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FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 12:39:52 PM   
ilovestarbucks


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Status: offline 		So many people say porn is made for men.

However, on sites like FemDom Empire, and other FemDom sites, everything is geared for sadistic women.
I saw a video where a woman pounds a man's scrotum on a board with a hammer and nail.
Another video where a woman sticks her whole arm, up to her shoulder, into a man's ass.
The man receives no pleasure.
It's all geared for sadistic women.
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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 12:44:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, it's geared for male fantasies. That's why 'lowly worm' and other worthless bullshit sells.

A good number of Dominant women, such as myself, if we watch any porn, it's male on male stuff. Plenty of threads about it. My idea of good porn isn't about males trying to tap the pussy.


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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 12:52:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		But in many of the Femdom porn the man doesn't get any pussy. A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 12:59:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

So many people say porn is made for men.

However, on sites like FemDom Empire, and other FemDom sites, everything is geared for sadistic women.
I saw a video where a woman pounds a man's scrotum on a board with a hammer and nail.
Another video where a woman sticks her whole arm, up to her shoulder, into a man's ass.
The man receives no pleasure.
It's all geared for sadistic women.


Who is to say that some men do not enjoy the fantasy of helplessness conveyed by the image of a scrotum being nailed to a board? You're assumptions are too conventional, perhaps.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 1:03:15 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		It is?? it bores the everliving crap out of me.
It was a good try, in the beginning, it was YAY at last some femdom porn, but English mansion, was male driven, if you listen to the sound track without vid, its not female driven at all, its alll about the male fantasy of a sadistic domme...
Kink.com is male fantasy driven.
I dont like fem on fem porn(any kind), and agree with LP about male on male sadism.
If a guy didnt want his scrote nailed to a board, he wouldnt sign up for it.
And it would be a sexual assault charge...and worse.
that ol consent thing really fucks up your statements.


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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 1:04:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks
But in many of the Femdom porn the man doesn't get any pussy. A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

AKA, things men wanted, anyway.

Dude, go back to your mommy. Wait, where's that chick you met at a function who was going to "teach" you about D/s? How about that "Master's" certificate?

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 1:09:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

But in many of the Femdom porn the man doesn't get any pussy. A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

Which tend to be male fetishes, which is why they end up going to pros and porn To get them fulfilled . Besides you've already proven that you have no idea what women want

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 1:37:34 PM   
ilovestarbucks


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Status: offline 		So you are saying that a sadistic women wouldn't be interested in Femdom porn?

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 1:46:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose it depends on which FemDom clips. In most of the ones in the genre, it's blatant to me that the Domme is just acting and the guy is having the time of his life, which turns me off it. Just because he's not shooting his load doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it! Just because he's in pain doesn't mean he's not enjoying it! As a sadist it stops being fun if I'm putting in all this effort to hurt you and you're enjoying it instead of hurting.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 2:06:42 PM   
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A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

Exactly, because that's what the men who like femdom porn fantasize about. If it were geared towards actual women, then the guy would be making dinner, doing the dishes, scrubbing floors and doing the yard work.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 2:07:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

So you are saying that a sadistic women wouldn't be interested in Femdom porn?

Please show me where I said that.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 2:24:54 PM   
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not female driven at all, its all about the male fantasy of a sadistic domme...



+1 to this.

Like most things, it is designed to appeal to people who will pay money for it. Guess which gender they overwhelmingly tend to be?

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 2:47:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

So you are saying that a sadistic women wouldn't be interested in Femdom porn?

Things might go better for you if you stopped trying to sum up peoples existences with blanket statements like this.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 3:05:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with others that femdom porn is all about male fantasies... Actually, I'd like to find a type of femdom porn that is genuinely designed by women and geared towards female desires... so far I don't think I found a lot, if any of such stuff.
There are some videos in which I suspect there might be an element of genuine catering to female desires and authentic enjoyment from the domme's perspective, but they are very few, and still I am not sure if my assessment is correct.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 3:06:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks
So you are saying that a sadistic women wouldn't be interested in Femdom porn?

I'm not. I'd rather do than watch. Sadism is something I do in the first person sense. Not be a voyeur in the third person sense.

As a further hint, look up some threads under Aakasha's name. There have been plenty of threads about what sadistic women find boring about femdom porn.



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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 4:03:35 PM   
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Does anybody know of any femdom porn that is *incontrovertibly* aimed at femdoms? I'm perennially on the hunt for that. Stuff in which, at minimum, the femdom involved *actually looks likes she's enjoying what she's doing*.

If it exists. (Well, I know it does, in written form at least - but videos?)

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 4:05:41 PM   
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Sadism is something I do in the first person sense. Not be a voyeur in the third person sense.


Yep, I'm the same way with climbing and camping. But I expect you'd see those activities as driven by masochism; therefore not your thing. ;)


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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 4:31:00 PM   
MoxieMcfly


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Status: offline 		Some of the crashpad videos are femdom oriented. But they are also more queer oriented.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 4:57:56 PM   
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Yep, I'm the same way with climbing and camping. But I expect you'd see those activities as driven by masochism; therefore not your thing. ;)


Actually, I've done the kinky camping thing before.


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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 5:52:27 PM   
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Sadism is something I do in the first person sense. Not be a voyeur in the third person sense.


Yep, I'm the same way with climbing and camping. But I expect you'd see those activities as driven by masochism; therefore not your thing. ;)


Nope, I am a masochist and I don't do those things. I see them as driven by insanity. My idea of camping involves a cottage.

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