smells like a duck.... it MIGHT be the goose that laid the Golden Egg.  But do you really think its worth the risk?  Trust One who got a handful of duck turds, it is NOT worth it.

Last night I found two profiles from a poser in my town listing his age as 29 and 39, one as a "life time" slave one as a "Natural Born" Dom.  Same picture HAHA.  Got another loser with a Dom, slave and sub profile going.  Looking for girls, Men and Dommes, depending on which one you read, he's either straight, gay or bi.  And different ages on all 3.  Got another local who is running an ad with pictures swiped online of a male model.  I got him to pull it down finally by threatening to report him.  I'm not even really trying to find these posing loser freaks, I am just trying to protect myself from another con man liar so I'm careful.  I suggest You be careful, too. 

Good luck to You,
Goddess

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/25/2006 12:20:16 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Savage, any "progress" reports? ; )

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 7/25/2006 12:30:32 AM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		Haha, indeed, she read my rather generous offer with only conditions being she send a photo with her and todays paper with the date visible. Not a peep. 

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