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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 7:00:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		like diffident said the industry is geared to those that pay males tend to pay much more than the females do so most of what exists is based on what is in demand
i am a masso slave and i enjoy the receiving watching it i just look at how the equipment is made and how i can build it cheaper or better, or how some play is not able to be done in the space its set in like long whips ect how they would get caught during play on things.
ive done the kinky camping it was fun i did a labia infusion for one camper

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/11/2016 7:38:53 PM   
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If you are wondering what a true Femdom is looking for, read what one of the posters wrote, which I agree with 100%.

"Exactly, because that's what the men who like femdom porn fantasize about. If it were geared towards actual women, then the guy would be making dinner, doing the dishes, scrubbing floors and doing the yard work."

In my opinion, if he is unable or unwilling to do this, then he can pay $$$

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 5:21:53 AM   
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not female driven at all, its all about the male fantasy of a sadistic domme...



+1 to this.

Like most things, it is designed to appeal to people who will pay money for it. Guess which gender they overwhelmingly tend to be?

I'm on team "femdom porn is aimed at guys" as well.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 6:37:34 AM   
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A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

Exactly, because that's what the men who like femdom porn fantasize about. If it were geared towards actual women, then the guy would be making dinner, doing the dishes, scrubbing floors and doing the yard work.

^I agree 100%... and the male would be wearing a dress and big bouncy pigtails just for laughs

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 9:17:38 AM   
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A lot of it is about a woman whipping a man or trampling a man, or kicking, etc.

Exactly, because that's what the men who like femdom porn fantasize about. If it were geared towards actual women, then the guy would be making dinner, doing the dishes, scrubbing floors and doing the yard work.

^I agree 100%... and the male would be wearing a dress and big bouncy pigtails just for laughs


The dress and pigtails would not be for me. He's be naked, or naked except for a tiny apron, so I could admire his body as her services my home for me.

Of course, I'd be in an amazing relationship with the guy, and he'd be fit, because that is is what drive my interest and desire.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 9:28:53 AM   
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But since this does not appeal to you, you should be able to craft a profile that stands out.
Focus on how you will serve her.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 10:43:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		All of the above may be true. Certainly the majority of content is made for the audience who pays for it or views it. Some women clearly publish their own stuff, but if you need payment you need a willing audience.

No the problem with most Femdom porn is that it is unbelievable or boring. I'd rather read what people have to say about their lives, what they do and how they feel about it than watch a heavily manufactured scene with a repetitive storyline.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 10:50:44 AM   
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So you are saying that a sadistic women wouldn't be interested in Femdom porn?


Generally not no.

There's very little good Femdom porn out there.

I'm super sadistic, and 99% of the stuff that happens in most Femdom porn I've got no interest in. I have no desire to so most of the CBT that gets done, for instance, though there's forms of CBT which rarely -if ever- get filmed in porn which I enjoy a lot.

I expect fully to be fucked by male slaves, when I want to be, in fact, directing them exactly how, how long, where, etc to fuck me and then hurting them at the same time, is one of the main things I want to do.

Pounding a guy's balls into a board hold no interest, and actually prevents me from doing what I want with him. Sticking my entire arm up his ass is waaaaaaaaay too much effort for something I get nothing out of, and I wouldn't even do to reward him if he was really really good. And yes, it would be a reward for lots of male slaves, and something they constantly fantasize about... the biggest dildo toys on the market are marketed towards men, not women. Especially towards gay men. Men -both from the Top as well as from the sub side- have much more an obsession with 'getting the biggest thing possible' up either hole than women do. I think it's because most men also naturally seem obsessed with cock size.

And then there's the obvious thing that Dizzy and some other women mentioned: my ideal Femdomme porn would involve a lot of the guy performing housework, or other forms of labor. Except that he wouldn't be in a dress, or naked, he'd be wearing a bespoke and magically-always-clean butler's uniform or a 3 piece suit, with a butt plug underneath.

Which is one of the ways you can tell that FemDomme porn isn't made for women btw: if it was, 90% of it would start off with the guy in a suit, before he got naked. In the rest of it, he'd start of wearing stuff like a kilt, or motorcycle jackets and such. In none of it he'd start off naked. Almost all women need that moment of seeing him in a nonsexual context to build enough of a liking/feeling of familiarity to him, before they can then get into seeing him naked and wanting to sexualize him.

The guys would also always have abs you can play xylophone on once you got him out of his suit. Just like female submissives in porn are always attractive. The reason so many male submissive porn starts are rather flabby and unattractive is because the point is that the guys watching the porn can see themselves in the submissive, not that female Tops find him attractive. If the male subs are too attractive, it alienates the male bottom viewers, because they can't identify with him.
The most attractive male bottoms are found in gay porn, because in that case, it's catering to both the Top and the bottom viewer.




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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 11:04:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MaryMaryProDom

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@johnny154

If you are wondering what a true Femdom is looking for, read what one of the posters wrote, which I agree with 100%.

"Exactly, because that's what the men who like femdom porn fantasize about. If it were geared towards actual women, then the guy would be making dinner, doing the dishes, scrubbing floors and doing the yard work."

In my opinion, if he is unable or unwilling to do this, then he can pay $$$


Perhaps I wasn't clear: I'd like to know if anyone *does* know of any femdom porn videos, that are aimed at femdoms themselves. I've never actually found any, to date, that I've felt has definitely fitted that bill.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 11:22:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well my archaic computer crashed mid post so i am not writing a long one. Do i need a pro profile asking for someone to buy me one? Why not all chip in for I am a pauper

Your interpretation of what a femdom is ballcrushings malarkey - its you isnt it? hmm. that aside tis not my definition of it.

A little ball tapping of my gargantuan plums I actually do not mind from time to time, fair enjoy truth be told. I would not rule out a strap-on. But I would draw the line at someone running over my ballsack in a sherman tank...do you really need me to explain why?

Anyone who visits these sites worries me. Indeed you have proven this to case by presuming this is what a femdom is/are. i did nt see any of the women on here agreeing, even the valid pro ones, or am i mistaken Op?

To me you are one of these bad stereotypes I hark on about at times.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/12/2016 11:55:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		YOU like most men are truly pathetic, or are you just attempting to provoke some form of inane contact.
Anyone male/female who needs relies on this kind of stimulation is sad.
Personally I do not know one woman who has ever looked at that kind of trash.
Terri.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 12:30:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Camping porn.... now you're talking!

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 1:13:34 PM   
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Personally I do not know one woman who has ever looked at that kind of trash.

Well based on your complaints, you don't actually know any women period.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 1:16:14 PM   
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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 2:32:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar



Pounding a guy's balls into a board hold no interest, and actually prevents me from doing what I want with him.


I have a friend who says the same thing about guys that want permanent chastity and penis ruining. She likes penis, wants to be able to use it as she likes. But, it's a constant battle finding a male sub that thinks it's okay for her to determine how his penis gets used.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 3:21:32 PM   
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Camping porn.... now you're talking!


Yep, the excitement is intense.




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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 3:27:17 PM   
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I have a friend who says the same thing about guys that want permanent chastity and penis ruining. She likes penis, wants to be able to use it as she likes. But, it's a constant battle finding a male sub that thinks it's okay for her to determine how his penis gets used.


Nothing really works without the tension of the opposites, does it? Strong, confident man in suit, fully in control; gives up control completely, ends up jelly. But can't *start* as (halfway towards) jelly. The energy of it all comes from the tension.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 3:42:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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I have a friend who says the same thing about guys that want permanent chastity and penis ruining. She likes penis, wants to be able to use it as she likes. But, it's a constant battle finding a male sub that thinks it's okay for her to determine how his penis gets used.


Nothing really works without the tension of the opposites, does it? Strong, confident man in suit, fully in control; gives up control completely, ends up jelly. But can't *start* as (halfway towards) jelly. The energy of it all comes from the tension.


I've always been impressed with her subs. They're smart, confident and enjoy giving up control. They serve with poise. She's good at choosing strong men and good at teaching them what she wants from their service.

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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/13/2016 4:26:23 PM   
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RE: FemDom Porn Is Geared For Women - 12/14/2016 6:22:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Pounding a guy's balls into a board hold no interest, and actually prevents me from doing what I want with him.


I have a friend who says the same thing about guys that want permanent chastity and penis ruining. She likes penis, wants to be able to use it as she likes. But, it's a constant battle finding a male sub that thinks it's okay for her to determine how his penis gets used.


Yup. I explain every time a man approaches me, chastity in hand, that I have literally zero interest in a penis not completely under my control, to use as I see fit.


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